@help
20 Years
Upset Cancer
Thanks! He doesn't contact me on a moment's notice though. We see each other every weekend and he has stayed at my house 5 days in a row before lol I just doesn't seem to be a booty call kind of thing at all.
I am 33. I know sex doesn't equal love for men, but the thing is, he often doesn't even want to have sex - just wants to cuddle. LOL He says *I* am the nympho. lol
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I woke up this morning to find a text message from my cancer saying he is so unhappy. I replied and then played my voice mails and he called multiple times while I was sleeping and left a voice mail, so I sent another text about that. Then I went by his house this morning to give him a hug on the way to work but didn't want to wake anyone, so I just kept driving and sent another text telling him I tried to come by and give him a hug. Now I'm hoping when he wakes up he isn't overwhelmed with the 3 texts. Was that too much? I'm just so worried about him. Haven't heard anything from him yet this morning, but his last call was at 1:15 am, so don't expect he's up yet.
By the way, as of now we are only supposed to be FB's - does him trying to talk to me when he's upset mean anything? I so much want to be more. I really care for him. Thanks!