Any women out there been cheated on by a Capricorn man?

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Here is my story: I'd love to hear your's if you can relate. I dated a Capricorn man from May of 2016 - July of 2017. We agreed that we would not see anyone else or sleep with anyone else. I am a very loyal person and I can't have sex with multiple people at the same time. We had a lot of misunderstandings, stupid fights, and great sex. I thought his mood swings were annoying and his constant accusations of cheating a turn off. I really had feelings for this man but it ended after a series of fights wherein he accused me of talking to another guy. So today, November of 2017, I was contacted by this poor woman who told me that she was in a 2 1/2 relationship with him at the same time. She literally slept in his bed almost every night for 2 1/2 years, which means after being with me, he went home to her. She went through his phone last night and read all of our messages and realized that we were both lied to. Apparently he is also messaging other women as well so she read those messages too. We compared stories and by the end, we could finish each other's sentences. The lies were the same, the songs he sang to us the same - we were played. It hurts to think that for all that time, my feelings were real and he was just playing some kind of game. I took the break up hard last summer and was having a hard time getting over it because I kept feeling like I was missing something. How could a stupid fight lead to a compete cut off after over a year of "I love you's" and constant messages and calls? Well today, I got the answer and closure I needed to see what the situation really was. I am thankful that she contacted me because otherwise, I would never have known why it ended. All I can say is that the guy was smooth about his lies. We both fell for it! 😢
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I thought his mood swings were annoying and his constant accusations of cheating a turn off. I really had feelings for this man but it ended after a series of fights wherein he accused me of talking to another guy.
Guys who constantly accuse are always cheaters themselves. Your so busy proving your own innocence they can sneak their shadiness past you.

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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...

He lived with his mother and brother. He gave this other woman a key and after she put her kids to bed, she would wait for him in his bedroom and they would sleep together. I learned that today. This man and I would spend the night together many times, but at a hotel. I never felt comfortable going to his house because I knew his brother and wanted to keep our relationship quiet because I am going through a divorce. Apparently, that was very convenient for him. 😢
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Here is my story: I'd love to hear your's if you can relate. I dated a Capricorn man from May of 2016 - July of 2017. We agreed that we would not see anyone else or sleep with anyone else. I am a very loyal person and I can't have sex with multiple people at the same time. We had a lot of misunderstandings, stupid fights, and great sex. I thought his mood swings were annoying and his constant accusations of cheating a turn off. I really had feelings for this man but it ended after a series of fights wherein he accused me of talking to another guy. So today, November of 2017, I was contacted by this poor woman who told me that she was in a 2 1/2 relationship with him at the same time. She literally slept in his bed almost every night for 2 1/2 years, which means after being with me, he went home to her. She went through his phone last night and read all of our messages and realized that we were both lied to. Apparently he is also messaging other women as well so she read those messages too. We compared stories and by the end, we could finish each other's sentences. The lies were the same, the songs he sang to us the same - we were played. It hurts to think that for all that time, my feelings were real and he was just playing some kind of game. I took the break up hard last summer and was having a hard time getting over it because I kept feeling like I was missing something. How could a stupid fight lead to a compete cut off after over a year of "I love you's" and constant messages and calls? Well today, I got the answer and closure I needed to see what the situation really was. I am thankful that she contacted me because otherwise, I would never have known why it ended. All I can say is that the guy was smooth about his lies. We both fell for it! 😢
Sounds v much similar to a triangle I was in with a Cap and she (Taurus) who thought he was an angel but I knew he was a ratbag. I just wasnt ready to give up the sex. She begged me to leave him alone the 1st discussion we had. I always found that weird.
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Cap males don't "cheat." In their mind, there are always "reasons" as to why you two will never be together. And it's not their fault if you don't realize it without them saying so! They shouldn't have to spell it out for you, after all!!

That being said- if tou two really *are* together, you won't have to question it. And they will take offense if you do.


I’m usually really good at picking up on sarcasm. But you made me read your post twice. Well done girl.
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
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Blaming the victim... really? >_>
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
Blaming the victim... really? >_>
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How did you come to that conclusion? I would never blame the victim :/ I was the victim in a marriage over 10 years but I don’t want sympathy for it.

I had to file a restraining order against my husband of four kids to get away from cheating and abuse. Amongst other things I still can’t even talk about to strangers on here.

So, I’m not sure how you think I’d ever blame the person whose stuck in a situation where they feel they can’t get out of.

Maybe I just learned from it so I came across that way in your opinion. I just want others to not makr the same mistakes I did.

