Crab male cancelling plans to attend a family event?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by aj123 on Monday, August 22, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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@aj123
12 Years

What do you think of a crab male (cancer sun, aqua moon, leo venus, taurus mars) cancelling a meet-up (which I initiated and he agreed to about a week ago) to attend a family get together (where a lot of his distant relatives which he doesn't get to see often would be - he says) - he still gave a week's notice and was apologetic.

Known him for 6 months - first time he's even cancelled on a meet-up.

What do you think about this? Nothing to worry about or signs something might not be right?

Just curious.

Thanks

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@firefis1996
10 Years

Wouldn't any one cancel a meet up? Like he can catch up with you any day, family gatherings are a bit harder to come by. Don't think any of it, cancers love their family!

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@aj123
12 Years

Thank you for all your replies so far.

I was just checking to see if this could be any potential red flag indicating loss of interest?

More replies/insight appreciated 🙂

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@newlove
10 Years

Posted by firefis1996
Wouldn't any one cancel a meet up? Like he can catch up with you any day, family gatherings are a bit harder to come by. Don't think any of it, cancers love their family!

This...

OP no red flags visible

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@CancerOnTheCusp
12 Years5,000+ Posts

*bitter narcissistic emulation mode*

Well, he doesn't want to be with you 24/7 and would rather be with family than sit and listen to you talk about what color to paint your toenails. Biggest red flag, ever. Leave him.

*rmulation mode off*

That's normal, especially if it's family he doesn't get to ser often.