Posted by lnana04Inana04, your answer reminds me of what my Cap is like. I'm curious, how much space do you want in a relationship (living together vs living apart)? Could you describe what an ideal relationship would be like in terms of space?
You must be bored.
Im not like that at all. I try to preserve every ounce of my energy, especially since Im always low on it, so knowing that someone dislikes me allows me to not give them an ounce of my energy/time, which puts me in a better space personally. Id rather know because it just means one less person Ill have to speak to or deal with. Sometimes wondering if a person really likes me can consume me mentally, so if a person let it be known it does me a huge favor and Im grateful for it.
I will not entertain that person in ANY way. I let them have their space while I can rest in mine. All I want most days is my space.
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