Boyfriend cheated

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Sarahwhite
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My boyfriend of 3 months moved out of his place after a month of us being together I let him move in until he found a house but he Had trouble finding one and I wanted him to stay with me I was enjoying it. we spent most days and every night together. I dropped him off an hour away so he could have a business meeting in Orange County he kissed me and said "I can't wait to come back home tonight and cuddle you" he ended up staying at his best friends house they got in a fight and instead of calling me his girlfriend to get him he called his ex girlfriend who lives in Orange County And didn't tell me I had to see her post pictures of them on instagram when i called him he didn't answer and he started texting me saying "I want to come home, I miss you, I gave you my heart but I feel like I did the most and it wasn't enough" I hadn't told him I knew he wasn't at his friends house so I said let me come get you now and he made excuses and then never called or texted me again I texted him that it's over and I knew he was with his ex and to let me know when he comes and gets his stuff.. I'm pretty sure he blocked me and never got the text. It's been 2 days and everything he owns is in my house. What do I do?

she would open my instagram story everyday and see us together and then start calling him on blocked numbers 50+ times he would answer maybe once every 2 weeks bc he couldn't answer business calls with her spamming his phone on blocked numbers he would answer screaming saying "stop calling me you dumb girl there's nothing you need to say to me I will destroy you" he told me she's was insane and when she saw we were together she couldn't handle it he's even gotten his friends to answer the phone when she calls and his friends said "don't you understand he dosent like you, move on" how could he go back to her when he lived with me and everything was great between us no arguments
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Sarahwhite
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8 Years

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It just hurts so much I remember everything he would say when we went to Vegas he said last time I was here with my ex she got drunk and stole my car and crashed it. Worst memories here but so happy to be here with you and make new great ones you're nothing like her she's trash I'm so lucky to have someone like you. All lies. The worst part he couldn't have sex apparently his stress levels were too high to keep an errectiion so we would only do it once a week. And I salvaged my sex life and sanity for this man
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
Dont commit before 3 months.

Don't let anyone use your place as a free hotel.

Also if he has girl drama then it isn't over.

How could he?

She was a sure thing.


3 months is key. I wouldn't move in together until after the 2 year mark either.


Ya exactly.

What if they steal from you?

Don't know someone until at least a yr since honeymoon period is illogical.
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What if they've been playing you the whole time and fucking randos in your bed while your at work? Nothing is sacred anymore.

People are good at playing a role.
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Sarahwhite
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Posted by blvckphase
The fact that he called on her makes everything he said and apparently felt about her a lie.

What do you do? Put his shit in boxes at the end of your driveway. Maybe with a "free for the taking" note attached.
He finally texted me back saying how much he appreciates me and that work is just failing and he dosent know how to handle his life and all this stuff I didn't respond and I get on his ex instagram and they're together having lunch hahahah what a sick joke this has become