Capricorn man confusing !! Help !!

Ok . Im a Virgo , I knew this Capricorn guy since I was 17 and he was 26 , I'm 20 and now he's going on 30 . We have had a long on and off history together at first I only saw him as a friend we've had sex but I only saw him as a cool guy ..
Last year labor day , he came to pick me up and he took me to his favorite park in the city where he says that He goes to clear his mind which was cool, he held my hand we kissed and he gave me his sweater cause I was cold.

He spoke to me about the future and he wants to have kids, get married and be successful which I agreed and said I wanted the same. Later on that night , I slept at his house we had great sex ... 2 weeks later I find out I'm pregnant !!!
Long story short i was 19 freaked out on him and got a abortion which he wanted me to keep
The baby ..

. After that I got involved with a Leo guy it didn't work out and a year later my Capricorn guy
Comes back on "labor day" 2012... Last week Wednesday he came by my house ,I got dressed went outside to see him . He said you look great still and you kept yourself up great ! He also kept looking at me when I noticed and looked up he looked away. He asked me "So what are we? What do you want us to be?" I said your the man so it's your choice lol . I asked him if I wanted to get pregnant again would he still be up for it he said yes!! I was surprised .

We txted back n forth for the past 3 days, the last time I heared from him he asked me to come see him but I had work.. He said its cool and he hasn't txted or called me for 2 days ... Idk what to do help please !!!!!

@bullgem sad how ??

@piscesmoon I understand completely what your saying ..
I really like him but when I asked him if he was upset he said not at all money comes first
On that same day .. So why contact him ? I feel like I'm throwing myself at him.. He should be chasing me,
But ughhhhh if he dosnt contact me by today , what do I say to him when I do actually contact him ?

Just say hi, how's your day going?

sad indeed. 😢

@stillwater ...

You was right Hun , I think he was waiting for a txt or call from me cause he answered back
Quickly .. We had a short convo and were sending each other pics later.


I see I have to be patient with him cause this is gonna take a while..

Posted by piscesmoon

Posted by StillWater
OUch for that Cap guy. What a gentleman! You found a good man...and if you love him then please him. He's the one in a vulnerable position between you two because you left him, you had an abortion with your(*plural*). I can't imagine how that must have hurt him...but he must love you *A LOT* for him to say yes to you again.


So don't play games..it seems you guys are beyond that. Call him, talk to him, be a part of his life, be engaged in what's best for him. LOVE THAT MAN, DAMN IT OR I WILL! LOL

agree and happy you got it...

I will say don't play games with someone you love... Don't be nuts over it or anything... but I believe he put the ball in your court... that is the problem with alot of girls that want you to chase for ever... It is really not that hard to find another girl... It is just if you like that girl some times they feel that and want to run because they want to feel the love so to speak... Not a good idea... I normally will not chase... because when the going gets tough... these girls will jump ship because they want the man to do all the emotion work...

I am a gentleman and will treat a lady like a lady... if she acts like a lady...
lol

If not then it is immature little girl games...

PM

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It's nothing to be confused about, I blew him off cause I was pregnant and freaked out started talking to another guy and on labor
Day of this year he contacted me via Facebook, if I didn't love him , have feelings for him or feel a connection emotionally as well as physically I
Wouldn't bother contacting him back !! I got older and realized I made a huge mistake with a choice I made when I was 19 ..

He calls me his babymother so .. We were having a convo about having a baby and he said sure whenever I'm ready ...
Right now were taking things very slow due to the fact that were both earth signs....

Posted by 3588PISCES
^^^^^^^^^^ **I blew him off because I was confused, freaked out and instead of giving myself some time to recover from the shock, I figured it would be easy to start talking to Mr. LEO. & the hell with the baby & the love of my life...

** After seeing how Mr. LEO treated me, I realized I made a HUGE mistake in letting a good guy go.**



Yeah sounds like SUPER SLOW EARTH sign of yours to catch on things, but do move fast with weird dumb, actions!!!

Buncha TORO, here.

Girl you are still young and very imature.......

Ok well as i said I'm sure about what I want , & I'm gonna get it case closed .

Thank you 🙂