Capi: do you like romance?

When I asked the girl i was seeing to be my gf I did so with flowers and a poem. She had been hinting as to where the relationship was going so this is how I did It although just prior she was getting frustrated that I seem to be blowing off commitment however I view her as special and wanted to do something out of the norm to show how much I care and in the right moment.
I write poetry often and this is how I more often than not express my feelings and emotions.
I long to take her on a romantic getaway but lately it hasn't happened due to her busy life atm.
Now lately she has been hinting towards those 3 words.. Same as Before with the commitment I believe she's getting frustrated. Now I can't honestly say I'm truly in love with her, our time together has been far less than our time apart. So it's not that I cannot see myself loving her one day, which she has asked, it's more so that I haven't gotten the chance to know her enough to have these strong feelings. Again though, I can sense her frustration so I know I need to do something soon. I'm waiting for her to get back from holidays. I just need her to open up. For her to let me in so I can love her.
I also want to be romantic.. I'm just not sure she actually cares much for romance. I've heard that capis don't really care for that, they are more practical. Is this true? What would show her that I'm serious without saying that I love her? There are times when we are together that I hear myself saying these words in my head to her but it doesn't feel quite right. Like I know it will happen I just need to dig a little deeper is all. I believe she is holding back, continuing to shield herself from me bc of this. I just want to woo and romance her until she opens up and when she does I just know those feelings that sometimes pops into my head will come out naturally. She has already hinted that those feelings pop into her head at times as well so I'm not worried about her feelings as such. I know those feelings are there but there is still this level of fear she has about the relationship and I cannot for the life of me figure out what it is. I don't believe she understands the way I show my feelings..By being romantic. Or that she really appreciates it or cares for such things however this is the only way I can express myself. Maybe I am wrong and she does and just doesn't know how to show it. I guess that's why I feel the need to ask the question on here. Any help would be appreciated 🙂

She needs reassurance and wants to feel secure. She's not going to open up until she has that from you.

A cap can read your actions so SHOW her you are into her. Tell her exactly what you told us. Tell her you want to get to know her better, that you really enjoy spending time with her and can not imagine being with someone else.

That will satisfy her for a while.

Romance is nice, and secretly, yeah, I love it, but at the same time, I am embarrassed by it because I really don't know what to do or say. I know my reactions aren't as visible on the outside as they are on the inside.

Too many romantic guestures seem false.