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Bringing up "The Talk" dating/relationship
@Leo188881 No, we've yet to meet in person since we are in different Provinces (Canada) I know what he looks like and we both use Snapchat a few times.
Posted by Leo188881i agree. always meet up.
Why don't you just casually ask him if you can make plans to actually meet each other halfway over the holidays?
i've never done online dating sites in my entire life.
so i keep hearing bad stories.
but i'm sure there are good ones.
always meet up in the same week you just messaged eachother.
if a guy keeps putting it off..something is wrong.
@Leo188881 @lisabethur8
I would love to meet him in person we just haven't had the conversation yet, and money is really tight for me and he has a big contract with his work, working on a house till Feb. I live with my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and 2 exchanged students so we don't have a lot of room for him to stay not untill the summer. Where he can stay in the basement suite 2nd bedroom. As much i would love to visit him and he visit me during holidays is busy and kinda difficult for us to meet.No one knows im talking to him only because i had a difficult experience 2yrs ago. My mom doesn't know im seeing him (im a private person) and we are still talking and i really want to make sure we are on the same page before getting my hopes up again.
I would love to meet him in person we just haven't had the conversation yet, and money is really tight for me and he has a big contract with his work, working on a house till Feb. I live with my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and 2 exchanged students so we don't have a lot of room for him to stay not untill the summer. Where he can stay in the basement suite 2nd bedroom. As much i would love to visit him and he visit me during holidays is busy and kinda difficult for us to meet.No one knows im talking to him only because i had a difficult experience 2yrs ago. My mom doesn't know im seeing him (im a private person) and we are still talking and i really want to make sure we are on the same page before getting my hopes up again.
relationship talk when you’ve never met? If he really wanted to meet you, he would have by now. Have the talk, but I don’t see him, a Capricorn, committing until he meets you several times.
Posted by Aries18if money is tight with you, and you all are so busy, maybe after new years then, after the holidays.
@Leo188881 @lisabethur8
I would love to meet him in person we just haven't had the conversation yet, and money is really tight for me and he has a big contract with his work, working on a house till Feb. I live with my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and 2 exchanged students so we don't have a lot of room for him to stay not untill the summer. Where he can stay in the basement suite 2nd bedroom. As much i would love to visit him and he visit me during holidays is busy and kinda difficult for us to meet.No one knows im talking to him only because i had a difficult experience 2yrs ago. My mom doesn't know im seeing him (im a private person) and we are still talking and i really want to make sure we are on the same page before getting my hopes up again.
make some plans for a couple weeks together sometime in middle or late january.
or even february at the most so you both have saved up some money and got even some christmas money too to see eachother.
@Leo188881 @pinkbird03 @lisabethur8
"I live with my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and 2 exchanged students so we don't have a lot of room for him to stay not until the summer. Where he can stay in the basement suite 2nd bedroom."
We have no extra room for him to stay with me until the summertime. I don't see why is that so hard to understand. Yes i would love to see him in the next 2 months but honestly feel that's not going to work for either of us.
1. I live with my mom and 2 exchanged students who are in High school so they have the 2 other rooms we have - 6 rooms in total.
2. I also have my 2 brothers, and my sister in law who lives in the basement suite the other upstairs.
3. I really would like the 2 students not be here when he does visit.
4. My mom doesn't know or understand how dating works especially online dating.Where the guy doesn't have to be the only one to visit each other and that the girl can also see him too.
5. 2yrs ago i dated a Capricorn and he had visited me. I was 24 and he just turned 23 in Dec (im now 26).That didn't end well. He started seeing someone when i was away for family and found out he started a relationship with someone else where he lived Toronto. So it was really hard for me to talk about certain things and feel like i failed at that. So I didn't tell my mom about the now Cappy only because i didn't expect to even date after 2 years.I really just don't want to feel like i failed another dating relationship.
I asked about how to bring up the conversation about us and where we stand etc. I appreciate you guys suggestions on making plans for visiting each other. You just need to understand my house situation.
I don't mean to come off rude or angry I'm just wanted to tell you my situation
"I live with my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and 2 exchanged students so we don't have a lot of room for him to stay not until the summer. Where he can stay in the basement suite 2nd bedroom."
We have no extra room for him to stay with me until the summertime. I don't see why is that so hard to understand. Yes i would love to see him in the next 2 months but honestly feel that's not going to work for either of us.
1. I live with my mom and 2 exchanged students who are in High school so they have the 2 other rooms we have - 6 rooms in total.
2. I also have my 2 brothers, and my sister in law who lives in the basement suite the other upstairs.
3. I really would like the 2 students not be here when he does visit.
4. My mom doesn't know or understand how dating works especially online dating.Where the guy doesn't have to be the only one to visit each other and that the girl can also see him too.
5. 2yrs ago i dated a Capricorn and he had visited me. I was 24 and he just turned 23 in Dec (im now 26).That didn't end well. He started seeing someone when i was away for family and found out he started a relationship with someone else where he lived Toronto. So it was really hard for me to talk about certain things and feel like i failed at that. So I didn't tell my mom about the now Cappy only because i didn't expect to even date after 2 years.I really just don't want to feel like i failed another dating relationship.
I asked about how to bring up the conversation about us and where we stand etc. I appreciate you guys suggestions on making plans for visiting each other. You just need to understand my house situation.
I don't mean to come off rude or angry I'm just wanted to tell you my situation
Posted by Aries18
@Leo188881 @pinkbird03 @lisabethur8
"I live with my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and 2 exchanged students so we don't have a lot of room for him to stay not until the summer. Where he can stay in the basement suite 2nd bedroom."
We have no extra room for him to stay with me until the summertime. I don't see why is that so hard to understand. Yes i would love to see him in the next 2 months but honestly feel that's not going to work for either of us.
1. I live with my mom and 2 exchanged students who are in High school so they have the 2 other rooms we have - 6 rooms in total.
2. I also have my 2 brothers, and my sister in law who lives in the basement suite the other upstairs.
3. I really would like the 2 students not be here when he does visit.
4. My mom doesn't know or understand how dating works especially online dating.Where the guy doesn't have to be the only one to visit each other and that the girl can also see him too.
5. 2yrs ago i dated a Capricorn and he had visited me. I was 24 and he just turned 23 in Dec (im now 26).That didn't end well. He started seeing someone when i was away for family and found out he started a relationship with someone else where he lived Toronto. So it was really hard for me to talk about certain things and feel like i failed at that. So I didn't tell my mom about the now Cappy only because i didn't expect to even date after 2 years.I really just don't want to feel like i failed another dating relationship.
I asked about how to bring up the conversation about us and where we stand etc. I appreciate you guys suggestions on making plans for visiting each other. You just need to understand my house situation.
I don't mean to come off rude or angry I'm just wanted to tell you my situation
Thank you @Leo18881 I will see what happens. I just need to write down what i need to say, and how to bring it up without being nervous.
Do you have any suggestions on the question?
Again, Thank you for all your replies.
Happy Holidays!
Do you have any suggestions on the question?
Again, Thank you for all your replies.
Happy Holidays!
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