Another hot and cold scenario

Does this mean anything or am I over-thinking it?

My Cap and I spent last weekend together. Things were relatively ok although we both weren't feeling well.

On Monday, I let him know that I went to the Dr. and needed to take medication. We chatted briefly about it, then he stopped texting. I haven't heard from him all week until just now asking me if we were seeing each other this weekend. Never asked how I was doing or anything like that. I expressed that it was odd he stopped texting suddenly and would have been nice to hear from him especially since I was sick. He replied that he was sorry but was very busy and not feeling well either.

I understand that Caps aren't great at multi-tasking but shit happens in life. Even if I'm sick, I'll still offer to be there for him. Not sure if what I say makes sense, but I just want to know that he'll be the same...

When I'm sick, I'd rather be left alone. People calling and texting to ask me how I am irritates me because I don't want to be bothered. I assume other people are like that too.

Thank you for your replies.

Truecap: we talked last night and it seems that it's two fold. He's mad at me, and was just busy and trying to get better. I wonder if this confirms that when he's silent, there is almost always a deeper meaning like being upset at the other person. The busy thing is an excuse imo. Everyone has ten seconds to shoot a text...

It was probably a test because when i called him out on the hot and cold, he said i'm stubborn enough to take it as he finally reached out first.

Bbr: yes i'm a Sag (sun, mercury, jupiter, midheaven). I agree that they don't want to ever seem cheesy. Mine is all about "i'm not your bf, that's bf treatment". I know he loves me but all the drama and moods is hard to deal with sometimes.

Again......, if you want girlfriend treatment, then give him the boyfriend title. Otherwise stop complaining that you're not getting the special girlfriend treatment.

We've told you this 100 times or more. He's eventually going to give up and leave.

Yes, i know. So when/if he asks me again, i'll say yes.

But is this really gf treatment? Caring about someone? I offer way more emotional support than he does even though i'm not his "gf". So it's not like i just want him to do all the work. To me it's just about being a decent friend/lover to someone i care about. Obviousky he doesn't see it that way.