And no. I don’t blame the person who feels helpless and another one is the reason for that. I’ve been there and always empathize with people who have to put up with the same.
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Here is my story: I'd love to hear your's if you can relate. I dated a Capricorn man from May of 2016 - July of 2017. We agreed that we would not see anyone else or sleep with anyone else. I am a very loyal person and I can't have sex with multiple people at the same time. We had a lot of misunderstandings, stupid fights, and great sex. I thought his mood swings were annoying and his constant accusations of cheating a turn off. I really had feelings for this man but it ended after a series of fights wherein he accused me of talking to another guy. So today, November of 2017, I was contacted by this poor woman who told me that she was in a 2 1/2 relationship with him at the same time. She literally slept in his bed almost every night for 2 1/2 years, which means after being with me, he went home to her. She went through his phone last night and read all of our messages and realized that we were both lied to. Apparently he is also messaging other women as well so she read those messages too. We compared stories and by the end, we could finish each other's sentences. The lies were the same, the songs he sang to us the same - we were played. It hurts to think that for all that time, my feelings were real and he was just playing some kind of game. I took the break up hard last summer and was having a hard time getting over it because I kept feeling like I was missing something. How could a stupid fight lead to a compete cut off after over a year of "I love you's" and constant messages and calls? Well today, I got the answer and closure I needed to see what the situation really was. I am thankful that she contacted me because otherwise, I would never have known why it ended. All I can say is that the guy was smooth about his lies. We both fell for it! 😢
So sorry to hear! You should get a check up for STDs soon, you never know! Better be safe than sorry.

What are his other placements??
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
Blaming the victim... really? >_>
How did you come to that conclusion? I would never blame the victim :/ I was the victim in a marriage over 10 years but I don’t want sympathy for it.

I had to file a restraining order against my husband of four kids to get away from cheating and abuse. Amongst other things I still can’t even talk about to strangers on here.

So, I’m not sure how you think I’d ever blame the person whose stuck in a situation where they feel they can’t get out of.

Maybe I just learned from it so I came across that way in your opinion. I just want others to not makr the same mistakes I did.

And no. I don’t blame the person who feels helpless and another one is the reason for that. I’ve been there and always empathize with people who have to put up with the same.
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This is what you wrote : ā€œGenuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.ā€

So you think there’s something wrong with their well being if they don’t notice ā€œthingsā€ which I assume you mean aspects that for you are evidently red flags?

I don’t know what else you could possibly mean by that statement except that to me it came off as you’re blaming the victim for not being able to see certain things that seem clear to you.
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
Blaming the victim... really? >_>
How did you come to that conclusion? I would never blame the victim :/ I was the victim in a marriage over 10 years but I don’t want sympathy for it.

I had to file a restraining order against my husband of four kids to get away from cheating and abuse. Amongst other things I still can’t even talk about to strangers on here.

So, I’m not sure how you think I’d ever blame the person whose stuck in a situation where they feel they can’t get out of.

Maybe I just learned from it so I came across that way in your opinion. I just want others to not makr the same mistakes I did.

And no. I don’t blame the person who feels helpless and another one is the reason for that. I’ve been there and always empathize with people who have to put up with the same.
This is what you wrote : ā€œGenuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.ā€

So you think there’s something wrong with their well being if they don’t notice ā€œthingsā€ which I assume you mean aspects that for you are evidently red flags?

I don’t know what else you could possibly mean by that statement except that to me it came off as you’re blaming the victim for not being able to see certain things that seem clear to you.

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I see what you mean, I just expressed myself the wrong way without thinking about it. No I don’t really believe there’s something wrong with people if they’re fooled by or don’t notice red flags.

I have been so, sorry. Didn’t mean to upset anyone with that comment.
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
Blaming the victim... really? >_>
How did you come to that conclusion? I would never blame the victim :/ I was the victim in a marriage over 10 years but I don’t want sympathy for it.

I had to file a restraining order against my husband of four kids to get away from cheating and abuse. Amongst other things I still can’t even talk about to strangers on here.

So, I’m not sure how you think I’d ever blame the person whose stuck in a situation where they feel they can’t get out of.

Maybe I just learned from it so I came across that way in your opinion. I just want others to not makr the same mistakes I did.

And no. I don’t blame the person who feels helpless and another one is the reason for that. I’ve been there and always empathize with people who have to put up with the same.
This is what you wrote : ā€œGenuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.ā€

So you think there’s something wrong with their well being if they don’t notice ā€œthingsā€ which I assume you mean aspects that for you are evidently red flags?

