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How would you like your partner to be? What is the sign in your 7th house?
What Does Your 7th House Sign Reveal About Your Relationship Needs
Your 7th house sign indicates the qualities you seek in a partner. For Cancer, emotional connection, empathy, and intimacy are essential. It highlights the importance of nurturing, closeness, and sharing feelings in your relationships. Understanding this can help you attract partners who fulfill your emotional needs and create meaningful bonds.
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Taurus 7th house.
Very much so of what the Taurus energy represents minus too much stubbornness and a little more of a fun energy.
Taurus 7th house.
Very much so of what the Taurus energy represents minus too much stubbornness and a little more of a fun energy.
so maybe too you like things to go nice and steady maybe? slow at an even pace?
crave doing things that have to do with the senses too/
Aries although it starts in pisces if i can remember
I like women with strong character. Not submissive and can enforce equality
My gf is libra sun, pisces moon and she is like this. Her 7th house is leo
Looks like we got the opposite of our 7th houses. But my sun is in 5th house and opposites are the closes thing to each other
ohhhh ok. what do you feel about people in your circle or those you know as soft or those who
struggle to be heard? I know someone who has this and always curious to ask this.
Cancer, and just like it describes in the literature. 😊
do you agree with me too (my first post)? 😊
i have that as well
Stable - Taurus
I see. Nothing that is always dramatic or chaotic?
Aquarius- yes... I'm not even sure how that would work.
Maybe a relationship that is different and doesn't go by societal measures....
maybe even you crave someone who is unique and doesn't copy what everyone else is doing...
going from their own drum beat?
someone who is strange to everyone else but not to you 🙂
Scorpio 7th house cusp.
I'm all in so you gotta be all in.
Scorpio descendant
It's complicated.
do you crave a full merge with someone? someone who knows how to connect with you
and you with them on all levels?
Scorpio 7th house cusp.
I'm all in so you gotta be all in.
wow. your moon is there too If I'm correct?
so like a full merge...you in them..them in you in a sense...
nothing that is superficial level. you must connect on a deep deep level.
I would say too that transformation ..your evolution is important through endings too. maybe(?)
My 7th house is in Scorpio.
Conversations/Secrets/sex will more than likely be private, intense and on the deepest level.
thinkin of someone now who has this ❤️.
so many Scorpio 7th housers here 🙂
Scorpio 7th house cusp.
I'm all in so you gotta be all in.
wow. your moon is there too If I'm correct?
so like a full merge...you in them..them in you in a sense...
nothing that is superficial level. you must connect on a deep deep level.
I would say too that transformation ..your evolution is important through endings too. maybe(?)
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I dont do superficial friendships or relationships.
There must be intensity, consistently.
We have to match each others efforts.
No cowards. Must be brave
Scorpio 7th
A healer/mystic
🌟
I’m 1/2 Cancer & 1/2 Leo in the 7th house.
I really have a partnership type relationship with Leos I’ve dated. Cancer not so much.
Taurus 7th house.
Very much so of what the Taurus energy represents minus too much stubbornness and a little more of a fun energy.
so maybe too you like things to go nice and steady maybe? slow at an even pace?
crave doing things that have to do with the senses too/
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I do...I don't like to rush anything.
Possibly...I like food so I have that in common with their energy 😂
Taurus 7th house.
Very much so of what the Taurus energy represents minus too much stubbornness and a little more of a fun energy.
so maybe too you like things to go nice and steady maybe? slow at an even pace?
crave doing things that have to do with the senses too/
I do...I don't like to rush anything.
Possibly...I like food so I have that in common with their energy 😂
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🙂 yes
I meant to type:
"crave doing things [with them] that have to do with the senses too/"
going out to eat with them...watching something that means something...listening to good music together...
pleasure through the senses with partner *because it creates unforgettable memories too*
"The Seventh House in Capricorn:
Even though the seventh house in Capricorn often speaks of restrictions and characters that are hard to combine with one’s core personality, it gives a certain sense of responsibility and patience towards other people. With enough rest and solitude, this is someone who can predict other people’s behavior and approach them in a way that makes everyone feel protected and safe. The main challenge here is in breaking all walls around the heart of the chart’s owner and people in their life. Every hurt will reflect in the inability to form a close relationship, and memories tend to distract a person from building a future they wish for. If there is guilt involved and they think they have made too many mistakes, these individuals could even give up on love, thinking they don’t deserve it or they are unworthy of those who’d make them truly happy. Each lesson learned here has to be deep and complete, while one has to always make progress overcoming the static need to stand in one place, tied to those who don’t make them smile."
