@yellowsaggitarius
9 Years
How do caps hate
How Do Capricorns Express Hate
Capricorns tend to show their dislike through actions rather than words. They may withdraw or become distant to communicate their feelings. They often prefer to handle negative emotions quietly and practically rather than openly expressing hate or anger.
Lol parisiancappy
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
I don't hate anyone.If I ever love someone, I'll always remember them fondly.
I'm very cautious in love, so the fact that I entered into a relationship with someone, meant they were special to me and they will always remain that way.
Interesting liam hemsworth ur fellow cap said something similar to this
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
I don't hate anyone.If I ever love someone, I'll always remember them fondly.
I'm very cautious in love, so the fact that I entered into a relationship with someone, meant they were special to me and they will always remain that way.
Interesting liam hemsworth ur fellow cap said something similar to this
Really? Can you share that? 🙂
Seems like astrology might have a role to play in people's personalities after all.
I read daron's posts on here and some of the things he has written are exactly what I have told people in real life.
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Men's Fitness in October 2015, he said, "You fall in love with who you fall in love with; you can never choose. I guess some people just come with a little more baggage," the Australian actor says, laughing. "I mean, look—we were together five years, so I don't think those feelings will ever change. And that's good because that proves to me that it was real. It wasn't just a fling
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
And I would never badmouth someone I was seeing, no matter how things ended between us.I see a lot of people doing that on these boards.
You can't talk like that about someone you once professed to have loved.
True I will say what happened but never mention an ex faults like the deep ones lol
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
And I would never badmouth someone I was seeing, no matter how things ended between us.I see a lot of people doing that on these boards.
You can't talk like that about someone you once professed to have loved.
True I will say what happened but never mention an ex faults like the deep ones lol
That is quite understandable. We all try to discuss and analyse our relationships to figure out what went wrong. 🙂
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Are u a cap female ?
See I was here months ago trying to understand a ex cap and analyse the situation then a fellow cap female went off on me and said move on I did move on talking or trying to understand a relationship or even still having feelings doesn't mean u havent moved on
You don't sound cappy the caps on here are cold and only value their own opinions they conceited with pride and think they are always right this is cap attitude cold pessimistic
Why are you so sweet u and daron
So calm is it experience and time that has humbled yourll ? Or are yourl both just so smart you figured whats right and wrong putting pride aside having figured it destroys good things ?
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
You don't sound cappy the caps on here are cold and only value their own opinions they conceited with pride and think they are always right this is cap attitude cold pessimisticWhy are you so sweet u and daron
So calm is it experience and time that has humbled yourll ? Or are yourl both just so smart you figured whats right and wrong putting pride aside having figured it destroys good things ?
Lol. Thanks yellow! To be honest, I thought some of my posts have been pretty harsh.
There some gentle cappys here like capri-sun and some others. Most have gone underground for some reason. ?
Lol, thank you....I'm one that was cold & pessimistic according to her (which I believe I come across harsh sometimes, even when I try not to) perspective I suppose.
Ah okay! From what I read, it seems like things moved pretty fast for them, before there was any time for trust to develop. The parting was hasty too.
Overall, a really messed up situation!
They may not be together any longer, but it's essential for them to work on building trust in some manner, so that the children do not suffer.
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Your really smart cap and you are spot on with everything you said
This is a stupid question. Is there a special kind of hate that separates it from the other kind of hate?
My Capricorn doesn't seem to have the mental or emotional space for hate. Pffft! Artists!
Posted by ParisianCappy
can't tell her, she's blocked and erased everywhereYup. If someone's got me that thrown for a loop, I'll cut them out. Maybe reevaluate after things have cooled down. There are very, very few people I still have completely blocked from my life.
If it's a situation where I'm forced to still be in contact with them, that's much more uncomfortable. I'll either throw up my shield to Teflon level or be as nasty to them as possible without crossing a boundary.
Different offenses bring out different responses.
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Why be nasty they have to deal with u too
Is it OK for them to be nasty in return?
Posted by ParisianCappy
can't tell her, she's blocked and erased everywhereYup. If someone's got me that thrown for a loop, I'll cut them out. Maybe reevaluate after things have cooled down. There are very, very few people I still have completely blocked from my life.
