courting a capricorn lady

what are the best ways to get a cappy woman to warm up to you the way she likes to in a relationship

Be real.

Yes, just be yourself. I know personally, I'm most uncomfortable when someone is putting on an "act" or trying to impress me(which I dislike). When people let their guards down and "show up" so do I. Its really that simple.

Posted by HighTide

what are the best ways to get a cappy woman to warm up to you the way she likes to in a relationship

time, patience, and sacrifice.

Well the best way is to also show by actions that you are interested in her, always do what you say you will, never ever make her think there is someone else, be open and hoest as possible to her, because if you dont then she will begin to think negative about it which will only push you2 away from one another . Dont hide things we caps hate when our mates seem to private...if you ever have to critice do lightly because it will only cause her to think too deep into it, which will be downin to you ...just be like a close guy friend without seemin to distant, when she does open up dont get bothered by all the attention she will shower you with ,just be ready in other words

Well after about a month of courting and being very patient it looks like we are a couple now. Everything sort of happened all at once in a quick but nice way 🙂

After being very gentlemen like I began to tell her that I was afraid I would lose her if I didn't act fast and told her I wanted to be exclusive with her.Funny thing is that we went from not even kissing or holding hands to straight on sex after we confirmed we were together. It was really nice and natural and didn't feel awkward at all. She could tell I was genuine about my feelings towards her so it was nice for us to have alot of steamy sex this weekend after all that hold out.

I have never dated a Cappy before, yet they seem to know how to put u at ease and seem very loyal people. You just gotta show you mean business and take your time at first so the goat can sniff u out good lol.

I am a Cancer btw, I have heard Capricorns get annoyed by our over emotional nature, but with her she puts me in the right kind of mood where I can be more practical than emotional when I am around her. Like she is basically saying "I am going to be loyal to you but follow my lead" lol

Really liking how Capricorns operate in love.

My best friend is cap. I would say just be yourself is good advice! Also, ask her about her goals and seem interested. She has many.

Awww🙂

Caps can be very intuitive so dont think u can pull one over on her..they will sniff it out. Hahahah🙂

Posted by HighTide
I am a Cancer btw, I have heard Capricorns get annoyed by our over emotional nature, but with her she puts me in the right kind of mood where I can be more practical than emotional when I am around her. Like she is basically saying "I am going to be loyal to you but follow my lead" lol

Really liking how Capricorns operate in love.

I was married a long time to a cancer. Over time i did get tired of his depressive, reclusive nature.
It can be warying on us...or maybe just me. LOL
Once we give u our heart we will do everything and anything to make it work!

Posted by ArticleL
Be real.

Can't say it enough. She will see straight through bullshit, but we can respect a person who is authentic....

Posted by 25thDecan

Posted by HighTide

what are the best ways to get a cappy woman to warm up to you the way she likes to in a relationship

Bend over...and relax. Or...if you're really into her, bite the pillow...she'll be goin in dry!j/k


Couldn't resist....lmao

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Lmao, you are so wrong for that!

like what most of them have mentioned above.

keep it real, be honest. we can tell the genuine ones from the fakes very quickly. and hate it when we get lied to, especially when it comes to big issues in relationships. dont be too inconsistent with your actions when you're interested in her, it'll be great if you guys form a good friendship first, she'll open up slowly, bit by bit you'll see her real side when shes more relaxed. she tends to be ambitious, so ask her about her goals and her interests, one great way to open her up as caps are usually quiet from the outset of knowing them (judging from those i know). and respect her, some of them have loads of pride but are quite sentimental inside. so a nice compliment or two will work at times 😉 good luck!

Make us laugh! Lord knows, we need to relax. Just be yourself. Be thoughtful and considerate. Be respectful. Have good manners and don't embarrass us in public. Don't try too hard to impress us. Also, don't spend money unwisely and frivolously - we are conservative, but will spend on quality. Don't be a pushover - we won't respect you. May not go for all caps, but it works for me.

I suggest if you want to meet her, tell her where and when and show up and go from there. Fastest and sure fire way to hurt a cap lady is to stand her up on a meeting. Also when a person says they would like to meet up and never do anything to make sure they meet that also makes cap lady hurt and not want to see them at all. So if anyone wants to court a cap lady make sure you meet with them when you say you do!

HighTide

awe so cute. according to astrology, the cancer capricorn match might be the only opposite sign match that would actually do very well with their opposing characteristics creating more balance rather than friction. nice!

imo, cap women warm up to a guy that is very down to earth, strong, stable in their values and feelings, and charming. In my experience with cancer guys... they have all of that very naturally. 😉

the one cancer guy that i got annoyed with... i could tell i made him feel insecure somehow. i think it was that insecurity that made him act out "too" emotionally. this is a nice way for me to say, he managed to act like a jerk when I think he was trying to be teasing and flirtatious. this is why I stress emotional security.

I MELT for a guy who is consistent and solid in the way he feels about things.

hope this helps and good luck with your cap lady.

old fashioned things like chilvalry.
When they drift away keep a lifeline and they will come back
offer security
show family values
romance- old fashioned
shes a goat so show some machismo dont be a slave drooling desperate to please. show you have some power to defend and protect

show some amibition- capricorns climb mountains as goat
show you can be a breadwinner

its important not to appear as a devoted doormat. An old fashioned man commands respect but in a very romantic way not in a thuggish way. this is fundamental problem in modern society. men are confused about their role

what women want is a man who is strong but is also not overpowering them. its imbalanced when:
the man overpowers the woman being the leader..controlling dictating imprisoning
the man worships the woman and appears like a total wimp, pushover, doormat

the women resent being controlled but they also are turned on by machismo because a strong man can defend the nest protect the village etc and is healthy.

The solution is not to be at the extremes of dominance/submission but to aim for equality. Both people maintain individuality. This is reality. 2 humans both are equal and should not be enslaving each other

so show strength and dont be submissive but also show respect and dont be a brute

I dated a cancer. I loved his affectionate nature but was turned off by his lack of individuality. It seemed he was only interested in sensuality. I was seeking someone who i could share my heart. And in my heart was a lot of philosophy, ambition. he closed those doors to me by making a very contented life based solely on sex and affection. I felt like he just wanted me below the waist. Even when we talked about dreams and goals he only wanted to know my sexual dreams and goals.

Sex is awesome but be aware capricorns want to conquer the world and they want to be able to talk about that and share it with their partner. For me I wanted to conquer my own mind so Im passionate about psychology etc. Dont mock the capricorns projects and fads but enjoy watching her and encourage her to blossom. Show your own passions so she feels an affinity with you.

@michellemabelle2

Me being to sensual is what ruined the relationship, She liked it at first but eventually was like "do we always have to have sex when I come over". Sometimes she just wanted to chill after work and being a Cancer male I pushed that issue too much. Looking back I should have been more balanced.

However,she would call me everday like I was up to something when I wasn't even though I found out she still got on her dating site profile way after I deleted mine. I didn't call her on it until the breakup.



I learned with a Cappy woman, that they can be really fun freaks when they feel like it, just not every night it seems.