Oh, joy. And I blamed it all on my Scorpio moon. Lol.
do you crave someone who is older than you? or if same age or younger..they seem like an old soul?
has control of their emotions...
Just...relationships that are mature too?
I’m 1/2 Cancer & 1/2 Leo in the 7th house.
I really have a partnership type relationship with Leos I’ve dated. Cancer not so much.
interesting so...a very warm sort of relationship...
someone maybe who is able to have a strong presents? respect your presents
but also know how to slow things down and just learn how to be in the moment with you?
at home? comfortable and cuddle? Just me mixing the leo and cancer energy here...
Taurus 7th house.
Very much so of what the Taurus energy represents minus too much stubbornness and a little more of a fun energy.
so maybe too you like things to go nice and steady maybe? slow at an even pace?
crave doing things that have to do with the senses too/
I do...I don't like to rush anything.
Possibly...I like food so I have that in common with their energy 😂
🙂 yes
I meant to type:
"crave doing things [with them] that have to do with the senses too/"
going out to eat with them...watching something that means something...listening to good music together...
pleasure through the senses with partner *because it creates unforgettable memories too*
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Yes and no? I need a little excitement and while I do like this things eventually I'd get bored and stir the pot so to speak
Scorpio...I like the energy. I can see myself with one that messages well with me.
do you crave someone who makes you feel their energy within you...
maybe even influence an orgasm just by energy alone? someone deep within?
I’m 1/2 Cancer & 1/2 Leo in the 7th house.
I really have a partnership type relationship with Leos I’ve dated. Cancer not so much.
interesting so...a very warm sort of relationship...
someone maybe who is able to have a strong presents? respect your presents
but also know how to slow things down and just learn how to be in the moment with you?
at home? comfortable and cuddle? Just me mixing the leo and cancer energy here...
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Yes that’s pretty accurate. I like comfortable and cuddling. Two strong individuals respecting each other & listening to each other’s opinions. Being able to be vulnerable &be yourself, allowed your choices. Also having fun & exploring 🙂
The two Leo’s it was very much like this and was an environment of accepting each other as is and encouraging growth. The two Cancers wanted to control things/me or else they could not function in the relationship. Also they are bit too much for me, Not very accepting.
But I think you are right about a combination of those energies.
Aquarius- yes... I'm not even sure how that would work.
Mines also Aquarius. Not sure what that means really...
My 7th house is Aries. Makes sense. I have always been attracted to strong women cause Im a strong personality too.
My partner is a Libra. Her Mars is in Virgo. Im a Virgo Sun.
Cap descendent
My descendant is in Capricorn, but obviously - the 7th house doesn't show the sign of people we're meant to partner with. Anyway, if there's something i can relate to this astro-sign (or maybe that would be more fitting for its ruling planet - Saturn) - that would be... the way i feel about the limited time i have left... 😔
The next line may seem like an obvious cliche - but it's also an obvious truth, as in... "life is short, and... old age is a even bigger lottery (compared to our youth)". That being said... i don't trust the way i feel about people anymore - not unless that proves to be something real for a change (instead of another waste of time - cause that's just it... i don't have any more time to waste - on people who take my life and my time for granted). So, who knows... someone who's truly worthy of this song - i guess...
so much love here 🙂
❤️
I'll respond in a bit to everyone. hugs* everyone. finishing up work .
My 6th and 7th house are in Cancer. Both houses are empty. Leo is eclipsed in the 7th. My chart is almost all air so imagine my initial disdain.
I hate having 7th house Cancer and a double dose no less. Partners have been emotional.
When single, emotional men. My husband is a Cancer Moon and I still cringe at his displays. I've witnessed so many men cry. Why me?
I guess there are some good points. But, I am resentful that in my developmental stages in life, society, culture, etc. painted women this way and men as stoic. And, it may be true. But, it is absolutelt not true for me and I was not prepared.
