Wow, Judgement Is Real..

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slowdive80
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So I have a old Cancer friend that just came out publically on fb and instagram of being in an open relationship with his girlfriend.

They got some support to be fair, but he also got a lot of judgement and looks. And people talking sh--t about them being open.

These people are treating them like they were monogamous and cheated with the attitude.

With the way people think these days, Im beginning to think cheating is more accepted than people who are non-monogamous.

"I could never do that! Good luck on the break up!" That's the kind of bs I saw on his feed. Believe it or not there are successful non-monogamous relationships What doesnt work for you may work for someone else.

People need to chill. My respect for my cancer pal went up even more for coming out like that. I respect people who know who they are and dont try to pretend to be something they're not and do down-low stuff.

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Yeah, well, try telling some men to use essential oils. Talk about judgement.

But that was so funny, don’t hate me

lol

I'm not hating. I do think it's funny that people are so freaked out about it. What do they think is in their beard oil and cologne?
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The vision I had were... them soaking in a tub with lavender oil alone with candles 🤣🤣🤣
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Posted by Fanta
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Posted by Fanta
Posted by Isolde
Posted by Fanta

Yeah, well, try telling some men to use essential oils. Talk about judgement.

But that was so funny, don’t hate me

lol

I'm not hating. I do think it's funny that people are so freaked out about it. What do they think is in their beard oil and cologne?

The vision I had were... them soaking in a tub with lavender oil alone with candles 🤣🤣🤣

They SHOULD do that! Maybe in my old age I'll open a spa for old dudes who never got pampered.
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Definitely a gap in the market
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Posted by slowdive80

He only brought it up on those platforms because people kept seeing him with another girl out and about. They were gossiping that he broke up with his current girlfriend or was cheating on her.

He only brought it up to clear the air and so people in our social circle would stop the gossip. Should've included that part but I forgot

It might have gone over better coming from her.

Because looks questionable and convenient defense from him, idk.

This is why there is the 'its complicated' relationship status lol