What this cancer man is??

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by nysa on Saturday, October 6, 2012 and has 3 replies.

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@nysa
15 Years

Me & my Cancer bf are in relationship from last 4 years..out of which from last 2 years we are in long distance & we meet after 8 months..he never asks for my pic. we just talk on phone...though he claims to marry me & even i had talked to his mom & he wanted to talk to my parents to ask for my hand...but sometimes he is just weird like he will stop calling out of blue..I really don't understand him even after 4 years...please help me understand him..

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@MissAquarius69
14 Years

My boyfriend is a cancer. Girl, cancers are a headache! They are loving and emotional which we women find attractive but their moodiness and selfishness is tough to deal with. Cancer men hate communication and won't speak about anything that is troubling them. They're good as friends and one night standa but i dont reccomend them for relationships. Cancers dont get that the other person in the relationship is important too. I love my boyfriend and its too late to leave because i'll miss him dearly but if i had to pick in another life, i wouldn't choose cancers. They also overindulge and are known for commiting the most crimes due to their troubling nature.

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@ZenBear
14 YearsCancer

Posted by MissAquarius69
My boyfriend is a cancer. Girl, cancers are a headache! They are loving and emotional which we women find attractive but their moodiness and selfishness is tough to deal with. Cancer men hate communication and won't speak about anything that is troubling them. They're good as friends and one night standa but i dont reccomend them for relationships. Cancers dont get that the other person in the relationship is important too. I love my boyfriend and its too late to leave because i'll miss him dearly but if i had to pick in another life, i wouldn't choose cancers. They also overindulge and are known for commiting the most crimes due to their troubling nature.

rofl, this post is hilarious. "Don't date them, but I wont leave mine because I'm in love" lolwut—

Cancer's aren't all bad, and I guarantee you can find just as many reasons not to date every other sign too.

@OP: Don't over-think it. If he stops calling out of the blue, call him. It's usually not a game, despite everyone instantly assuming so, we Cancers just get distracted by our lives/something that's bothering us and so we don't feel like talking. It's a introverted spell, not a manipulation.

So many people come to these forums asking "What should I do?" but nobody here has all the information on your situation, so any advice we give will be misinformed and based entirely on assumptions.

If you're in love just go with the flow and be happy together.

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@ZenBear
14 YearsCancer

Posted by Crabmoon
Hey Zen, I was unable to answer this thread before cause I was laughing so hard I couldn't type LOL.
Let's translate our aqua friend's message :
So I say cancers are like drug, you should never try them our you'll get addicted to them. However I already have mine and i'm addicted to him( cant leave him then) but I'm warning you to stay back they're not good for your health. After that said, please do what I say and nod what I do ...

Hi Crabmoon! 😄

Haha, excellent translation 😛