What's it like living with a capricorn?

My capricorn boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and we haven't lived together yet. We are both building our lives still. He's waiting on a full time job and works two part time jobs, and I am working three jobs at the moment. We both live at home still and we just save all of our money.

We both agreed we shouldn't move in together until we are both stable and happy with our careers.

What should I expect when we do live together?

Me: gemini sun
Scorpio moon
Leo rising
Cancer mercury
Cancer venus
Aries mars

Him: capricorn sun (December 22 cusp)
Pisces moon
Leo rising
Capricorn venus
Capricorn mercury
Taurus mars

Capricorns are very private people and we need our own space a lot. Use your intuition.

Besides that, I am really accommodating and I've been told that I am easy to live with. Contrary to what most others believe, capricorns are low maintenance lovers.

It was ok.

Both had the same quirks so it was rather peaceful not to have to discuss every tiny shit coming up.

Posted by Damnata
It was ok.

Both had the same quirks so it was rather peaceful not to have to discuss every tiny shit coming up.

I'm lost. Please elaborate.

ugh I keep forgetting I need to ellaborate on my statements on the earth sign boards lol.

We lived together for an year.

Know those couples that get in each other's faces for the stupidest shit? should the toilet seat be up or down/ where should the toilet paper face/ etc forever and ever?

We weren't like that. It helped that we had a lot of things in common as far as being around the house and dividing chores but even when we disagrees, we found a way to make it work. Earth signs are really accomodating with their partners, despite people calling us "rigid" all the time. Just have a talk with us about how do you think we should divide chores and etc and we'll be on board.

Efortless.

Knowing how to live in silence is also important. There are people that need to be entertained always and we cannot be up for that all the time. One of the nicest memories I have was him playing games at his PC and me reading a book in bed. We were both lost in our 2 worlds but no one disturbed the other and we had our space..despite being in the same room.

Posted by Damnata
ugh I keep forgetting I need to ellaborate on my statements on the earth sign boards lol.

We lived together for an year.

Know those couples that get in each other's faces for the stupidest shit? should the toilet seat be up or down/ where should the toilet paper face/ etc forever and ever?

We weren't like that. It helped that we had a lot of things in common as far as being around the house and dividing chores but even when we disagrees, we found a way to make it work. Earth signs are really accomodating with their partners, despite people calling us "rigid" all the time. Just have a talk with us about how do you think we should divide chores and etc and we'll be on board.

Efortless.

Knowing how to live in silence is also important. There are people that need to be entertained always and we cannot be up for that all the time. One of the nicest memories I have was him playing games at his PC and me reading a book in bed. We were both lost in our 2 worlds but no one disturbed the other and we had our space..despite being in the same room.

Okay. I like this. The older I get, the more important it is for me to have a partner where I can just be me and not have to worry about entertaining him.

There is great confort in staying at home and relaxing.

While the rest of the world runs around trying to impress everybody and run out of steam in the process..we stay at home and build on steam. Guess where that conserved energy goes? 😉

Posted by Damnata
There is great confort in staying at home and relaxing.

While the rest of the world runs around trying to impress everybody and run out of steam in the process..we stay at home and build on steam. Guess where that conserved energy goes? 😉

say no more. I know. Good stuff 🙂

So, anyway, my point is we are boring people lol.

Moving along..

LOR, you're a Pisces. What the hell are you doing?

Just stare at the vacuum and go "what is this thing and what does it do?"

He'll clean himself rather than teach you.

That's because you should've trained him sooner.

My dad cannot look after himself and he's fucking 51. Not women, years.

It's hard to get us out of a routine.

wtf @ "move the closet".

I had a simillar situation with the Cap when we lived together. Something fell under the closet also

"Hey, can you get that for me?"
"You can move the closet"
"You know what moving furniture does to pregnant women"
"-.-"
"...waiting"

*moves the closet*

troll them into doing stuff! lazy motherfuckers.