I don’t know what else you could possibly mean by that statement except that to me it came off as you’re blaming the victim for not being able to see certain things that seem clear to you.

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Actually you know what. I don’t know why I’m even apologizing. I WOULD be concerned. People were concerned for me when I was in a bad situation. I’m concerned for others now who wind up in bad situations.

That’s not blaming a victim. It’s being concerned.
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
Blaming the victim... really? >_>
How did you come to that conclusion? I would never blame the victim :/ I was the victim in a marriage over 10 years but I don’t want sympathy for it.

I had to file a restraining order against my husband of four kids to get away from cheating and abuse. Amongst other things I still can’t even talk about to strangers on here.

So, I’m not sure how you think I’d ever blame the person whose stuck in a situation where they feel they can’t get out of.

Maybe I just learned from it so I came across that way in your opinion. I just want others to not makr the same mistakes I did.

And no. I don’t blame the person who feels helpless and another one is the reason for that. I’ve been there and always empathize with people who have to put up with the same.
This is what you wrote : ā€œGenuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.ā€

So you think there’s something wrong with their well being if they don’t notice ā€œthingsā€ which I assume you mean aspects that for you are evidently red flags?

I don’t know what else you could possibly mean by that statement except that to me it came off as you’re blaming the victim for not being able to see certain things that seem clear to you.


I see what you mean, I just expressed myself the wrong way without thinking about it. No I don’t really believe there’s something wrong with people if they’re fooled by or don’t notice red flags.

I have been so, sorry. Didn’t mean to upset anyone with that comment.
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I just think it’s obviously easier for strangers to notice red flags than those in the situation due to their emotional commitment and may be other types of commitments such as time,money, resources etc. Also not to mention all the hopes and dreams they have now associated with this person. It’s easy for those on the outside to call bs but it’s hard when you’re in it because you’re trying hard to make it work and part of making it work is believing in your partner.

Rant ... but I’m sure you already knew all this from your previous post in this thread.

I guess that’s why people ask advice for an objective opinion of some sort because they know they are too tangled in the web of the relationship.
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How were you with someone for a year and never knew he was living with another woman??

Didn't it raise some red flags that he never brought you to his home, I mean...
Yes seriously. I don’t understand how these things happen. Genuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.
Blaming the victim... really? >_>
How did you come to that conclusion? I would never blame the victim :/ I was the victim in a marriage over 10 years but I don’t want sympathy for it.

I had to file a restraining order against my husband of four kids to get away from cheating and abuse. Amongst other things I still can’t even talk about to strangers on here.

So, I’m not sure how you think I’d ever blame the person whose stuck in a situation where they feel they can’t get out of.

Maybe I just learned from it so I came across that way in your opinion. I just want others to not makr the same mistakes I did.

And no. I don’t blame the person who feels helpless and another one is the reason for that. I’ve been there and always empathize with people who have to put up with the same.
This is what you wrote : ā€œGenuinely concerned about people’s well being if they don’t notice these things at all.ā€

So you think there’s something wrong with their well being if they don’t notice ā€œthingsā€ which I assume you mean aspects that for you are evidently red flags?

I don’t know what else you could possibly mean by that statement except that to me it came off as you’re blaming the victim for not being able to see certain things that seem clear to you.


I see what you mean, I just expressed myself the wrong way without thinking about it. No I don’t really believe there’s something wrong with people if they’re fooled by or don’t notice red flags.

I have been so, sorry. Didn’t mean to upset anyone with that comment.
I just think it’s obviously easier for strangers to notice red flags than those in the situation due to their emotional commitment and may be other types of commitments such as time,money, resources etc. Also not to mention all the hopes and dreams they have now associated with this person. It’s easy for those on the outside to call bs but it’s hard when you’re in it because you’re trying hard to make it work and part of making it work is believing in your partner.

Rant ... but I’m sure you already knew all this from your previous post in this thread.

I guess that’s why people ask advice for an objective opinion of some sort because they know they are too tangled in the web of the relationship.

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Completely agree with you. It is easier for others to notice it, but when you’re in that situation, it isn’t. And you don’t want to hear what others have to say, and it’s a protective mechanism to shut them out.



Even while there words are in your head and you really can’t because you know they’re right.

It’s hard to witness other people in a bad situation when someone is manipulating or lying to them. My sisters and parents went from supportive to yelling at me all the time. And for a while I didn’t talk to any of them. It was too upsetting.

It’s hard. I understood there frustration, while at the same time wished they’d lighten up and not get so upset with me.

