Worried cancer and aries is a bad idea....

Ok so there is this guy who is an aries (27 soon to be 28), I am a cancer woman(23). So I bartend at this really nice spot and thats where I met him, this was 2 months ago. The first time we met, I was working of course but everytime I was free I would walk over to him and talk, we had great conversation, I could not keep myself away from him; I forgot to mention he is extremely handsome omg!!! Ok so anyway, the very first time we met he said to me "you're going to be my baby one day" of course I brushed it off like "yea whatever" Now two months later still friends I am really starting to like him; he's extremely funny, and I am the type who loves to laugh until my stomach hurts. And he's very affectionate, loves to hold hands, he kisses me on my forhead, and hugs me to the point where he doesn't want to let go. He comes to my job just about every fri and or sat hanging out with me, and then he always waits for me until I get off from work at 5 sometimes 5:30 in the morning. He's very protective of me as well, and since I bartend he always ask if I am ok, is their anyone who is bothering me. He's really sweet. There would be times when I wouldn't hear for him for days, and then days later he will call or come to my job still wanting to give and get attention.

Ok so the other morning he waited for me to get off from work to take me home, and we spent the night together; NO we didnt have sex we just kissed and held each other until we fell asleep, I've learned it's better to wait then rush and I also feel there is more to learn, I don't want to jump in too fast, and of course I am a bit skeptical because I've had relations with an aries guy once before (although he was younger) he was a pathological liar and a cheat. So what do you guys think? Is it a good idea to continue to allow myself to like this guy? I mean honestly eversince he spent the night with me I cannot get him off my mind, and I remember him telling me that things are going to be this way more often, he's going to be under me until I get tired of him (now I am not sure if I believe that though). Help me out guys. Thanks

Well you've known this guy for a couple months...he's treated you well, is protective of you, and not pressured you for sex or left you alone for not having it with him overnight. I say screw your past and give it a try. Don't put too much stock in the astrology of it.....because even w hen considering astrology there are a LOT of factors other than sun sign and few people take the time to get a complete reading in the first place...for all you know this guy could be a pisces rising with a scorpio moon.....or YOU could have like 5 planets in aries.....so if the vibe is good give it a shot....when was the last time you had a connection this great? Don't let the past screw your future..if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out.....but don't miss an opportunity because you're scared of the unknown...

ok there is defintely a problem now; so he calls me at two this morning telling me he got arrested for no reason. ok let me say i dont deal with guys who have been in jail no matter what. the other day he was suppose to come see me and i didnt hear from him until the next day and he comes to my job telling me that he was pulled over and didnt have his id and they locked him up. besides all the good things that i mentioned about him i must say that there is always something crazy going on with him. and to get locked up for no reason, yea right i dont believe it at all. its all coming back to me when i was with an aries guy i remember he always had stories, he would lie even when i knew the truth.im sorry this may sound selfish but im not into helping any guy right now especially a guy who gets locked up which seems to me is on a regular basis.

well y eah that is a problem...and even if the infractions are small a pattern with being locked up is indicative of a character problem. Proceed with caution.....but don't be too harsh until you know all of the information.

i actually feel its best to leave him alone while i am unattached. me being a cancer once i get attached its hard to let go, so since its easy now i should just let go. i dont want to be that one he will have to phone for bail money; sorry if that sounds harsh. i always seem to get involved with guys that wants me to take care of them and always out to get money from me. so i will leave it alone.

iluvmecancer

if i was seeing someone and got arrested , yes i would tell you about it since we arieses are honest creatures but would not ask you for bail money, my pride would not let me do it, I would call one of my buddies to bail my ass out

he sounds like a genuine guy and has good intentions towards you and respects you enough to be able to just sleep next to you without trying to get some. Any aries who is willing to put up with that is worth at least a try. I if you keep him close but but dont give in too quick this will make him want you even more. just as long he knows you kind of interested in him he will do anything to sweep you of your feet and that could be you greatest life experience because we arieses deep inside are very romantic and will surprise you on every step with originality.......no cliche movie and a diner dates here.
"And he's very affectionate, loves to hold hands, he kisses me on my forehead, and hugs me to the point where he doesn't want to let go."
thats not a act, this is how are....i know that because this is my favorite thing to do

the worst you can do is to tell this guy you not interested in him, or being with him after hanging out for 2 months....it will extinguish the fire in his belly and be hurt but will leave you alone