It's the Aries Moon LOR. They cannot see us as helpless 😐

Old habits die hard 😄

Posted by eight67530nine
It's the closest thing you'll get to hell.

Yes, it is rather enjoyable.

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Posted by Damnata
Guess where that conserved energy goes? 😉

Into talking for hours on end until his ears bleed?

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hahaha, good one.

I'm worried I'm going to want to have sex all the time and he's going to want to kill me. 😉

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Posted by myloveyourlove32
I'm worried I'm going to want to have sex all the time and he's going to want to kill me. 😉

lol that will probably happen but why would he want to kill you? :O

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Because I might want to do it too much? Haha, can that become annoying to capricorn men?

I can tell you what it's like to live with a gem.

*shivers*

Never again.

Posted by Damnata
Knowing how to live in silence is also important.

Is that possible for a Gem? My gem ex used to talk everything to death until I just wanted to scream at him to STFU!!!!

Like living in average home. Nice, tidy, clean, flat screen tv.

Posted by myloveyourlove32
I'm worried I'm going to want to have sex all the time and he's going to want to kill me. 😉

LOL ^

This might happen... apparently 2 times per day is unusual for a guy. My Virgo friend said once every few days is average.

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Posted by Damnata
Knowing how to live in silence is also important.

Is that possible for a Gem? My gem ex used to talk everything to death until I just wanted to scream at him to STFU!!!!

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If I can do it, maybe a Gem can too?

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Posted by Damnata
Knowing how to live in silence is also important.

Is that possible for a Gem? My gem ex used to talk everything to death until I just wanted to scream at him to STFU!!!!

If I can do it, maybe a Gem can too?

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The problem is when a cap needs some space and time to think, the gem is constantly yacking away about an issue and the cap can't hear themselves think. We don't come to a conclusion at the drop of a hat - we need time to mull over all the possibilities and different ways to approach said issue (which a gem goes by instinct and how they are feeling at the moment - they don't take time to process and consider other possibilities or alternatives). The only way we can do that is to have some quiet time for thinking. When the gem keeps yapping away, the cap only wants to escape, which the gem takes personally and thinks the cap doesn't care about said issue. The cap feels pressured and when a cap feels pressured, they shut down and do not play well with others.

Of course, I speak in "we" when I should say "I", but I don't think I'm alone with what I said.

But that was ONE of MY negative experiences living with a gem.

My mars is in aries, his is in taurus. In western and vedic astrology.

I have both our charts written on my opening comment. Surprised none of you have pointed any of it out yet.

PS: I personally am a quiet gem. I think a lot, and I don't know how to communicate my feelings.

Hey, kind of like Capricorns.

Posted by myloveyourlove32
PS: I personally am a quiet gem. I think a lot, and I don't know how to communicate my feelings.

Hey, kind of like Capricorns.

I must admit that I am prejudiced on cap/gem relationships. Mine ended disasterous, as well as several others I know. That doesn't mean yours will. Best wishes!! And I mean that sincerely.

🙂

Posted by truecap

Posted by myloveyourlove32
PS: I personally am a quiet gem. I think a lot, and I don't know how to communicate my feelings.

Hey, kind of like Capricorns.

I must admit that I am prejudiced on cap/gem relationships. Mine ended disasterous, as well as several others I know. That doesn't mean yours will. Best wishes!! And I mean that sincerely.

🙂

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Thanks, true cap. Hopefully we make it. Hopefully my friends who were just married, will too.

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Like living in average home. Nice, tidy, clean, flat screen tv.

LMAO. This is hilarious because my Cap bestie just replaced his 62" for a 70"... You caps are pretty similar 😛

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i find them distasteful. you can either afford it or you can't. i don't know what saving 0.50 does but that's me and probably very UNCAP like.

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Really? I like a good deal but I'm not into coupons. Maybe it's a cap GUY thing... My cap girlfriends like spending money on expensive things 🙂

If you can handle me be silent for hours we'd do just fine.