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Before I begin my story about cap man and cheating I'd like to point out that I don't believe it's sign related, it's person related and each sign cheats, no exception!They have their own reason and nothing makes ones better than the other in this story!Also I don't believe if 1 Cap cheated on me than 2nd one must do the same at some point.

Long ago I had short but very intense relationship with a Cap guy. We met cause I looked for him, went out few times and started a relationship very soon. In that short time we both lost close family members, both were very social and went out very often with many people.I found out he left a gf in another town for me. I met his another ex at a party at her current bf lol at that party he left me alone with unknown people for a while to pick up drugs(which ofc before that I didn't know he's taking). Somehow we stayed for a while longer together and I had a car accident, so as he's my bf ofc called to talk to him about it and when I got home from all that mess we were typing only for him to tell me that we should break up...I was furious, how can someone be like that? Could he pick worse possible moment for that? I didn't really let him know about that and in the end was not that much into him but such behavior really hit me...Anyway we kept in touch, saw each other few more times later and I found out shortly after he started dating another girl who drove his car on the night he got terrible car crash and ended up in hospital badly injured. Well as I didn't have really hate feelings towards him I was talking about that with him and he wanted to see me about something, don't remember really what it was.But it ended up him cheating on her.Why I did it? Well I couldn't come to my sense out of shock and couldn't possible believe someone is capable of cheating the person they're with while they're in hospital! Again even after that we somehow kept talking when he told me his ex(the one he left to be with me) has took his mail address and changed password so he can't access it anymore.So i jumped in as more skilled and recovered his mail address. I took a peek in and saw his mails between another woman who was older than him like 10 years and lived in another country but those were some love mails.Anyway I told him I saw that and what he wrote about me to the ex I met lol on a dating site we were both using cause his password was easy to break and thanks to that one from mail I got the one from that site. I just said he should change those mails. Also the one who took his mail got him an STD that he had to treat while he was with me...thank God I had no any problems from him.Overall my most intense relationship in such short time of few months only and the coldest and emotionless person I have ever met.

Atm I'm into another Cap guy who hopefully is not anything like this and I truly believe he isn't
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Cap male here. As stated above, I think sign has little to do with this kind of behavior. There are certainly facets of that sign sneaking their way in, and making it more distinct, and seemingly planned and strategic... For myself, it would be hard to date two women this way, utterly impossible, for head space alone. I couldn't possibly live a life where I'm balancing the needs of two women alongside work. The amount of planning it would take, to manage a work day, converse with, and strategically plan the minefield that is managing multiple relationships...would be insurmountable lol.

Cheating wise, never been a fan of it. Since I was raised in a household that cheating destroyed, it has been kind of imprinted on me that won't be very wise in a relationship. Maybe this man was raised in a household where he was able, and possibly rewarded psychologically at times, for being able to get away with things. The one time I did cheat, it was only after I had been cheated on in High School by my girlfriend (her friend called me on the phone telling me it was happening, she confirmed it later) , and we tried to work on things. I had a little too much to drink one night and a neighbor invited me over, I planned it out in my mind that I would go through with it, so I could feel what she felt when she did the same. I ended up waking up and feeling terrible guilt for a long time afterward. So nowadays if any cheating or anything happens or I feel unfaithful, I just leave the relationship. No point wasting time, logically.
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Cap male here. As stated above, I think sign has little to do with this kind of behavior. There are certainly facets of that sign sneaking their way in, and making it more distinct, and seemingly planned and strategic... For myself, it would be hard to date two women this way, utterly impossible, for head space alone. I couldn't possibly live a life where I'm balancing the needs of two women alongside work. The amount of planning it would take, to manage a work day, converse with, and strategically plan the minefield that is managing multiple relationships...would be insurmountable lol.

Cheating wise, never been a fan of it. Since I was raised in a household that cheating destroyed, it has been kind of imprinted on me that won't be very wise in a relationship. Maybe this man was raised in a household where he was able, and possibly rewarded psychologically at times, for being able to get away with things. The one time I did cheat, it was only after I had been cheated on in High School by my girlfriend (her friend called me on the phone telling me it was happening, she confirmed it later) , and we tried to work on things. I had a little too much to drink one night and a neighbor invited me over, I planned it out in my mind that I would go through with it, so I could feel what she felt when she did the same. I ended up waking up and feeling terrible guilt for a long time afterward. So nowadays if any cheating or anything happens or I feel unfaithful, I just leave the relationship. No point wasting time, logically.
Have to say on this part from the family situation, guy that I mentioned is from broken family. Don't know what and how it went in his family, only knew his parents weren't together and that he had step sisters and brothers from both sides of parents. Maybe such situations can shape people differently. But your way of thinking is so much like mine as well. I couldn't absolutely stand being with 2 people at the same time, I can't lie nor do I want to. I felt incredibly bad when I only started talking to another guy while I was still in a relationship
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Cap males don't "cheat." In their mind, there are always "reasons" as to why you two will never be together. And it's not their fault if you don't realize it without them saying so! They shouldn't have to spell it out for you, after all!!

