Cap hasn't contacted in 2 weeks.what to do.. :(

I feel so awful and guilty 😢 My cap hasn't contacted me in 2 weeks!The last thing I texted him was how is yo your day and he still hasn't responded 😢.Yet he goes on fb posts status',communicates with his friends on fb and even goes out with his friends but can't even contact me and say hello 😢 Guys I don't know what to do.I really don't wanna contact him first because i'm really tired of chasing him,I want him to show interest because i've shown enough.He did recently start 2 jobs,one full time job and another part time.I know he's very ambitious and into his new job but he has time to chat with other people and cant even acknowledge me.I also know that he's depressed and stressd now but that cant be an excuse cause again he can talk to his friends but cant talk to me? 😢Guys what should I do?He's done this before where he didnt contact me for a week but it never has been this long.He has told me that he's in denial about having strong feelings for me before,could him having feelings for me be the reason why he's backing away?I've stopped liking his fb stuff and contacting him on fb too.will he be back? :/ Help guys 😢

Posted by Metoo
Because he has so little spare time he will choose to devote his time to people & things that wont be draining or complicated. Follow his lead on putting your all into work & friends.
If you fought alot or were emotional or lean on him for alot of support ect. he doesnt have the energy for all that. He wants peace & balance in his personal life always but especially now with alot in his plate.
Reaching out especially with "how was your day", wont make him come around any sooner, & the males hate small talk.
dont feel bad or guilty or try to sort it out. He should, but has gotta realize on his own. Sorry.

aww thanks for the advice metoo.Yeah I put to much work into him i think about him all the time and my world pretty much revolved around him and i think he knows that.His world revolves around his job mostly.I always feel awful when I see him communicating with his friends online and not me,it really hurts.Makes me feel like a stranger.It sucks being ignored,totally crushes me.I do love him very much and he knows I do and I am sorta emotional and he is stone cold and not emotional and he told me he's in denial about having feelings for me so I guess he sorta doesn't want to feel things for me at this time cause there's so much going on in his life.So I should just wait for him?

Posted by Metoo
I know honey, I am sorry he is ignoring you, its happened to me in the past and the feeling is horrible.
Caps are different, they don't want you to put work into them. They want you to be happy and content in yourself and your life and let them be.
It sounds aweful but its true.
You gotta unfortunately sit it out and let him miss you. Its your only option but for me...I wouldn't wait for any man! Id have HIM looking for ME.
Theres too many fish in the sea! I would say say start dating! 2 weeks is too much.

I understand 😢 Howl long did you usually wait?

Yep, I'd starting dating too. It's his loss and you can't spend your time worried about him. You've got your own life to lead so go get busy girl! Go have some fun! Go have a drink, cut a rug, see a movie, hang with the gals. Whatever you do, don't sit around the house and think about him.

You deserve a man who will make time for you!

Here's a little inspiration: I went out with a virgo who then left me hanging for two weeks. I wasn't about to just sit around and wait. So, I do my thing and I met the aqua, went out with him and been with him over a year now. When the virgo finally tried to come back around I was involved with Mr. Aqua.

They snooze, they lose! 🙂

(and I don't really mean that as flippantly as it sounds).

you are here every other week asking that question... what gives?