Which would you pefer...............

Which would you pefer a great looking mate who can make you quiver by their touch, is a good friend, and an out of this world lover, but rarely wants it or an adequately attractive mate who worships your presence, revels in your knowledge and wants to satisfy your needs,but whom your hormones aren't affected?

those choices are equally unnacceptable. Overall I'll take the adequately attractive person that wants to satisfy me all the time.....that means more in the long run than some frigid arm piece. I've dated a few of those......in the end they're worthless.

I have been asking myself a question that is very similar to yours:

Should you marry the right person? or love the wrong one?

The right person can be seen as the one that you feel confident that will not hurt you, whereas the wrong one will...

I dated a "right person" for three years and it eventually ended, because no matter how hard I tried, I could never love him as much as he loved me... I did not feel sexually attracted to him, and that is something that is essential in a relationship!!! AND you end up hurting them!!

On the other hand, I also dated someone that was the "wrong person" (and I knew it from the start), and ended up getting hurt myself!

You mentioned, "...great looking mate who can make you quiver by their touch, is a good friend..."

a good friend? I would say that you are most probably putting your friendship with this person on line... Ask yourself this question - Would I rather have him as a friend or not have him at all?

"...and an out of this world lover, but rarely wants it..." - do you mean that he rarely wants it because you make the first move? or because he just wants it when it suits him?

If the answer is:
1 -you make the first move - he may actually like you, but may be scared...OR may just be having fun because you up to it!
2 - he wants it when it suits him - then I think he is being selfish and diregards your friendship

what star signs are they? an what star sign are you?