Cap Challenge: Meaning?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by SunMoonStars on Thursday, April 7, 2016 and has 12 replies.

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So my Cap and I were texting about sex and after a while, I said it's not all about sex...he said "ok..care to test that statement?" then said nevermind...
I clarified that it meant we hang out but don't have sex. In the end we let it drop as we determined that I would probably lose the who makes a move first contest. πŸ™‚

What does this mean? Does he want us to be closer in other ways?

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Posted by SunMoonStars
Thank you Trucap and LillyPetal!

I should clarify that I'm ... friskier than him 9 times out of 10. Does that make a difference to this challenge? πŸ™‚

I just realized who posted this question. I answered as if you were new. You've been with him a while. You should know by now that in amind LTR, it doesn't matter who's friskier.

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Thank you all! Yeah, we've been together for 2.5 years now.
I might be more interested in sex than he is, he would certainly say that! In a way, this challenge might be more for me.. πŸ™‚

How do I get closer emotionally to my Cap? Sometimes he just seems so impenetrable!

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Posted by SunMoonStars
Thank you all! Yeah, we've been together for 2.5 years now.
I might be more interested in sex than he is, he would certainly say that! In a way, this challenge might be more for me.. πŸ™‚

How do I get closer emotionally to my Cap? Sometimes he just seems so impenetrable!

together 2.5 years... define together

that is a long time to still be having who initiates sex questions first

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Soo nice. He's not like other guys with you for sex. He loves you. I say, enjoy this time while it lasts! I want relationship like this!