Capricorn and Capricorn

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by PrettyQueenBee on Tuesday, May 20, 2014 and has 17 replies.

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I'm curious ... as a Capricorn, have you successfully dated a fellow Capricorn (no matter what their sex is) ?

From personal experiences, I haven't. But they're awesome friends and support systems to have.

I feel like dating another Capricorn is like dating a male/female version of myself... it's HARD!! Both of you are afraid to fall, hiding true feelings, suspicious, etc. It's a mess. lol

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i haven't either. went on a single date here or there a while ago, but i felt too much the same as the the guy. so much so that it felt more like a good friendship than a deep love with a partner who challenges me.

however??_ i had always wanted to.

my bf now isn't my sign, though we have the same moon??_ even same house placement. so we're similar enough in the way and manner in which we love each other, but different enough in character that i've grown as an individual with him.

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I dated a Cap a number of years back, we always got along well. We're still good friends to this day. Another Cap and I had an electrical attraction to each other, timing was not right, we are also still friends. I'm currently seeing a Cap now - if we don't work or simply just drift apart (in the literal sense) I can't see that we wouldn't be friends. I think one of the best things about dating another Cap is that it is nice to not have someone up your ass all the time and appreciates the fact you're not up theirs.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
It sounds like an extremely boring relationship. What will you teach one another? How to talk like cardboards. Even when cap women attempt to be sweet, it sounds false, they use words like babe, hon, it's so dry. Makes my throat itch.

Now im not anti two cardboard's making cardboard babies, but my Brother who is a Capricorn with a Pisces moon will NOT, i say this NOT, ever be with a Capricorn woman. Not if i have anything to say about it. I can't fuking deal with Two Caps in one family.

He was talking to this super humble beautiful Beyonce looking Virgo the other night, she's a friend of mine (aquintence really), but extremely sweet and humble as heck. Getting a PHD in Nursing. Way too good for his azz, but if they can get off the ground, i'd love it. I think she's a TAD insecure, but who isn't...her and her Virgo man of 8 years recently broke up....(He's dark skinned, he's hit on me while they were dating, i'd date him, i think they're completely over)

Anyways my brother would be lucky as heck. But no Capricorn wifey for him, hell NO!

Remember, it depends on the placements as well ! I'm a Capricorn, but have loads of Fire in my charts, & I'm faaaarrrrrrr from boring. I know Capricorns can be in a successful relationship. The beginning part of getting to know each other is crucial. We put people on thin ice during that phase. lmao

I can already tell that two Capricorns can = perfection. As a Capricorn, we long for someone who can understand us. I feel like no sign understands us better than fellow Capricorns and those dang Virgos.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
I don't know what it is that makes the Devil and Caliber a match in heaven, but they work, something about them is cute...creative.

but most Capricorns i know are hard arses and hard arses need softness around them and someone to push them to get out of their own way. They get too dark and don't enjoy the basics of life. They're too restrained. Too constrained. Too constipated.

They're not FUN. Great personalities for sure and humorous as heck, but there is no FUN in them...so they need to expand their horizons.

Also anybody can understand and appreciate a Caps moodiness, especially Crabs, we get it, but ya'll are draining. You need maybe a Gemini or Sag to show you the light.

LMAO ! I have many Sag placements in my chart. The typically Capricorn def. isn't fun. And most (not all) of the Capricorn women I know aren't girly at all... barely feminine.

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Posted by StillWater
Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I'm curious ... as a Capricorn, have you successfully dated a fellow Capricorn (no matter what their sex is) ?

From personal experiences, I haven't. But they're awesome friends and support systems to have.

I feel like dating another Capricorn is like dating a male/female version of myself... it's HARD!! Both of you are afraid to fall, hiding true feelings, suspicious, etc. It's a mess. lol

+1

but when it's good it's really good. like no comparison kind of good.

I love that song. ^___^. And you're right. It's just the fact that the initial phase is the toughest phase. But I know once we get through it, it's pure bliss ! I may try another Capricorn again some day. Right now, I've been bumping into Taurus and Virgo. I likey !

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Us Capricorns love our pace. And we will always give people theirs. Any person I date definitely doesn't have to worry about me being up their asses or constantly blowing their phones up daily.

I'm not the super love bug type... like I don't have to see you or talk to you every single day of the week.

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Posted by StillWater
No, I think we need a Cancer.

NO! Trust me on that!! I spent almost 8 yrs with one... my dedication to work made him feel less than worthy and he believes I was cheating on him at that!!! OMG!! He didn't "say" it as much as resented me for my inattentiveness (due to focus on work - despite the fact I would still come home late and cook, couldn't you cook me a damn meal for once me working 12 hrs a day—? Oh, that's right, he worked in the field, I didn't have a "real" job as I crunched numbers behind a desk all day). The cray involved. NO NEEDIES!!!

We certainly can nurture, but maybe not to the extent some Cancers need...

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CC's got some real issues... Cap on Cap is one of the best same sign pairings. Nothing like having someone to be there for you as you climb to the top and will NEVER let you falter!! Even when (if) the relationship is over, they will have you're back to no end! A Cap's love, support and friendship cannot be compared to...

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Posted by StillWater
Posted by lildol
I dated a Cap a number of years back, we always got along well. We're still good friends to this day. Another Cap and I had an electrical attraction to each other, timing was not right, we are also still friends. I'm currently seeing a Cap now - if we don't work or simply just drift apart (in the literal sense) I can't see that we wouldn't be friends. I think one of the best things about dating another Cap is that it is nice to not have someone up your ass all the time and appreciates the fact you're not up theirs.

I didn't know you were dating a Cap lildol. Why not post his chart for us to analyze? 😄

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No need, he's kinda like me as far as personal planets LOL 😉

Only dif is he has his Moon in Pisces and Mars in Sag (we both have Merc and Venus in Sag)