What gets me is the men I've been involved with put on a good societal face. Next thing you know, I'm naked holding a man twice my size as he cries. Even a fling ends in locked arm cuddling. Or, they throw tantrums...crying on the phone...screaming on the phone...
This is my fate. I couldn't escape it.
One thing good about men with "great emotional depth" is they are often very perceptive of others. I've had men with Moon in all.Water signs.... and they almost always had Moon square Venus.
I think it's my tits.
No idea how I would like my partner to be, not in my hands anymore.
Virgo 7th
hmmm
Virgo in 7th...
Do you try to find the perfect one? or have high standards for a match?
Or Maybe you like to be close to those who always try to thrive to perfect themselves
and aim for something greater in what ever that thing is? I also feel you may like someone more reserved and with class?
Aquarius- yes... I'm not even sure how that would work.
Mines also Aquarius. Not sure what that means really...
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Aside from what I suggested with @Serapis...
Where maybe you tend to love or enjoy those who are original in their own way?
Also, someone who goes about life in a different way and maybe someone who appreciates
your originality too? someone who doesn't look down on you for that but craves you for it as well?
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96
My 7th house is in pisces! It's so funny because I tend to look for men who need help! I like to care for the person I'm with. In my past relationship, I allowed myself to get walked all over because I decided to forgive the person again and again and again.
I like someone who is more spiritual and loving. Someone who is empathetic and sensual. A man I can combine my soul with. However, I also want a man who is a man's man if that makes sense. A guy who wants to protect his family and put his family first. I also want a man who is morally responsible.
wow spot on I think you described this placement perfect to the T 🙂
gemini in 7th. i want a leo partner who is super humble and sweet (cough). someone who's romantic but also an intellectual. ❤️
My 7th house is Aries. Makes sense. I have always been attracted to strong women cause Im a strong personality too.
My partner is a Libra. Her Mars is in Virgo. Im a Virgo Sun.
wow
Do you tend to find it easy to stick up for others?
and even like when people stick up for you too?
just people who are strong and able to get the job done when able?
gemini in 7th. i want a leo partner who is super humble and sweet (cough). someone who's romantic but also an intellectual. ❤️
what about people who are inquisitive?
Do you like people who make you think?
And do you feel like you need to conversate to keep the relationship alive?
I mean, we all do to a certain extent but I mean, with you, does the life of the
relationship depend on conversation and sharing ideas? This is just me trying
to look through your 7th house Gemini Cusp?
gemini in 7th. i want a leo partner who is super humble and sweet (cough). someone who's romantic but also an intellectual. ❤️
what about people who are inquisitive?
Do you like people who make you think?
And do you feel like you need to conversate to keep the relationship alive?
I mean, we all do to a certain extent but I mean, with you, does the life of the
relationship depend on conversation and sharing ideas? This is just me trying
to look through your 7th house Gemini Cusp?
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yes i like when people converse with me and share their ideas/ experiences/stories that they had in the past. it really intriguing and cute. when i understand their thoughts/feelings, it feels like we have gotten closer and we understand one another more which is important to me in a relationship
My descendant is in Capricorn, but obviously - the 7th house doesn't show the sign of people we're meant to partner with. Anyway, if there's something i can relate to this astro-sign (or maybe that would be more fitting for its ruling planet - Saturn) - that would be... the way i feel about the limited time i have to spare... 😔
The next line may seem like an obvious cliche - but it's also an obvious truth, as in... "life is short, and... old age is a even bigger lottery (compared to our youth)". That being said... i don't trust the way i feel about people anymore - not unless that proves to be something real for a change (instead of another waste of time - cause that's just it... i don't have any more time to waste - on people who take my life and my time for granted). So, who knows... someone that's truly worthy of this song - i guess...
wow thank you!
listening to the song now.
Wow this makes sense. Capricorn in the 7th house..
And Saturn being the ruler of Capricorn, it makes sense to
have "time" be an important aspect because time is the most valuable asset
we have. Saturn rules time and you just would like to be with someone who is worth
spending that time with. Someone who appreciates spending their time with you too.
not feeling like you are wasting it. So this may even mean you don't look for people
younger than you either or those who haven't went through their saturn return because
their understanding of time and being "realistic" hasn't really been grasped yet.
