Capricorns, how's your relationship with Taurus women?

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Posted by Sagicorn

So it's been 3 months. You didn't found out about him more yet? His colors should have come out by now. Sounds like a very sensitive person given the watery Venus and Mars. Maybe a bit more open than usual Cap about emotions given that Sag Moon and Merc. Unless there is Saturn somewhere around conjuncting them and I'm guessing there might be, considering he is '86. if I'm not mistaken.


Since I made this thread, we rarely talk. Now it seems to be the norm for him to disappear for 4-5 days, then I message him something and he responds, but then he asks me how I'm doing and when I reply and ask him back, he did not respond for a day now, and it's his day off he has studies, but no work I suppose. The last time we texted a few days ago we had a conversation and it came clear to us both that we find eachother suitable, that we need the emotional side of it, since we both knew eachother and saw eachother in a very innocent way. We agreed that we both need that and are on the same page, and that it will take time. He even asked me to promise that any time if I thought I can't continue to let him know and I asked him the same thing, he promised. But then ..... silence.

He is really a puzzle. I never found it so hard to get close to a guy, and I've never been ignored like that. It does hurt, even if he's busy, it's common courtsey to answer.
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I find as a Taurus the puzzle of the Capricorn is the allure. The mystery is what keeps us chasing. I hated the silence. It made me continually second guess myself. I’m not a Capricorn man sorry. I know you want specific insight from them to help you understand your situation. I just know as a Taurus woman the connection with Capricorn men can be very mentally challenging at times. Both signs read into things way too much and do not like confrontation.
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Posted by Sagicorn

So it's been 3 months. You didn't found out about him more yet? His colors should have come out by now. Sounds like a very sensitive person given the watery Venus and Mars. Maybe a bit more open than usual Cap about emotions given that Sag Moon and Merc. Unless there is Saturn somewhere around conjuncting them and I'm guessing there might be, considering he is '86. if I'm not mistaken.


Since I made this thread, we rarely talk. Now it seems to be the norm for him to disappear for 4-5 days, then I message him something and he responds, but then he asks me how I'm doing and when I reply and ask him back, he did not respond for a day now, and it's his holiday, he just has studies, but no work I suppose. The last time we texted a couple of days ago we had a conversation and it came clear to us both that we find eachother suitable, only that we need the emotional side of it, since we both knew eachother and saw eachother in a very innocent way. We agreed that we both need that and are on the same page, and that it will take time. He even asked me to promise that any time if I felt I can't continue to let him know and I asked him the same thing. But then ..... silence.

He is really a puzzle. I never found it so hard to get close to a guy, and I've never been ignored like that. It does hurt, even if he's busy, it's common courtsey to answer.

Oh tell me about it! Been through that too and it ended in no communication at all after some time when it started going down that road. Not to frighten you with this and can be completely irrelevant to your situation ofc. I would suggest to let him be that way and go do your own things. His Sun and Mars are in conflict because his Mars-planet of action is all dreamy, hopeful and wants big things but his Sun is realistic and keeps being in charge because such Mars is a weak one so he might not be strong on acting the way he wants and his head tells him other things so that stops him probably. So I would say that you need to make him act or nothing will happen. Ofc that is if you don't want to be the one who is chasing
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It just sucks that he started acting inconsistently just when I started to have some hope in this relationship. I don't want to chase, and I am not even sure how I'd respond to his lack of communication (I am mad honestly) specially that the last time he did that, a few days ago, I noted it jokingly and he apologized and said his network is weak and showed it to me on his screen. I get it ok, he's not lying, but this is not about network now. So now I am not sure whether to just act like I dont care (which he probably thinks is true anyway) or say something about it.

How do I make him act? not sure how you mean it, again I won't chase
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Posted by Ellelalala

I find as a Taurus the puzzle of the Capricorn is the allure. The mystery is what keeps us chasing. I hated the silence. It made me continually second guess myself. I’m not a Capricorn man sorry. I know you want specific insight from them to help you understand your situation. I just know as a Taurus woman the connection with Capricorn men can be very mentally challenging at times. Both signs read into things way too much and do not like confrontation.


It's true, I never second guessed myself so much!
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Posted by Ellelalala

I dunno. I feel when I hear people say they always come back sometimes fuels people to continue on when sometimes it’s best to just let go and leave them be. But I agree 100% that you can not force a Capricorn man to talk when he doesn’t want to. If you try they only dig in deeper and stay silent. Sometimes I think they do it to see how you react.


The thing is the way he ignored my text or postponed answering, makes me angry. Whatever feelings I had or were going to develop towards him, will be gone by this treatment.
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I dunno. I feel when I hear people say they always come back sometimes fuels people to continue on when sometimes it’s best to just let go and leave them be. But I agree 100% that you can not force a Capricorn man to talk when he doesn’t want to. If you try they only dig in deeper and stay silent. Sometimes I think they do it to see how you react.

That exactly is the problem. Doomed if you do, doomed if you don't. I would only say never wait on anyone. Unless it's for an excellent reason that they have to be away like sickness, business abroad and stuff like that. Even then people can communicate if they want
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This is the only excuse I can give him. He works abroad and travelled to a different country for his graduation, so now he still has studies and work. But really even if you are that busy, there is no harm in responding to how you doing? My text did not require him to reply back, but he did and then asked me how im doing so I asked him too out of concern .. if he forgot about me then that's even much worse! lol
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I also thought that way too... well if he wants me in his life he will reply right? Even if I’m just spouting off nonsense. Being busy is a way of life for Capricorn men. They thrive on it. It took me a long time to figure out that it’s just plain rude to be ignored by someone you want in your life. It took me even longer to realize that he obviously just didn’t care enough. I sincerely hope this isn’t the issue for you. I rarely comment here. I just had to because the push/pull force of a Taurus woman & Capricorn man is something that still eludes me. I want to see a happy ending for these two signs.
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I'm a Taurus and #1 never cheated on anyone. I generally like Cap men, but they can be serious assholes. He isnt too busy for what he cares about. He just isnt that into you. I was with 3 Cap men and while they stayed close and made an effort 2 had some serious demons that required professional help and the 1 was way too boring lol. I'm still friends with the boring one. Hes super smart and funny although a bit sedentary.

Dont make excuses for a man and his interests. If you're one of them he wont allow for you to think otherwise unless hes willing to lose your interest and that means he isnt THAT interested.