Who's sick of it?

I'm so tired of Cancers being described as...

Shy
Introvert
Overly Emotional
Over Sensitive
Inhibited
Clingy
Yada...Yada...Yada...

What up with these traits? Of course I can be emotional and sensitive, but they make Cancers out be pathetic sometimes. I'm a social butterfly and when the passion is released I'm the most uninhibited.

Do any other Cancers feel like we get a bad rap on being these emotional wrecks? Are there any Cancers there that feel that these traits describe them to a T?

Emotional dependence on other people for validation of how you are suppose to feel is the only trait that is overly disturbing.

Why do you even care how somebody views you, to even make you feel sick about it?

that is because people do not take the time to know you, cancers.....you are adorable, whoever disagrees....let that be their loss!!!!!!

Im sick of it too........the traits mentioned above just dont apply always because 8 out of 10 CANCERIANS would always over come them over the time easily.......Im a SHY CANCERIAN but 9 out of 10 people would never be able notice it bcoz we[I] have adapted to socialize........the only cancerian trait which could be noticed easily is the one that we are damn "MOODY"........and i personally dont think cancerians enjoy to chase women or play indirect mind games,they would rather love to easily get them.......lets see how many cancerian pals agreee—??

my mom doesn't really fit the typical cancer description. neither does my co-worker.

It doesn't really bother me. I love it when people think they have me all figured out. Gives me more room to maneuver

"i personally dont think cancerians enjoy to chase women or play indirect mind games,they would rather love to easily get them"

huh? lol

every day i jus keep poppin my collar poppin my collar, i dont give a shit what people think,lol. Fuk dat. There ae times when emotion plays a part because we feel strongly about a topic or someone and we are defensive. BUt hey keep poppin dat collar and dust dem shoulders,if u feelin like a pimp.

What I don't understand is why cancers get so worked up over people who think these are negative traits, and pay no attention to people who love you for them...NOT in spite of them.... We all have qualities no matter what our sign that will turn some people off... so why not let those people go their own way and appreciate the ones who love us for who we are? I'm not a cancer but I've gotten fed up over the years of people telling me what my "problem" is... I don't think I have any problems... I think I need to not worry about the people who think that way and only concern myself with people who love me for ME [although I wholeheartedly admit that is my greatesdt task in this lifetime... not caring what people think... but I'm making a good go of it....]

But in short - embrace your qualities, good or bad, regardless of what some people consider "negative" and offer all that you have to give to people who will appreciate it and hold you close to their hearts no matter what.

Also, I'm noticing this add at the bottom of the page here that says "what does your soul look like?".... mine is BEAUTIFUL... how about yours?

hey crab - long time 🙂

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