They are still just happily making mistakes and just a bit too care free (in general) for you?
More likely to be with those who are older than you than someone younger?
gemini in 7th. i want a leo partner who is super humble and sweet (cough). someone who's romantic but also an intellectual. ❤️
what about people who are inquisitive?
Do you like people who make you think?
And do you feel like you need to conversate to keep the relationship alive?
I mean, we all do to a certain extent but I mean, with you, does the life of the
relationship depend on conversation and sharing ideas? This is just me trying
to look through your 7th house Gemini Cusp?
yes i like when people converse with me and share their ideas/ experiences/stories that they had in the past. it really intriguing and cute. when i understand their thoughts/feelings, it feels like we have gotten closer and we understand one another more which is important to me in a relationship
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🙂
my granny is like this.
She has Gemini in her 7th house too 🙂
Cuddly and affectionate. Teamwork. Emotionally available yet stable. Cares about hygiene. Good with kids and money. Protector. Goofball.
7th house in Taurus
aw
and I'm sure also no chaos what so ever in the relationship is allowed?
You love things to be steady and predicable. zero surprises right?
at least surprises that mean an earthquake to the stability of things?
My 6th and 7th house are in Cancer. Both houses are empty. Leo is eclipsed in the 7th. My chart is almost all air so imagine my initial disdain.
I hate having 7th house Cancer and a double dose no less. Partners have been emotional.
When single, emotional men. My husband is a Cancer Moon and I still cringe at his displays. I've witnessed so many men cry. Why me?
I guess there are some good points. But, I am resentful that in my developmental stages in life, society, culture, etc. painted women this way and men as stoic. And, it may be true. But, it is absolutelt not true for me and I was not prepared.
What gets me is the men I've been involved with put on a good societal face. Next thing you know, I'm naked holding a man twice my size as he cries. Even a fling ends in locked arm cuddling. Or, they throw tantrums...crying on the phone...screaming on the phone...
This is my fate. I couldn't escape it.
One thing good about men with "great emotional depth" is they are often very perceptive of others. I've had men with Moon in all.Water signs.... and they almost always had Moon square Venus.
I think it's my tits.
hahahah!!!!!
not laughing at you but just how you describe it...
I definitely just think you like the positive side to it of course....The understanding of the cancer energy
in your 7th house.
You know, men who enjoy spending time with you...cuddling...being home with you...and maybe most
important men who understand empathy and know how to sense what you are feeling and respect that
Gemini 8th house. I'm super into intellectual men yeah. Teachers nerdy guys etc.
7th*
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Same.
I always used to find it gross because I can't stand Gemini people and could never imagine being in a relationship with one. But it definitely makes sense when you look at the nature of the sign in the 7th house. My partners have to be intellectual and mentally stimulating. They've always been the type to have masters completed at minimum or pursuing some kind of post-grad.
My 6th and 7th house are in Cancer. Both houses are empty. Leo is eclipsed in the 7th. My chart is almost all air so imagine my initial disdain.
I hate having 7th house Cancer and a double dose no less. Partners have been emotional.
When single, emotional men. My husband is a Cancer Moon and I still cringe at his displays. I've witnessed so many men cry. Why me?
I guess there are some good points. But, I am resentful that in my developmental stages in life, society, culture, etc. painted women this way and men as stoic. And, it may be true. But, it is absolutelt not true for me and I was not prepared.
What gets me is the men I've been involved with put on a good societal face. Next thing you know, I'm naked holding a man twice my size as he cries. Even a fling ends in locked arm cuddling. Or, they throw tantrums...crying on the phone...screaming on the phone...
This is my fate. I couldn't escape it.
One thing good about men with "great emotional depth" is they are often very perceptive of others. I've had men with Moon in all.Water signs.... and they almost always had Moon square Venus.
I think it's my tits.
hahahah!!!!!
not laughing at you but just how you describe it...
I definitely just think you like the positive side to it of course....The understanding of the cancer energy
in your 7th house.
You know, men who enjoy spending time with you...cuddling...being home with you...and maybe most
important men who understand empathy and know how to sense what you are feeling and respect that
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I had no choice. This is what I always get. I don't know men any other way. When I dated, I waited for it... There was no shallow end of the pool. Everything's so raw and open... even when they try to control themselves.
