Cap Man finally got his chance and blew it (Page 2)

Krobe- I'm not bitter. I'm laying out the possibilities of what's behind his behavior. Get over your "11 year relationship" already. If it took you that long to get the ring, you're obviously no pro at handling these men EITHER.

It took me that long to get the ring because that is how long it took me to be READY for the ring. You cannot rush love to your likings darling. My Cap man offered to marry me numerous times and I said NO. That goes to show you that Cap men are not all that cracked up on rejection like women claim them to be. If you want to KNOW, I had my life and career and I put ME first. Now, my dear, I am ready to say YES! Now, how man pro can you get at that. It seems that you don't seem to understand that a commitment for a man is far different than a commitment for a woman. I can say I have a CAP man who is truly in love with me, who has been with me through my ups and downs, who loves me for me and cherishes and adores me for the rest of my life.

What about YOU? You sit on these boards assisting women to be in fantasy relationships with men who obviously don't give a dayum about committing to them.

Muse, let me tell you this about Cap men. He is a good provider, he will love you like you have NEVER been loved before, he will share your ups and downs-ins and outs and be there for you under all circumstances of you life.

He will clean up your house, pay your bills, run your bath water, rub your back, shower you with love and affection and worship the ground you walk on. IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU!

No with all that said, I think he was worth the wait. Don't you Cap girl?

I may be on here "assisting women" in their "fantasy relationships" but what is exactly is your purpose here- seems to be to brag and sing your own praises. Go join up with DearDiary- you two are a real pair. I never told Muse to stick with it with this guy. Was merely comparing war stories and sharing my experiences and MISTAKES. I'm a CAP, that's why I'm on the board, also.

You seem to be really bitter. Cap men are very, very, very good men and when a woman can get deep down in the depth of his heart. Yes, he is worth bragging about, not complaining.

Whatever, Krobe- You are generalizing based on your ONE Cap. man, and I am giving her a few different personality profiles for these guys-- see above with the three (3) options posed. We'll all give you your props that you have yourself a mature, committed Cap. man.

Whatever, Krobe- You are generalizing based on your ONE Cap. man, and I am giving her a few different personality profiles for these guys-- see above with the three (3) options posed. We'll all give you your props that you have yourself a mature, committed Cap. man.

If it will make you feel better, he was 31 when I met him. He wasn't mature then and he is not the first Cap man I have dated. If it even makes you feel any better, the first Cap man told me that if I was a bit more challenging for him, he would have probably grew to love me. He told me a man loves a challenge. That is the only way a man can see himself falling in love with a woman. A CAP man told me that himself.

Muse, don't let him get away with the friends with benefits bargain. Challenge him on his behavior.

True confessions, well, now there's some shyt we can use, Krobe! lol We agree on "challenge", most definitely, and I'm ALL about calling them out on bad behavior. Just watch the game-playing and hardball tactics because that's when their "nice, soft squishy inside goodness" goes into hiding and never returns usually!

most definitely, and I'm ALL about calling them out on bad behavior. Just watch the game-playing and hardball tactics because that's when their "nice, soft squishy inside goodness" goes into hiding and never returns usually!

Yeah, I will call a man out on bad behavior too. I just don't use my words to do it. Actions speak. LOL! No, No my days for playing hardball with other men is over. No more of those tactics.

nothing better than revenge...mwahahahh

Posted by AquaSun
"I then met somebody and broke things off with him."

There's your answer.

He was probably feeling bitter and took the opportunity to get back at you (my opinion).

right n the money. zanies will do that to ya.