If it's a situation where I'm forced to still be in contact with them, that's much more uncomfortable. I'll either throw up my shield to Teflon level or be as nasty to them as possible without crossing a boundary.
Different offenses bring out different responses.
Why be nasty they have to deal with u too
Is it OK for them to be nasty in return?
I'm not a mean person. I *do* have a vindictive streak. You best believe they started it. Poke the bear and see what you get.
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We all feel we not mean and the other started it
Fact is somebody did
Wat u see wrong the other doesnt
So seems ull remain nasty and so will the other person
U a cap?
I see now why my ex cap mean to me
So seems I figured out why now
He hates me
Posted by ParisianCappy
can't tell her, she's blocked and erased everywhereYup. If someone's got me that thrown for a loop, I'll cut them out. Maybe reevaluate after things have cooled down. There are very, very few people I still have completely blocked from my life.
If it's a situation where I'm forced to still be in contact with them, that's much more uncomfortable. I'll either throw up my shield to Teflon level or be as nasty to them as possible without crossing a boundary.
Different offenses bring out different responses.
Why be nasty they have to deal with u too
Is it OK for them to be nasty in return?
I'm not a mean person. I *do* have a vindictive streak. You best believe they started it. Poke the bear and see what you get.
We all feel we not mean and the other started it
Fact is somebody did
Wat u see wrong the other doesnt
So seems ull remain nasty and so will the other person
U a cap?
I see now why my ex cap mean to me
So seems I figured out why now
He hates me
Yes. Somebody did. And that somebody was not me. 😄
I have no control over anyone but myself. And I'm laid back AF. Unfortunately, you meet those people in life that aren't happy unless they're pushing buttons. I consider it a fail to let someone emotionally manipulate me to that point, but it's happened. I'm not gonna sit here and lie about it.
Or those people at work that view you as a threat and make it a mission to try to make you look bad. They've exposed their weakness and I'm not gonna forget that. Every interaction I have with them, from that point forward, will be about making sure I get the upper hand. Even if it's a long con. That's the kind of wrong I never forget.
You took my initial post to your own bitter place. If that's how you interact with your Cap, I can see how they would grow tired of that. You're coming off like the button pusher type.
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He says I must change my behavior is wrong
I don't see it so
Facts are facts
Psychologically we all think we pretty
Cool good
But not everybody view us that way
See u think I'm a button pusher
Another would not even think of that about some would call me smart others blunt and u just dislike me
And in response I'm like can't this person chil.and have a decent conversation without drama just analysing girl I'm not attacking am not ur enemy
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
You don't sound cappy the caps on here are cold and only value their own opinions they conceited with pride and think they are always right this is cap attitude cold pessimisticWhy are you so sweet u and daron
So calm is it experience and time that has humbled yourll ? Or are yourl both just so smart you figured whats right and wrong putting pride aside having figured it destroys good things ?
Lol. Thanks yellow! To be honest, I thought some of my posts have been pretty harsh.
There some gentle cappys here like capri-sun and some others. Most have gone underground for some reason. ?
Lol, thank you....I'm one that was cold & pessimistic according to her (which I believe I come across harsh sometimes, even when I try not to) perspective I suppose.
Ah okay! From what I read, it seems like things moved pretty fast for them, before there was any time for trust to develop. The parting was hasty too.
Overall, a really messed up situation!
They may not be together any longer, but it's essential for them to work on building trust in some manner, so that the children do not suffer.
I understand we learn by reflecting and seeing what went wrong. My concern was that she already remarried. If I'm healed enough to marry someone else then any & all reflection of my previous marriage should have been complete already.
It's like continously reopening the same wound
Your point is valid. It's a bad idea to start a new relationship while issues from the previous one are still unsettled. Her divorce looks like a classic case of "Sudden Divorce Syndrome" and her ex was probably caught blindsided.
Everything was rushed! I don't think enough time was spent on reflection.
There may be several reasons why she entered into the second marriage so soon - her culture, age/immaturity, feeling vulnerable as a single mother, an effort to get over her ex, etc.