That being said- if tou two really *are* together, you won't have to question it. And they will take offense if you do.
they're just around for the sex
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Just like men in any other sign xD
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Yes.. I've seen alot of caps cheat. It's horrible and I don't get why they do it... It's strange. They're so loving to their partner they seem to give them their all and then in that one hour they're not together they're with someone else....
so what, can't leave them alone for a second or they wonder away? xD jk

but it's just people don't notice such thing,it's never all of a sudden, there are always signs but not everyone picks up on those signs
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Yes.. I've seen alot of caps cheat. It's horrible and I don't get why they do it... It's strange. They're so loving to their partner they seem to give them their all and then in that one hour they're not together they're with someone else....



so what, can't leave them alone for a second or they wonder away? xD jk

but it's just people don't notice such thing,it's never all of a sudden, there are always signs but not everyone picks up on those signs

In this case, he was very affectionate and attentive. He messaged me morning, noon and night. How does one find the energy to do this? Ugh. When I talked with this woman who was with him at the same time, we started comparing notes. He would be sending me messages and videos on Kik while he was waiting for her to pick him up and take him to work. He was giving us the same gifts, saying the same things. I should have looked in his phone like she did. She found our messages about a year ago, confronted him, believed his lies and got back together with him. I trusted him and never had a reason to think he was cheating, duh. So I never checked for messages to others on his phone. I don't want to live like that or be with someone that I have to check their phone. Or be afraid that when we are together, someone else is sucking him off.
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Posted by TrulyTaurusWoman
Yes.. I've seen alot of caps cheat. It's horrible and I don't get why they do it... It's strange. They're so loving to their partner they seem to give them their all and then in that one hour they're not together they're with someone else....



so what, can't leave them alone for a second or they wonder away? xD jk

but it's just people don't notice such thing,it's never all of a sudden, there are always signs but not everyone picks up on those signs

In this case, he was very affectionate and attentive. He messaged me morning, noon and night. How does one find the energy to do this? Ugh. When I talked with this woman who was with him at the same time, we started comparing notes. He would be sending me messages and videos on Kik while he was waiting for her to pick him up and take him to work. He was giving us the same gifts, saying the same things. I should have looked in his phone like she did. She found our messages about a year ago, confronted him, believed his lies and got back together with him. I trusted him and never had a reason to think he was cheating, duh. So I never checked for messages to others on his phone. I don't want to live like that or be with someone that I have to check their phone. Or be afraid that when we are together, someone else is sucking him off.


Believe it or not some people just live with it no matter how much their partners have cheated on them. Once I got in middle of such drama, where my friend's cousin was into me since he saw me. BUT he's like 10 years older, married and has kids, ofc I didn't want to have anything with it! Anyway since he did something very helpful for me I didn't want to be rude so accepted to go just for a coffee with him but later he kissed me!Ofc I gout out of it very quickly and went home. Anyway as he lives in another country, he went back home, was texting me all the way, told me when he arrived there etc and I'm thinking seriously wtf, I'm not going to be with you now...so I told him exactly that very clearly, we can talk sometimes if he really wants but to not expect seeing me or anything else. Few days later I wake up with dozens of missed calls and like 30 messages! His wife found number in his phone and was calling me like a crazy person, when i picked up tried to insult me etc. When she finally calmed down and I told her there was nothing with him and I want nothing with him she said like he's doing that all the time, having some side chicks etc...wtf, why would you stay with such person?! Oh and he's not Cap! He's Pisces if I remember well...so no sign is safe from that and no sign is more prone to it than another but it's fascinating that they actually put so much effort in that cheating! This guy was acting towards me like a teenager in love which was just ridiculous to me but as you see his wife forgives everything...he attempted once again later to call but I gave phone to my male friend to answer so he just hanged up. And again she saw it and called me cause he again lied to her about the phone number...so cheaters are everywhere and hopefully we have luck to not end up with one like that in something serious!