Are capricorns major flirts?

I smile alot when im nervous and not interested.

My Cap friend flirts a lot.

My thing is what do you expect to come out of this relationship, since he has such low self esteem?

Please tell me your not the aqua girl.

Capricorns Charm:

"I think this is normal Capricorn hospitality. Capricorns always pleases the crowd. Flirting, complementing and congratulating achievements is parts of Capricorns Charm. Are intentions are not to please people, but raise people's spirits so that they feel happy, accepted and comfortable... It's more like being a perfect host. We like to think of ourselves as the perfect Gentlemen.(When we are happy, and have a balanced life.)

+1 on that SureShotCap

It can feel great to work a crowd, help people have a good time.
It's mostly around the people we do care about that we slow down and need to be enticed to show a bit more love.

Posted by TigerCap
+1 on that SureShotCap

It can feel great to work a crowd, help people have a good time.
It's mostly around the people we do care about that we slow down and need to be enticed to show a bit more love.

You're actually right!My cap is all fun and flirty around strangers and friends.And all slow and serious around me.why is that?

Can't tell you yet. I don't know.
You get to know how insecure he feels sometimes, if you can help him feel better. He will do anything he can to help you.

What I can tell you is that in my experience, flirting with people is 'Business Flirting. Make people feel good and they will work harder for you. It always works. 😉

Posted by TigerCap
Can't tell you yet. I don't know.
You get to know how insecure he feels sometimes, if you can help him feel better. He will do anything he can to help you.

What I can tell you is that in my experience, flirting with people is 'Business Flirting. Make people feel good and they will work harder for you. It always works. 😉

Thanks for the advice.I did realize that he usually flirts with everyone even men.Bus usually it's with people that have a status or that can get him somewhere in his career.It sorta is like business flirting,it's like he wants something in return.

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Posted by TigerCap
+1 on that SureShotCap

It can feel great to work a crowd, help people have a good time.
It's mostly around the people we do care about that we slow down and need to be enticed to show a bit more love.

You're actually right!My cap is all fun and flirty around strangers and friends.And all slow and serious around me.why is that?

Probably because relationships with strangers are expendable, it'd be a shame if we couldn't be on good terms with everyone but we're not going to lose sleep over it. Personal relationships are what counts, and are not expendable, and therefore are treated with caution. At least that's my guess :p

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yes,you're right!He tries to be on good terms with everyone ,so everyone likes him,even if he doesn't like them back!and yes i've realized he's cautious around me i feel like he's more open with strangers and friends then with me and that makes me feel bad cause it's like he doesn't trust me.It's like with strangers he compliments and is funny and flirty but with me he doesnt compliment and hes not funny and flirty.It's just alot of coldness and aloofness and that makes me feel like he doesn't like me 😢

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Posted by TigerCap
Can't tell you yet. I don't know.
You get to know how insecure he feels sometimes, if you can help him feel better. He will do anything he can to help you.

What I can tell you is that in my experience, flirting with people is 'Business Flirting. Make people feel good and they will work harder for you. It always works. 😉

Thanks for the advice.I did realize that he usually flirts with everyone even men.Bus usually it's with people that have a status or that can get him somewhere in his career.It sorta is like business flirting,it's like he wants something in return.

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Huh? You said he flirts with everyone including strangers and girls on facebook. What serious connects will he get from a girl that allows him to call her suga on facebook. Are these the type of people he want something from?

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Posted by TigerCap
Can't tell you yet. I don't know.
You get to know how insecure he feels sometimes, if you can help him feel better. He will do anything he can to help you.

What I can tell you is that in my experience, flirting with people is 'Business Flirting. Make people feel good and they will work harder for you. It always works. 😉

Thanks for the advice.I did realize that he usually flirts with everyone even men.Bus usually it's with people that have a status or that can get him somewhere in his career.It sorta is like business flirting,it's like he wants something in return.

Huh? You said he flirts with everyone including strangers and girls on facebook. What serious connects will he get from a girl that allows him to call her suga on facebook. Are these the type of people he want something from?

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usually those girls are actresses and are in show business.Because he's trying to get into show business so he wants connections.

That makes a bit more sense I guess. My Cap friend is a huge flirt, but he's extremely serious when he's trying to get connections.

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yes,you're right!He tries to be on good terms with everyone ,so everyone likes him,even if he doesn't like them back!and yes i've realized he's cautious around me i feel like he's more open with strangers and friends then with me and that makes me feel bad cause it's like he doesn't trust me.It's like with strangers he compliments and is funny and flirty but with me he doesnt compliment and hes not funny and flirty.It's just alot of coldness and aloofness and that makes me feel like he doesn't like me 😢

As I have posted in other threads on here "Capricorns take Relationships as SERIOUS BUSINESS"
Think of it like a probational period until you win his love... Once He loosens up some, you know your on the right track.

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yes,you're right!He tries to be on good terms with everyone ,so everyone likes him,even if he doesn't like them back!and yes i've realized he's cautious around me i feel like he's more open with strangers and friends then with me and that makes me feel bad cause it's like he doesn't trust me.It's like with strangers he compliments and is funny and flirty but with me he doesnt compliment and hes not funny and flirty.It's just alot of coldness and aloofness and that makes me feel like he doesn't like me 😢

As I have posted in other threads on here "Capricorns take Relationships as SERIOUS BUSINESS"
Think of it like a probational period until you win his love... Once He loosens up some, you know your on the right track.

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it's taking so long for him to loosen up.Makes me feel like i'm doing something wrong....

I'm a flirt. There are times when I dont know how to turn it off.

Posted by CreepyPants
I'm a flirt. There are times when I dont know how to turn it off.

"There is no off button! Only something or someone to distract it..."

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I'm a flirt. There are times when I dont know how to turn it off.

"There is no off button! Only something or someone to distract it..."

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heh... normally i'm easily distracted. only more flirting will easily distract me from flirting. lol

perhaps i should elaborate...

while at work, i'm all professional. i could actually afford to loosen up a bit

socially... yikes. i'm not a loose canon, but once i get going it's hard to stop my momentum. and i am a gawdaweful tease

Posted by Crustacea
Waiiittt does he have a Sag Venus?
That could explain it.

My Sag is in Venus... Is this why— Do tell...

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Posted by Crustacea
Waiiittt does he have a Sag Venus?
That could explain it.

My Sag is in Venus... Is this why— Do tell...

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* All Sag Venus Caps turn their attention to Crustacea *

Posted by Crustacea
Although I noticed that they may not be the most confident flirts they do love female attention. They tend to have a lot of female "friends".
Regardless of how pro commitment their other placements are that one venus tends to make them commitment phobic or makes them frequently cross the boundaries of what a bf should & shouldn't do with members of the opposite sex when in a relationship.

He is Venus In capricorn.But he sounds like everything you've described.With the alot of female friends.

So the real question is can you trust him?

"I am a Charmer, this I cannot deny, but I am extremely loyal. It is her and I against the world, regardless of my whatever my charts says, my LOYALTY beliefs will override them all..."