Her suppressed feelings are re-emerging now due to the anxiety and stress caused by the thought of losing her children.
Her situation is pretty complicated and she will have to show a lot of maturity and wisdom to deal with it. I'd start by working on establishing trust.
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OK I remarried due culture and effort of getting over ex I remarried four Years after divorce its 6 years after divorce and I haven't healed I think its because I always have to be in contact with him for kids sake so this make me not move on I think I don't know
CAPRILICIOUS
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
You don't sound cappy the caps on here are cold and only value their own opinions they conceited with pride and think they are always right this is cap attitude cold pessimisticWhy are you so sweet u and daron
So calm is it experience and time that has humbled yourll ? Or are yourl both just so smart you figured whats right and wrong putting pride aside having figured it destroys good things ?
Lol. Thanks yellow! To be honest, I thought some of my posts have been pretty harsh.
There some gentle cappys here like capri-sun and some others. Most have gone underground for some reason. ?
Lol, thank you....I'm one that was cold & pessimistic according to her (which I believe I come across harsh sometimes, even when I try not to) perspective I suppose.
Ah okay! From what I read, it seems like things moved pretty fast for them, before there was any time for trust to develop. The parting was hasty too.
Overall, a really messed up situation!
They may not be together any longer, but it's essential for them to work on building trust in some manner, so that the children do not suffer.
I understand we learn by reflecting and seeing what went wrong. My concern was that she already remarried. If I'm healed enough to marry someone else then any & all reflection of my previous marriage should have been complete already.
It's like continously reopening the same wound
Your point is valid. It's a bad idea to start a new relationship while issues from the previous one are still unsettled. Her divorce looks like a classic case of "Sudden Divorce Syndrome" and her ex was probably caught blindsided.
Everything was rushed! I don't think enough time was spent on reflection.
There may be several reasons why she entered into the second marriage so soon - her culture, age/immaturity, feeling vulnerable as a single mother, an effort to get over her ex, etc.
Her suppressed feelings are re-emerging now due to the anxiety and stress caused by the thought of losing her children.
Her situation is pretty complicated and she will have to show a lot of maturity and wisdom to deal with it. I'd start by working on establishing trust.
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Elaborate on the part where u said he was blindsided
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
When u hate exes do you tell themDo u ever lie about hating somebody
How do you express your hate via actions
When i really hate the feeling changes from hatred to their nonexistence .
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
I don't hate anyone.If I ever love someone, I'll always remember them fondly.
I'm very cautious in love, so the fact that I entered into a relationship with someone, meant they were special to me and they will always remain that way.
What about those who harmed you in some way ?
I got a first hand view of what hate can do to someone internally. My father, who is also a cap (he is Jan 01, I am Jan 02) is very bitter and hateful man. He holds grudges longer than anyone I have ever known. And it doesn't matter if you are family or friends or whatever, if you aren't in his good graces then you catch the wrath.
Seeing this drove me to spend a lot of effort and energy to not follow that path. Therefore, if I feel strongly enough to hate someone, it will only be temporary. The minute I can calm down, I think it over and let it go, lest it consume me.
However, if a person repeatedly pushes me to the limit then I extract them from my life. I won't hate them, but I will not allow them to continue to be such a powerful negative presence in my life.
Lol personally been here. The thing a hatin Cap-or anyone for that matter, is the borderline love that still exists 😉 yes they block and erase everywhere-if he still holds a torch for you, reappearances to see if you are still available to him...or he may be bored, horny, fed up with his current 🙂 I was pretty bad to a Cap (in his point of view) but he never done anything outright obvious to show hate...
Your spot on caprilicious
I just want to know why are u so smart please tell me
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Lol personally been here. The thing a hatin Cap-or anyone for that matter, is the borderline love that still exists 😉 yes they block and erase everywhere-if he still holds a torch for you, reappearances to see if you are still available to him...or he may be bored, horny, fed up with his current 🙂 I was pretty bad to a Cap (in his point of view) but he never done anything outright obvious to show hate...
Wow typical cap he is
Holding a torch for any reasons u just mentioned
Really ? Or uve been there done that so you know its a circle ?