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i find them distasteful. you can either afford it or you can't. i don't know what saving 0.50 does but that's me and probably very UNCAP like.

Really? I like a good deal but I'm not into coupons. Maybe it's a cap GUY thing... My cap girlfriends like spending money on expensive things 🙂

Yeah, i love good deals too! But, i don't like the whole haggling or pulling coupons out. Now negotiating on bigger deals like buying a car or a house or a salary. That's different because you're dealing with big numbers. But little coupons like $ 5 off or 25% off of $ 3.99. It just seems too hurting.

Usually, I have expensive taste too but i try to curb that. lol.

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Yeah, I don't like it either... Mind you when times are tough I can really stretch a dollar! I knew you had expensive taste lol

My cap guy friend is constantly telling me where the sales are on this or that. It's cute... And he means well, but I don't listen.

Posted by StillWater
But you know when it comes to taste, i don't care for the price. All i care about is quality and it just so happens that the stuff i like are expensive. it's kind of a curse.

My mom is opposite. she loves the cheap thrills. i'm like....what is this?? she's like don't worry it was like $ 20,just wear it once and as soon as you don't like it throw it away. I'm mortified.

I'm like, no, i rather buy this for $ 200 and keep it a while in good condition.

Is your mom a cap? My mom is a cap... She likes quality things even if she can't afford them. I'm like that also and plus they last longer-- hello.

Yesssss do that... I'm good at guessing signs or I think!

Definitely nit a cap by what you said earlier.

Not

Posted by WolfMoon
If you can handle me be silent for hours we'd do just fine.

I'm with you ^^^^

Comfortable silence........ahhhh

Posted by CapTenn

Posted by WolfMoon
If you can handle me be silent for hours we'd do just fine.

I'm with you ^^^^

Comfortable silence........ahhhh

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How about during? Does that have to be in silence also?

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Posted by WolfMoon
If you can handle me be silent for hours we'd do just fine.

I'm with you ^^^^

Comfortable silence........ahhhh

How about during? Does that have to be in silence also?

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Hmmmm? During what?

You talking during the dirty?

yes during the DIRTYYY lol

why is it even coined dirty— (virgo must have come up with that)

Posted by aquapiscescusp
yes during the DIRTYYY lol

Guess I am just too damn old for you whippersnappers....shrugs.

In answer to the question, some verbalizing is ok. Sensual moans and groans if you will, but too boisterous or downright nasty is a turn off for me...generally. Unless, I am whiskey drunk and then all bets are off.

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Posted by WolfMoon
If you can handle me be silent for hours we'd do just fine.

I'm with you ^^^^

Comfortable silence........ahhhh

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It's the best!!!

My ex Gem was always yacking away...Unless a game was on. lol!

Posted by Damnata
ugh I keep forgetting I need to ellaborate on my statements on the earth sign boards lol.

We lived together for an year.

Know those couples that get in each other's faces for the stupidest shit? should the toilet seat be up or down/ where should the toilet paper face/ etc forever and ever?

We weren't like that. It helped that we had a lot of things in common as far as being around the house and dividing chores but even when we disagrees, we found a way to make it work. Earth signs are really accomodating with their partners, despite people calling us "rigid" all the time. Just have a talk with us about how do you think we should divide chores and etc and we'll be on board.

Efortless.

Knowing how to live in silence is also important. There are people that need to be entertained always and we cannot be up for that all the time. One of the nicest memories I have was him playing games at his PC and me reading a book in bed. We were both lost in our 2 worlds but no one disturbed the other and we had our space..despite being in the same room.

This is nice! ^^^^^^^^^

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
yes during the DIRTYYY lol

Guess I am just too damn old for you whippersnappers....shrugs.

In answer to the question, some verbalizing is ok. Sensual moans and groans if you will, but too boisterous or downright nasty is a turn off for me...generally. Unless, I am whiskey drunk and then all bets are off.

*hands whiskey.*

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LOLOL