when being ignored what do you do

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by zantetzuken on Saturday, March 15, 2008 and has 14 replies.

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@zantetzuken
18 YearsLeo

As a leo I can't stand being ignored, it drives me nuts knowing that someone would do that to me. How do you cancers out there react when being ignored. Do you not care that much or do you go check out the problem.

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@scorpio978
20 YearsScorpio

i hate being ignored, and i got a lot of that treatment from my cancer guy in the past.....i treated him the same(ignoring him), then after a while he addressed the matter(he didn't like it), so now he has never done it again!!!
i would really try and keep myself busy with something that catches my entire attention, otherwise i blow up, i am really curious to hear the other cancers input(my moon is also cancer.....lol)

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@scorpio978
20 YearsScorpio

crab23, good to see you again.....
leokitten, same here, if i do not check my phone or if busy, he sends me so many texts as if he is desperate, so impatient, he is so afraid i ignore him....lol
i thought he was ignoring me because he can be upset with me or something but i am glad to read that it is not the case, also i am sure that if a cancer doesn't like you, or if he is not interested he will make sure that you know it.....

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@imitationoflyfe
18 Years500+ Posts

I hate being ignored. Especially by a significant other. Most the time I find something 2 occupy my mind. Other times I call in the second string. Fill the silence with other people.

Other times I get annoyed and ignore the person right back. NO ONE can ignore like a cancer! When the other person's over it and ready to talk, I've probably started ignoring them too.

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

being ignored? I'm afraid I can't identify with that type of experience lol

I'm indifferent to someone ignoring me....never go out of my way to get someone's attention....I suppose it's my magnetism....🙂

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

in otherwords, when someone ignores you, ignore the fact that they're ignore you!! It never fails! lol

Yeap! I have to agree with this one! If I am being ignored, I just back WAY off of the person until they figure out what they want from me. I will not move forward.

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@Crabby2thebone
18 Years

I am pretty good at ignoring others, they usually think its because I hate them but in reality its me carefully studying them.

but when i am ignore I HATE IT! which usually means the other person will get a drink or feel the need to drink because I can be quiet annoying when I want to be, and when ignored I make the other person miserable until they answer me