A message to all male caps

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by yellowsaggitarius on Saturday, December 3, 2016 and has 3 replies.

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@yellowsaggitarius
9 Years

To us women who love you unconditionally

We feel like the love will never fade

Even after divorce, break up

We continue to value you always

But to us your the loser

You once claimed to be there for us always

You once claimed to love to death

And now after seperation we suddenly mean nothing?

Contradicting much ?

Well thanks to the break ups the divorces

Because honestly I wouldn't want to spend my entire life making a man happy

Who if I left he would simple disrespect me

Block me

Then he wasnt worth my years

For us we test your love through out our lives it doesn't end when we separate

We see your true colors in time

So thanks for giving up on us

Cause all u r is temporary

U replaced me u can replace any girl when she no longer gives u what u want

Sorry I ain't going to stick around and be a replacement I'm more than that and u won't be having me

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

People love in different ways.

Blocking doesn't equal hate.

Not blocking doesn't equal love.

Not to mention your post is riddled with contradictions.

Why not just say you're hurt, angry, upset, etc and leave it at that?

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@daron76
10 Years500+ Posts

As a person who is also heart who is heart broken, I empathize with you greatly OP. However, please understand that not everyone deals with loss the same way. Losing someone you love can be devastating, especially if you were once married.

Some people can't heal with a constant reminder of their loss present in their lives. Some have survived for a long time by cutting all ties and moving on. It is what works for them. If you care about that person, how could you want to deny (or decry) them their means of self-healing? Further, just because you don't know whether or not they are suffering doesn't mean they aren't.