Capricorn male

He seems shy and feeling awkward in your presence because he is interested. Give him time and help him become comfortable with you. Your moon is also Pisces. Are you an extroverted person?

I really don't know. I'm both introverted and extroverted. Did a Briggs Myers personality test twice, once it sajd I'm INFP, the second time it was ENFP. So I can't really say haha.

So you may be an ambivert. My SO is an ambivert too and behaves like your Cap. He is an Aqua sun, but with Cap ascendant and Pisces moon and Sag Venus too. Very talkative with his friends, very shy during our first dates, so I took the initiative until we both became comfortable. Now we are inseparable.

Yours is initiating a lot, so he clearly is interested. Just don't pressure him. Gain his trust first. His Pisces moon may not want to be very open to you in public, but more in the intimacy of a private place. His Sag Venus will make him harder to commit.

Thanks for the insight! What you said makes sense. I will have to work on being patient and not pressuring him, because I am so different than him in this regard. When I start dating someone I decide that they are trustworthy and want to share everything about me, and I can't understand why he doesn't. People are just different, I guess.

And he seems interested in me, I met all his friends, he wants me to meet his parents and people told me he talks about me. I just don't get that from him when we're one on one.

TIL about ambivercy.

Posted by Gob_Shite
A-ha, so you're both Pisces mooners! 😄

Maybe he's feeling overwhelmed by that emotional connection you both share. My advice is to do what most women fail to do, when they're interested in a guy: make the situation a little easier for him to deal with.

Help him, instead of expecting everything to fall into your lap.

I agree, that Pisces Moon wants connection but you need to be patient and stand on your own to show Cap you can handle yourself - he doesn't want a clingon

Posted by youngali
OMG! This is soooo me! 😆

Must be the fire and earth combo in a person, because i do the same shit. I was hanging out with my cap crush and was like the biggest mute! it was because i was shy and didn't know what to say. But the minute he brought me around his friends it was a lot easier to start talking. his friends consist of guys and girls (libra, cancer, and two capricorns and himself)! I find it easier to socialize in groups. one on one, in the beginning stages, i'm shy af.

he likes you. give it time he'll slowly get out that shell.

That's so relieving to hear! What confused me is that we met in a group setting while drunk, and talked a bit until we went to a party. He clinged to me and was with me all night (which I didn't mind as I was immediatly attracted to him), it was only him and me until 5 am, and he told me that he liked me like hours after we met. Must be because we were drinking hard and took some x, but he came on to me really strongly. So I got the idea that he was that big confident man, which is obviously not the case.

Posted by Gob_Shite
A-ha, so you're both Pisces mooners! 😄

Maybe he's feeling overwhelmed by that emotional connection you both share. My advice is to do what most women fail to do, when they're interested in a guy: make the situation a little easier for him to deal with.

Help him, instead of expecting everything to fall into your lap.

How should I help him?

I never get pissy when he's silent, sometimes we hang out and an hour can pass and no one speaks a word, but it kind of hurts when we're with friends and he talks to friends without looking at my direction. I am not the most verbal person myself but this is another level of silent and stoic.

Posted by Gob_Shite

Posted by Biboroon

Posted by Gob_Shite
A-ha, so you're both Pisces mooners! 😄

Maybe he's feeling overwhelmed by that emotional connection you both share. My advice is to do what most women fail to do, when they're interested in a guy: make the situation a little easier for him to deal with.

Help him, instead of expecting everything to fall into your lap.

How should I help him?

I never get pissy when he's silent, sometimes we hang out and an hour can pass and no one speaks a word, but it kind of hurts when we're with friends and he talks to friends without looking at my direction. I am not the most verbal person myself but this is another level of silent and stoic.

Affectionate gestures - actions, not words. Believe me, that will go a long way for a Cap...

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Thanks for the tip ?