But, there is good and I'm afraid that I may be in the way of more good... as they have and he does try to adjust to me.
I have often wondered why a watery, water Moon man would want me (cause I never initiated). Sometimes I think it's because there's plenty of room for their emotions to run wild and free without competition or rare need to accomodate another's emotions... I've had to tell my husband, "hey buddy, you're not the only one who feels around here."
But, they write and say the most deeply loving original heartfelt words and their emotional fortitude fires some true passion and heroics.
They just don't understand the 5 foot 3 view. Cause big passionate guys feeling seems intense to me whether positive or negative.
I might have made a choice somewhere as child... somewhere in my swooning over music and poetry...
... and didn't know what that looks like in real life.
Libra in 7th, damn libra woman are my kryptonite.
My 7th is in Scorpio.
What does that say about what I’m into?
My 7th is in Scorpio.
What does that say about what I’m into?
The Seventh House in Scorpio
With the seventh house set in the sign of Scorpio, ultimate intimacy is needed in order for the person to find satisfaction. This is a position very hard to please and the nature of the first house already shows the ability to create tender intimacy and closeness, usually dismissed and diminished by others. The trick to finding happiness with the position such as this one hides in the Moon’s pool of emotion, love for Self and the ability to forgive, forget, and make changes when the right time for them comes. Once this person sets deserved satisfaction on the top of their priority ladder, things will become easier and ties to other people will fade while a healthy relationship with their own life, decisions, and choices becomes imperative. Until then, jealousy and possessive relationships are inevitable, while happiness becomes this distant light seen from the underground ruled by Scorpio.
My 7th is in Scorpio.
What does that say about what I’m into?
The Seventh House in Scorpio
With the seventh house set in the sign of Scorpio, ultimate intimacy is needed in order for the person to find satisfaction. This is a position very hard to please and the nature of the first house already shows the ability to create tender intimacy and closeness, usually dismissed and diminished by others. The trick to finding happiness with the position such as this one hides in the Moon’s pool of emotion, love for Self and the ability to forgive, forget, and make changes when the right time for them comes. Once this person sets deserved satisfaction on the top of their priority ladder, things will become easier and ties to other people will fade while a healthy relationship with their own life, decisions, and choices becomes imperative. Until then, jealousy and possessive relationships are inevitable, while happiness becomes this distant light seen from the underground ruled by Scorpio.
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That makes a lot of sense. Thank you! 😘
Gemini 7th House- I like men that are intelligent and can hold interesting conversations. Sense of humor is a plus 🙂
Aries.... and yes.
I want someone super direct, confident, outgoing, passionate, in-my-face about their feeling, s and a little bit wild!
My 7th is in Scorpio.
What does that say about what I’m into?
The Seventh House in Scorpio
With the seventh house set in the sign of Scorpio, ultimate intimacy is needed in order for the person to find satisfaction. This is a position very hard to please and the nature of the first house already shows the ability to create tender intimacy and closeness, usually dismissed and diminished by others. The trick to finding happiness with the position such as this one hides in the Moon’s pool of emotion, love for Self and the ability to forgive, forget, and make changes when the right time for them comes. Once this person sets deserved satisfaction on the top of their priority ladder, things will become easier and ties to other people will fade while a healthy relationship with their own life, decisions, and choices becomes imperative. Until then, jealousy and possessive relationships are inevitable, while happiness becomes this distant light seen from the underground ruled by Scorpio.
That makes a lot of sense. Thank you! 😘
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Welcome 🙂
My 7th house is Cancer so it's not necessarily about me craving this sun
sign but instead craving this energy in my relationships.
Cuddles, just being home with them...being mushy mushy... empathy...
Sharing emotions. Close friends empathy is very important.
I have Cancer in the 7th house and Venus in Cancer. I definitely want all of that.
I want stability, trust, comfort, compassion, empathy, connection, passion, communication, fun, playful banter, all the good stuff. 😍😍😍
House VII in Pisces
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My 7th house is Cancer so it's not necessarily about me craving this sun
sign but instead craving this energy in my relationships.
Cuddles, just being home with them...being mushy mushy... empathy...
Sharing emotions. Close friends empathy is very important.