U seem to be speaking out of experience
Or u just sound like a psychologist
Do u know what I like about u and daron it's you effort and time that u offer selflessly
Without getting offended or dramatic
We actually have been in contact for a few days and ur chill I'm amazed normally a cap would just shut me down or prove me wrong but that's not the point I'm not their enemy I'm not competing I'm just reflecting and seeing u understanding that is amazing really may I know your month and day of birth perhaps its because you a December cap? The soft cap ? Lol or u hav a lot saggitarius in u coz u speak my language lol
O my word haha interesting I knew something was fishy
I don't Even know u and I've helped mentally for free
I lived with ex he could not do it for me once life is weird
I mean you have helped me mentally thank u so much !
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
I don't hate anyone.If I ever love someone, I'll always remember them fondly.
I'm very cautious in love, so the fact that I entered into a relationship with someone, meant they were special to me and they will always remain that way.
What about those who harmed you in some way ?
I can be very understanding of human failings, which can be a bad thing at times. So, no. I would not hate them still.
But, as I said earlier, I am very cautious. The men in my life have proven themselves to be good people.
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Thats good 🙂
I infact hate myself more than others if i let wrong people come around me 😢 . I dont hate as in wishing harm to anyone. I hate in ways that i never want to see or speak to them ever again .
Posted by CAPRILICIOUS
I don't hate anyone.If I ever love someone, I'll always remember them fondly.
I'm very cautious in love, so the fact that I entered into a relationship with someone, meant they were special to me and they will always remain that way.
What about those who harmed you in some way ?
so marshmallow is cap.. ?
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Yes i am 🙂
Since even I could not view my own profile and could not remove the dots(as u said could be the reason) so created a new profile.
Posted by ParisianCappy
can't tell her, she's blocked and erased everywhereYup. If someone's got me that thrown for a loop, I'll cut them out. Maybe reevaluate after things have cooled down. There are very, very few people I still have completely blocked from my life.
If it's a situation where I'm forced to still be in contact with them, that's much more uncomfortable. I'll either throw up my shield to Teflon level or be as nasty to them as possible without crossing a boundary.
Different offenses bring out different responses.
Why be nasty they have to deal with u too
Is it OK for them to be nasty in return?
I'm not a mean person. I *do* have a vindictive streak. You best believe they started it. Poke the bear and see what you get.
We all feel we not mean and the other started it
Fact is somebody did
Wat u see wrong the other doesnt
So seems ull remain nasty and so will the other person
U a cap?
I see now why my ex cap mean to me
So seems I figured out why now
He hates me
Yes. Somebody did. And that somebody was not me. 😄
I have no control over anyone but myself. And I'm laid back AF. Unfortunately, you meet those people in life that aren't happy unless they're pushing buttons. I consider it a fail to let someone emotionally manipulate me to that point, but it's happened. I'm not gonna sit here and lie about it.
Or those people at work that view you as a threat and make it a mission to try to make you look bad. They've exposed their weakness and I'm not gonna forget that. Every interaction I have with them, from that point forward, will be about making sure I get the upper hand. Even if it's a long con. That's the kind of wrong I never forget.
You took my initial post to your own bitter place. If that's how you interact with your Cap, I can see how they would grow tired of that. You're coming off like the button pusher type.
He says I must change my behavior is wrong
I don't see it so
Facts are facts
Psychologically we all think we pretty
Cool good
But not everybody view us that way
See u think I'm a button pusher
Another would not even think of that about some would call me smart others blunt and u just dislike me
And in response I'm like can't this person chil.and have a decent conversation without drama just analysing girl I'm not attacking am not ur enemy
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I think it is very important to analyse your own behaviour than letting anybody else's opinion completely take over your judgment . Sometimes those close can tell you a lot about your flaws , also those close can try to manipulate you . So it should always be your own judgement. That judgement of yourself about yourself should be unbiased and never lie to your own self . It is important to hear what others say and equally important to think for your self.
I would say I'd generally ignore the person you can no longer stand and never waste another second on them again.
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When u hate exes do you tell them
Do u ever lie about hating somebody
How do you express your hate via actions