Why do we always go back?

When will we learn to just walk away?

For me, it''s when I've tried everything, cried a thousand tears, and broken up soo many times that even my friends/family would have to ask if were still together...it's at that point I say goodbye and never look back. Does anyone else go through this? I also either have a relationship for a couple weeks or a few years...no in-between. Is that normal Cancer behavior?

Posted by Moonbutter
For me, it''s when I've tried everything, cried a thousand tears, and broken up soo many times that even my friends/family would have to ask if were still together...it's at that point I say goodbye and never look back. Does anyone else go through this? I also either have a relationship for a couple weeks or a few years...no in-between. Is that normal Cancer behavior?

I belive it could be, but some cancers are tough and cold to do the walk away even to minor provocation

Yes, fullwaterpisces I agree with you...which I think is why I either have extremely short term relationships (ie:they were too boring/too sexual) or long term where I've met them at work or something and it progressed slowly...I dunno maybe it's my Leo Venus/Gem Mars...?

I don't break up and go back. I hash it out until it's obvious there's nothing worth saving and then I'm done. Gone.

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because we're masochists

Cancer's always give people chances I know I do, I only give so many then I cut the person off good bye don't need you in my life.

I'm the same as MoonArtist, my aqua friend is mad at me I decided I cut her off no more.

Posted by MoonArtist
I don't break up and go back. I hash it out until it's obvious there's nothing worth saving and then I'm done. Gone.

Yup.

I ask myself the same thing. I told my cancer man to leave me alone after he friend zoned me for the 3rd time, and he just won't stop talking to me. What's the point? He doesn't want me but he won't let me go.

Posted by Libralady237
I ask myself the same thing. I told my cancer man to leave me alone after he friend zoned me for the 3rd time, and he just won't stop talking to me. What's the point? He doesn't want me but he won't let me go.

Why wait for him to let go? Do it for him.