@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus
Why is my Cap woman always ends up on the right side of an argument?
Posted by c0mrade
Whenever I argue over anything, my Cap woman always , always makes me feel like I am the one on the wrong side.Is it just me? Whenever I start a fight or argument with my strong logic and reason, she always turns it the other way around and I end up feeling bad why I started it in the first place.
I am a Taurus by the way, why do you Caps do this?
Does she manipulate you emotionally or through proper logic and reasoning you come on wrong side?
It could be that she is doing it just for the sake of winning the argument. We are very competitive so the ego will always seek to win rather than coming to a common ground.
Besides being a woman, cap women usually rule throwing facts, you cant discuss facts, but not everything is black and white 😉
Posted by c0mrade
Whenever I argue over anything, my Cap woman always , always makes me feel like I am the one on the wrong side.Is it just me? Whenever I start a fight or argument with my strong logic and reason, she always turns it the other way around and I end up feeling bad why I started it in the first place.
I am a Taurus by the way, why do you Caps do this?
Does she manipulate you emotionally or through proper logic and reasoning you come on wrong side?
It could be that she is doing it just for the sake of winning the argument. We are very competitive so the ego will always seek to win rather than coming to a common ground. click to expand
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No, she isn't manipulative. But she is not a good listener either.
She wants to put her facts and only hers first. Being the peace loving guy that I am, I try to understand her frustration, and I give in. But this is the same pattern even if the conversation is serious one or jovial one. Damn!
Can't she let me win one for love?
Posted by LostPisces
Besides being a woman, cap women usually rule throwing facts, you cant discuss facts, but not everything is black and white
Exactly! The problem is, she never tells me these so called 'facts' till I open the conversation. It's like she was saving them for later.
Posted by Awesomeyoo
I have already discussed a lot about capricorns in depth and now am just hoping not to get sued by the Capricorn board lol.
Lol I am sure Caps would love to hear about it.
It's time they learn to Give in for Love. 😄
Posted by c0mrade
Whenever I argue over anything, my Cap woman always , always makes me feel like I am the one on the wrong side.Is it just me? Whenever I start a fight or argument with my strong logic and reason, she always turns it the other way around and I end up feeling bad why I started it in the first place.
I am a Taurus by the way, why do you Caps do this?
Does she manipulate you emotionally or through proper logic and reasoning you come on wrong side?
It could be that she is doing it just for the sake of winning the argument. We are very competitive so the ego will always seek to win rather than coming to a common ground. click to expand
No, she isn't manipulative. But she is not a good listener either.
She wants to put her facts and only hers first. Being the peace loving guy that I am, I try to understand her frustration, and I give in. But this is the same pattern even if the conversation is serious one or jovial one. Damn!
Can't she let me win one for love? click to expand
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Win one for love? Lol
Don't expect that. Up your own game bro. But maybe try to put across your concern that she doesn't listen properly. She needs to see both the sides before stating her own facts in that way the victory will be fair 😉
Posted by c0mrade
Whenever I argue over anything, my Cap woman always , always makes me feel like I am the one on the wrong side.Is it just me? Whenever I start a fight or argument with my strong logic and reason, she always turns it the other way around and I end up feeling bad why I started it in the first place.
I am a Taurus by the way, why do you Caps do this?
Buckle up buttercup - I'm Taurus Sun with Cap Moon. Let me ask you something - gently. Is she most often right in the end or is this more along the lines of you two just having two different opinions and she's a control freak and wants everything her way or the highway.
I can listen and understand your opinion; I can have a difference of opinion; and I can surely be very stubborn if I feel that I am entitled to my opinion and you are trying to sway me to accept your opinion. Other than that - yeah - Taurus and Cap are both good at the facts and the logic and practicality of the efficiency of the moment. It sounds like she has had more experience/education under her belt or she's just one of those control freaks which in that case - might want to "run" ... or get that shit under control now. She still has to be able to interact with another human being - oh wait, she's a Cap - so no, she doesn't feel she does lol
Caps are very perceptive and quick in pulling facts out of their pants which makes us seem like know it all's but in essence, we are masters at storing facts from experience and/or education so that we can build on those things in life which makes our life even better. There is no doing the same wrong thing twice in the Caps book of life.
Posted by DeleterNerd
Have you tried saying this to her? Stop acting like a beta if you dont want a cap woman to treat you like one. Tell that cookiemonster to sit down stfu and listen for once haha. Then treetrunk her hard while youre telling her whats what.
hahahahaha so true hahahahaha
Because 99% of the time, the Cap will be right when it comes to a Taurus.
for example, my taurus friend pops up after 2yrs of silence. he disappeared, got into a relationship and ignored me for two years. pops up last week, takes me out over the weekend, and now is trying to be a bit in his physical feels, as if nothing happened.
what sense does that make?
i just had to tell him that we've tried a couple of times to make things work, but they didn't. i'm not interested in trying anymore, especially when you got a whole girlfriend on me.
i was trying not to bring it up, but i atleast thought he would approach things differently.
Posted by lnana04
Because 99% of the time, the Cap will be right when it comes to a Taurus.for example, my taurus friend pops up after 2yrs of silence. he disappeared, got into a relationship and ignored me for two years. pops up last week, takes me out over the weekend, and now is trying to be a bit in his physical feels, as if nothing happened.
what sense does that make?
i just had to tell him that we've tried a couple of times to make things work, but they didn't. i'm not interested in trying anymore, especially when you got a whole girlfriend on me.
i was trying not to bring it up, but i atleast thought he would approach things differently.
good for you!
Whats a wiergo? And why wiergo? Lol I'm new to this
Posted by DeleterNerd
Have you tried saying this to her? Stop acting like a beta if you dont want a cap woman to treat you like one. Tell that cookiemonster to sit down stfu and listen for once haha. Then treetrunk her hard while youre telling her whats what.
I‘m dying 😂😂😂😂😂
Ok maybe without the „stfu!“ Because once you start cussing things might go even worse for you. But you should show her that you are a strong man who‘ll bring his woman to his cave and fuck the shit out of her 😂 plus tell her that you expect her to listen when you talk
Posted by DeleterNerd
Have you tried saying this to her? Stop acting like a beta if you dont want a cap woman to treat you like one. Tell that bitch to sit down stfu and listen for once haha. Then fuck her hard while youre telling her whats what.
You think I didn't try this already?
I forgot to mention, she has Moon Leo, so do I.
So every time I act like a man, her Ego gets hurt. 😄
Posted by ufo
caps don't stand down when they have an opinion but idk neither do taurus they just huff and puff until the other person gives in which i am assuming she isn't doing
Exactly, it could be because of that Leo in Moon influence. Otherwise most Capricorns are very subtle and don't go beyond an extent to prove themselves.
Posted by DeleterNerd
Have you tried saying this to her? Stop acting like a beta if you dont want a cap woman to treat you like one. Tell that cookiemonster to sit down stfu and listen for once haha. Then treetrunk her hard while youre telling her whats what.I‘m dying 😂😂😂😂😂
But you should show her that you are a strong man who‘ll bring his woman to his cave and fuck the shit out of her 😂 click to expand
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Well, isn't it Tempting. It does happen, but she is always on the TOP !!!! Oh my!
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Whenever I argue over anything, my Cap woman always , always makes me feel like I am the one on the wrong side.
Is it just me? Whenever I start a fight or argument with my strong logic and reason, she always turns it the other way around and I end up feeling bad why I started it in the first place.
I am a Taurus by the way, why do you Caps do this?