What would u do?

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BMalv73723
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21 Years

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Hi, I have a situation in my life with a woman. I met this woman in November and come to find out we have the same birthday just different years (mine 7/14/64 and hers 7/14/76). My first question do you think that is unique, faith or what is your opinion. Well anyway after meeting her she gave me her number and I called her everyday for about 2 weeks. I do not know why I did this usually after a couple of days I would have gave up. Now don't get me wrong she is very sexy and beautiful but there was something about her. So after finally reaching her we became involved with each other. She started staying over alot now this is when it gets messed up. While I was gone I would get phone calls from other women who I was not involved with at all. Truly they were just friends. I tried explaining this to her. So she told them to stop calling. So I assume she thought I was seeing other women behind her back. Honestly I never did or would do anything like that behind her back. You see she wanted me for me not what I had or anything like that. She wanted the same things I wanted out of life. She told me that oneday she will be my wife. Oh yeah she has four kids which I accept as my own. Now this was different for me because I said would not be with a woman with alot kids. So she thought thinking I was playing with her and taking her for granted. Believe me I was not I just could explain how I felt at the time because the way I felt was something that I never felt before. Now I know that all it was that I am in love with her and have been from day one it seems like I just did not know what it was. Well she has moved with a girlfriend and now she is seeing another man. It hurts a little but I am not mad at her at all. Now don't get me wrong I am not being foolish but something inside of me tells me not to give up on her because she will be back. I always have told her I would not give up on her like other men in her life. I miss her so much. Sure I could find someone else but she is the one. Just the other night she called me and I told her that I love her and she told me she loved me back. YOu must understand she has not had a man love her the way I do. So I guess it scares her you know she thinks that is to good to be true. I really love her and I want to be with her forever. What would u do?
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I would try to be patient. It doesn't sound like fate is in your favor. It sounds like you two connected very deeply. She is right to feel insecure. I was dating a cancer male and he kept on telling me about all these female friends. At first I thought I was special and lucky to be with him. Then I realized he was enjoying the attention and he should've known better. If she knows you that well then she should've trusted you. I trusted him at first but then it got to be so difficult. It was easier for me to give up on him then to actually try to understand him. He's a wonderful man but I think men should do the pursueing and I am not into waiting around for a guy to comfort his friends. Good luck. It's a tough decision. Sounds like your lady friend has let go. She's dating someone new.