@pisceanloves
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Cappi said "he can't do this, he's made his decision"
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..So he didn't know this before he started to get with you?
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Yeah he did everything in his power to get me hooked. Broke my eart into million pieces and now he's gone
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..
It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
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Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so
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Well he has made his decision so I thought I would come up with mine 🤔
he can’t do both? pathetic
Wise move in letting him go
Better things for you to come
👍
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so click to expandclick to expand
He asked you to go? 🤔
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so click to expandHe asked you to go? 🤔 click to expand
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Actually he didn't. He just said he can't do this because he's going to be extremely busy with school and work. So I was like you don't want me then
Posted by UnicornSag
You know what-Cap who loves you won't ditch you to chase career goals. They CAN do both IF they want to. My friend is with a Cap who had to move to another country for job and he didn't leave her for it, they made it work, he made it work. So yeah, finding explanations for that in his Cap, they chase after career is bs, sure they do chase after it but they like everyone else care for people they love too at the same time
So what I'm getting is that his feelings for me isn't that strong? Yeah maybe. I asked if he could move with me and he started analyzing minimum wage and an average income, he decided it wasn't worth it, because he gets paid better where he is right now and down the road he will be making 5k a month
Wow, just based on your placements I don’t see how Capricorn would be compatible for you. You are quite watery and need someone to nourish all that sensitivity and sweetness. Capricorn just doesn’t fit the bill I’m afraid.
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
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I call bs. Plenty of people and caps among them who juggle career and family. This excuse is so flimsy for me
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
Well I came up with the brand new idea, that I'm moving with him and will try to make positive changes for both of us, since he's too busy. I'm gonna know the answer in the morning lmao
There's nothing I lose so click to expandHe asked you to go? 🤔 click to expand
Actually he didn't. He just said he can't do this because he's going to be extremely busy with school and work. So I was like you don't want me then click to expand
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Yikes! You should’ve said, “that’s ok if you need to focus more of your attention on work/school, I’m not going anywhere.”
He gave you the opportunity to back out. You took it.
Cap wants that ride or die. I feel like the way he worded it was almost a test to see if your gonna stick it out with him...😬
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
I call bs. Plenty of people and caps among them who juggle career and family. This excuse is so flimsy for me click to expand
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Most men can't give 100 in a relationship is their career goals are not in place, especially caps
Posted by pisceanloves
To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go..It's important for a Capricorn to achieve work careee goals if you love them set them free click to expand
I call bs. Plenty of people and caps among them who juggle career and family. This excuse is so flimsy for me click to expand
Most men can't give 100 in a relationship is their career goals are not in place, especially caps click to expand
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Not in my experience.
Posted by besarlalluvia
he can’t do both? patheticI think it's smart
Not letting a relationship get in the way of a future you're trying to create. click to expand
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Your relationship is part of your future. Otherwise what are you doing in a relationship??!
You will always be second to their work
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"Yeah he did everything in his power to get me hooked. "
That statement stood out. This is what I call pick up game from pick up artist. They're not in it for the long haul. Just in it long enough to sharpen their skills then they are off to bag another. You may not know it but you're better off without his low self esteem behind.
Next guy that comes into your life trying to CONVINCE you to love him....run. Love shouldn't be forced or convinced. Love falls in place naturally when a man is genuinely taking his time.
Hook line and sink her. Hook her with lines and sink her later.
Posted by besarlalluvia
he can’t do both? patheticI think it's smart
Not letting a relationship get in the way of a future you're trying to create. click to expand
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if you can’t multitask you aren’t that great
Posted by pisceanloves
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Well he has made his decision so I thought I wouldcome up with mine 🤔
Eh it was stupid to talk about things based on astrology.
The gist of the truth to what I said, regardless of astrology, is that you shouldn't torture yourself like that for someone who essentially is tossing you under a bus because you aren't
maximally important to him.
He doesn't love you, and chasing him won't magically make him start loving you. I basically just think you are making a stupid choice based on how you /feel/
You'll learn the hard way. I did. I don't do that kind of shit anymore because
I know the only chance I have at a successful relationship. Is to make sure /they/ love me, rather than determining things because I love them.
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very well said, I will do the last statement
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To focus on achieving his career goals ... And I let him go.. 😢