Well...The cancer is back again...

Just when I thought I was cancer free...

I'm not sure why he's made it his mission to destroy me. I've tried so hard to be mature and explain to him why I can't be his FWB and I'd like him to leave me alone.

I don't like the idea of ghosting, but I think I might have to with this one...

Any thoughts?

So extreme amounts of poison is the only option? hmmmm

Posted by Arielle83
I don't get it.

Are you venting or you just can't be assertive?

If you don't want something to happen, don't let it.

Put your pussay on a pedestal.

This seems so hard for so many women, but you own your body.

What some jackass says has no validity on you needing to spread your legs to validate him.

Guard your panties.

Haha, I get that, but I'm more concerned with getting him leave me alone so that I can move on completely. It's like he refuses to let me.

I hate the idea that I have to be a bitch, and/or create a fight.

It's not like I want to remain friends but I don't want to have bad feelings about him, I just want closure and to move on.

Maybe that's my problem...

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Posted by Shellyd238
I hate the idea that I have to be a bitch, and/or create a fight.

It's not like I want to remain friends but I don't want to have bad feelings about him, I just want closure and to move on.

Maybe that's my problem...

You will get closure, when you move on. That´s when all the true insights will hit you and you.

Ofcours he is back because you let him. Nothing more to say about that.

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For me closure will be when I know I'm not going to see or hear from him again. I've tried saying goodbye several times, and explaining my reasons for not wanting to continue. Why can't we just part ways amicably? He's forcing me to be a bitch, maybe so he can claim that he wasn't at fault...fuuuuuuck.

Posted by Admiral
Go to the hospital. I don't understand why you haven't done this yet. If you're sure the cancer is back you have to do chemo again.

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Posted by Arielle83
I don't get it.

Are you venting or you just can't be assertive?

If you don't want something to happen, don't let it.

Put your pussay on a pedestal.

This seems so hard for so many women, but you own your body.

What some jackass says has no validity on you needing to spread your legs to validate him.

Guard your panties.

Haha, I get that, but I'm more concerned with getting him leave me alone so that I can move on completely. It's like he refuses to let me.

As a cancer, I've just had these creeps numbers blocked and disappeared.

If they don't understand no, I'll disappear into the night.

So easy.

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Yup.

Hang in there OP.

Honestly, threaten to call the cops or his parents.