Complex situation

Hi,

This may or may not be my 4th post in the Capricorn forum. But any advice would really help.

Long story short. The connection I feel with this Capricorn guy, I’ve never felt with anyone in my entire life. Not even my daughters dad.

We have only hung out once. But before we hung out I felt a strong positive connection with him. Which I know what you’re thinking “how is that even possible.” I can’t explain it. When we hung out we did hook up however we did not have sex. He told me things like “we would have beautiful babies” & “when we do actually have sex, it’s going to feel so amazing, idk why but I just feel that.” Of course in my head I’m like ok well, he probably says this to everyone. So I never thought anything of it.

I went out of town the next day and he left that weekend. He’s been back in town for 2 weeks and I haven’t seen him, which I mean it’s cool I guess I can’t be upset about that because I understand that maybe he’s scared of getting too close or maybe he just really isn’t interested in me.

I finally opened up to him and told him That I liked him and would like to have a more organic conversation with him. You know? Like get to know as a human being. I told him he didn’t have to let me know what he thought about that right away.

He would post conversations of him and another girl on his Instagram story, and i never reacted. Instead I one day did the same thing, and he took the bait. I don’t like playing games, but After his response of “awwwww” “im glad you found someone whos ready for love” I realized that maybe he was posting those conversations to see how I’d react?

Last night. I replied back to his Instagram story.. it was a picture of his haircut and I said “I cannot stand you” he replied back with whyyyyy? I told him well, I like your hair cut. Then I told him that the new app his is launching is such a great concept. He replies and says “I have made 1 mil already.... we should go to Tulum.” “Then says jk.... but when I do profit off of it and if I’m still single, having fun then we should go somewhere.” He says “ You’re cool, hot and a good person.... I know this. But I’m living my life and not attached to anything or anyone ❤️.”

I was actually happy he opened up to me a little and I told him that I didn’t know what I was looking for but I never once stated I was looking for love..... I don’t even know if I’m looking for a relationship because of how much I’m trying to juggle right now. I also stated that “I meant what I said to him before about being friends and honestly I’ve never suggested a friendship with anyone I’ve ever hooked up with.” ( I usually detach myself and cut the guy off)..... but it’s so different with him. I don’t want to let him go from my life and i really do value a friendship with him regardless of the outcome. I feel like I’m hurting myself everyday though. Some days I feel really strong, and other days like today I feel like I’m just holding onto hope and I know how hard it would be for me to see him with another female.

I’m the the type to just detach myself like I said before. It’s a defense mechanism and I don’t know what to do at this point. I’m 100% sure I’ve friendzoned myself, but it’s like I don’t feel that it would be right to completely cut him off. 😢 I just don’t know why or how I could feel so deeply for someone I barely know.

Also, I’m a cancer and he is Capricorn... he has plenty of fire and water in his chart. I have plenty of fire and water in mine. His moon is sagittarius and my moon is Aries.

Take him at his word. If a Capricorn is interested he will pursue you relentlessly no matter how much you back off. The guy is either not ready for a relationship or he's not ready for one with you.

Posted by WildatHeart
Take him at his word. If a Capricorn is interested he will pursue you relentlessly no matter how much you back off. The guy is either not ready for a relationship or he's not ready for one with you.

I agree with wildatheart .Caps will pursue hard if they are into someone