Capricorn Woman-Gemini Woman friendships

Hello,

any experiences from Cappies with Gemini friendships? Both ladies have Moon and Mars in Virgo too.

Thanks in advance

Posted by stillwat3r
It's always dunny tome how geminis try to get the upper hand by trying to be manipulative or openly hurtful but they have no clue who they are going against.

LOL I know right!! Literally every experience with Gemini women was like that! We have a lot of fun but zero emotional connection. I have a bad gut feeling and the never fail to dissappoint me. They give me bad energy. I've distanced myself from a Gemini friend recently and I feel so much better and realized I don't like the bish! Why did I even put up with her. She's so competitive and I don't have any of these issues with ANY of my other friends. They're so jealous and afraid that you steal "their shine" (which they don't have) so they try to dim your light and overshadow you. THey love doing that by making you look dumb. Which they cant with Cappie and that makes them furious. And if you look better AND are smarter they will try to bring you down at some point. The moment you think you'Re getting along well they do sth to prove you wrong. They do that always in front of other ppl too. Two different personalities in public and in private. But Cappie doesn't forget!

Awwww, I love geminis! Some of my closest friends are gemini suns, and my best friend of 5 years has a gemini moon.

IDK whats up with that stigma of Gems being manipulative, cheating, or unreliable, lol.

Posted by stillwat3r
It's always dunny tome how geminis try to get the upper hand by trying to be manipulative or openly hurtful but they have no clue who they are going against.

+1million

my oldest and bestest friend is a Gemini.
We have been friends for decades and we've been through it all including a major falling out (caused by me), marriage, kids, divorce. She has seen my faults and forgiven them and she has done things no other person would like stand-in for me at a close family members funeral.

Our friendship has survived time and distance(different continents. I don't even know how I deserved such luck.

There's no rush to forge a friendship. Take your time; let it unfold; go with your gut.

From what Ive seen the Caps are always the ones left hurt and bitter in the end when things inevitably go kaboom. Gems just move on, which is something Caps could learn from them 😛

The gem women I know just give me a vibe that they can't be trusted and that they aren't loyal. Not to say they are or aren't, but I just get that vibe from them. Makes me feel very guarded, which interferes with the ability to get close. They just seem to thrive on drama and manipulation and my gut instinct says to keep that sheild up. The moodiness and change in personality constantly throws me for a loop. I tend to seek friends who are more consistent.

My Cappie best friend is best friends with a Gemini. They are like brothers.

I wouldn't mind having a Gemini friend.

Of course not Cappies are great and Gems bad. I was totally generalizing from my own experience and was looking for input.
But one of the posters said it best, it's just this "untrustworthy" vibe that I get.

I just felt it was odd that the experiences that I had were so similar. Anywho, I do know that at some point it could be a vice versa thing though. Cause sometimes we start acting weird when we don't trust someone. My major issue with 2 of them (one is a distant cousin) was how competitive and disrepectful they acted when we were with others. I have never had this experience with any other sign. And it's one of the things that I don't take lightly. Be competitive all you want, I actually don't mind leaving the "stage" to her, my Cap Sun doesn't mind but I guess my Libra RIsing was "taking" the shine without even trying and that's what they didn't like. LOL.

Well sorry if I offended any Gems :-) I was just curious for simliar experiences!

And since we all are Astro experts right, we know that the Sun Sign is such a small part so of course not all Gems are cray cray, only most LOL. J/k

By now I know what pisses me off, so I will try to be upfront about it in the future.

So peace from one Alpha Female to the other 😄

If you guys have any other input on the combo though, let me know. For example what pisses off a Gem about a Cap!?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
From what Ive seen the Caps are always the ones left hurt and bitter in the end when things inevitably go kaboom. Gems just move on, which is something Caps could learn from them 😛

Awww there you are again you little terrier, putting your nose in grown women's business lol.


For me it has never gone "kaboom". I never wait that long. My specialty is silently walking away, cutting off, might be my Libra Rising, not saying it's good but it helps, detaching is easier.With the 3 Gem friends that I had I was the one trying to find a way out, even with my distant cousin, she moved to my city a while ago, I met her once, since then I try to avoid her. Same with the other girl I've known since school. Our contact has always been on and off, I can go for a couple of months or a year then I need to get away from them. They're not bad ppl., I just find them very draining and exhausting in the long run.

Looking at you Shaka, I'm starting to think Gem Moon is actually the shitty placement, not Gem Sun LOL. You'Re like a mercenary. Yesterday you were all TeamCappie, I wove them, they're the bestesssst and now look at you. You can love Gem women without hating on Cappie chillax!

Ah Shaka you're a Virgo Moon, not Gem. Golly that's even worse LOL.

Its an awesome moon to have, who in their right mind would want the perfect sun sign (Virgo) being polluted by energy from another moon sign placement? 🙂

Dont touch whats already perfect..

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its an awesome moon to have, who in their right mind would want the perfect sun sign (Virgo) being polluted by energy from another moon sign placement? 🙂

Dont touch whats already perfect..

Bullshiaaaat!! Virgo Moon sucks and I should know cause I have one myself. I'd so love to trade it against an Aqua Moon. Anything but mutable, and no Cappie Moon.

You're a tripe Virgo so I shouldn't be too hard on you, mutable signs and consistency...

And all that Leo divatalk. B?_?_?_h

Believe what you will, babe.

But do remember:

"A tiger doesnt lose sleep over the opinion of sheep"


😉

Did I hear my name somewhere. 😄

Gemini men are 50/50 for me. The three men that really irritate me are all Gemini men. Most of them give me a vibe of being fun but unpredictable, sometimes bordering on untrustworthy. But there are some good guys as well.

The women I usually get along with because they are cute.

Posted by TigerCap
Did I hear my name somewhere. 😄

Gemini men are 50/50 for me. The three men that really irritate me are all Gemini men. Most of them give me a vibe of being fun but unpredictable, sometimes bordering on untrustworthy. But there are some good guys as well.

The women I usually get along with because they are cute.

Hey TigerCap :-)

So similar experience with you. I get along with Gemini Men well too, it's the women that I have issues with. Maybe it's a clash of the titans thing within the same gender..
We're too different I think, I dunno. I hate to generalize it's just weird that the issues that I have with them is ONLY with them and the same with the 3 Gemini women (yours were 3 Gemini men? we might be onto sth lol, do we need more Gems in our lives, is it Gem plus 3 that creates the problem :-P)