Cappi said "he can't do this, he's made his decision"

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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..


It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
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Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao

There's nothing I lose so
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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..
It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand

Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so click to expand
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He asked you to go? 🤔
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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..




It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand



Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so click to expand

He asked you to go? 🤔 click to expand
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Actually he didn't. He just said he can't do this because he's going to be extremely busy with school and work. So I was like you don't want me then
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You know what-Cap who loves you won't ditch you to chase career goals. They CAN do both IF they want to. My friend is with a Cap who had to move to another country for job and he didn't leave her for it, they made it work, he made it work. So yeah, finding explanations for that in his Cap, they chase after career is bs, sure they do chase after it but they like everyone else care for people they love too at the same time
So what I'm getting is that his feelings for me isn't that strong? Yeah maybe. I asked if he could move with me and he started analyzing minimum wage and an average income, he decided it wasn't worth it, because he gets paid better where he is right now and down the road he will be making 5k a month
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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..




It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand



Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so click to expand



He asked you to go? 🤔 click to expand

Actually he didn't. He just said he can't do this because he's going to be extremely busy with school and work. So I was like you don't want me then click to expand
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Yikes! You should’ve said, “that’s ok if you need to focus more of your attention on work/school, I’m not going anywhere.”

He gave you the opportunity to back out. You took it.

Cap wants that ride or die. I feel like the way he worded it was almost a test to see if your gonna stick it out with him...😬
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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..
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I call bs. Plenty of people and caps among them who juggle career and family. This excuse is so flimsy for me click to expand
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Most men can't give 100 in a relationship is their career goals are not in place, especially caps
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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..




It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand



I call bs. Plenty of people and caps among them who juggle career and family. This excuse is so flimsy for me click to expand

Most men can't give 100 in a relationship is their career goals are not in place, especially caps click to expand
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Not in my experience.
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"Yeah he did everything in his power to get me hooked. "

That statement stood out. This is what I call pick up game from pick up artist. They're not in it for the long haul. Just in it long enough to sharpen their skills then they are off to bag another. You may not know it but you're better off without his low self esteem behind.

Next guy that comes into your life trying to CONVINCE you to love him....run. Love shouldn't be forced or convinced. Love falls in place naturally when a man is genuinely taking his time.

Hook line and sink her. Hook her with lines and sink her later.
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Well he has made his decision so I thought I would















come up with mine 🤔

Eh it was stupid to talk about things based on astrology.

The gist of the truth to what I said, regardless of astrology, is that you shouldn't torture yourself like that for someone who essentially is tossing you under a bus because you aren't





maximally important to him.

He doesn't love you, and chasing him won't magically make him start loving you. I basically just think you are making a stupid choice based on how you /feel/

You'll learn the hard way. I did. I don't do that kind of shit anymore because





I know the only chance I have at a successful relationship. Is to make sure /they/ love me, rather than determining things because I love them.
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very well said, I will do the last statement