Decisions ... Decisions ... Decisions ... (Page 2)

Okay,

I kind of got the answer I want but I don't really know how to deal with it, is this normal.

I'm so glad that my outer surface doesn't reflect what I truly feel in the inside, because I'm all over the place right now.

This guy is really shy okay, so a friend of his just dragged the truth right out of him, but I ... I don't really know what to think. If you really feel for someone, wouldn't you call him. Apparently, his friend knows about all this too ...

And its just ... why in the hell didn't he just fucking tell me LOL!!!!

See, most guys I've dealt with just come on out with it -- including that God-for-saking cancer guy.

This dude, WHY IN THE HELL IS HE SO SCARED LOL!!!

I seri

""Do you remember when the boy on the playground that always picked on one particular girl? You know, he always pushed her around, hit her, teased her, sometimes he spoke to her, and other times he didn't -- just to drive her crazy. Do you remember a boy doing that to one particualr girl? Now, I'll let you figure the rest out ...".
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He likes you. He's just childish, immature, or likes to play cute.

I see (and agree) with cappywench's point. Its not cool to do that at his age...but in the end he does like you.

You need to date a little younger. I lie older guys to, but...

Ummm, well ...

This is bad ... I'm not sure how bad it is, but I need to reorganize myself here.

Both the Leo/Virgo and the Aries are here. The Leo/Virgo is in the weightroom and the Aries (not the Aries/Taurus guy, that's another guy all together) is in the gym. I thought things were over with the Leo/Virgo and I ... so I tried to move on with someone else *bites nails*. Now that I hear all this, I'm not quite sure how to put it all in words but ...

He likes you.

He's just childish, immature, or likes to play cute.

But he's 30 years old!

Okay, so the Leo/Virgo just left to go pick up his 4 year old. Since he's a shy guy (I guess ... this day has been beyond strange already) I decided to kind of confirm that I liked him too.

I know that thats a bad room in the "Women's Handbook", but in a case like this, I think its good for each side to be aware that there is 'interest' there ... I think ...

No no no, tell him grown ups ask other grown ups out on dates. Say it just like that.

You can be cute too. 🙂


Now I see how you meet these guys...smart girl. Working at a gym 😉

No no no, tell him grown ups ask other grown ups out on dates. Say it just like that.

Oops, I already did ... hahaha, did I miss up already LOL!!! WOW

Well since its done. He can still ask you out like a man.

Well since its done. He can still ask you out like a man.

Well, as he was leaving, he said that we will talk about it later.

LOL, I felt really sensitive at the moment. I never EVER let a guy know that I really like him. There was only one and that was that evil cancer guy and I came close to telling the scorpio (that police men I spoke about months ago) that I like him, but I didn't. So now ... I don't know, I'm afraid.

I think you should still use my line. 🙂

LOL, Im just that kinda girl. 🙂

BUT he started cappywench with playground line. You know aquas are good with the comebacks and sarcasm. If he has a sense of humor and is witty he should get it...although we are talking about virgoes here and a man for that matter.

*He started it with the playground line.

not to mention some leo influence...gosh, you make me seem mean 😛😉

Interesting...bling is a good test dummy (if he were around)...I know he's sensitive to certain things though.


Only the strong survive this Lady.

Yeah,

I don't like to show certain sides of myself LOL, I felt weak of a sudden. I don't usually come right out and tell men that I like them.

Haha, sounds like branh. 😛

imho, you should not tell him that you like him too. sometimes these virguys can be the biggest mind game players intentionally or not. you should wait until he cannot take it any longer when he can't help but express his feelings and desires fully. just my 2 cents.

Too late for that Sagi, I already did *cries* 😢

I just feel like this ... someone had to be the DIRECT or else there will be this whole 'ring-around-the-rosy' for who knows how long. Plus, from my experience, virgos like honesty, they may not always agree with what you say, but they do admire those who have the balls (or galls) to say whats on there mind.

Now tell him when you'll be available for a date...and where/what time he can pick you up.
Leave the rest up to him Miss Direct.
🙂

BUT he started cappywench with playground line. You know aquas are good with the comebacks and sarcasm. If he has a sense of humor and is witty he should get it...although we are talking about virgoes here and a man for that matter.

I agree ladyM, he should be able to take his own stuff IF he has a sense of humor. From where I stand, he does ... well, he seemed humorous for three years LOL!!!!!!!

I'm a saggie/cappie cusp -- so I'm a mixture of the archer and the the seagoat -- it's hard for me to continue a mindless song and dance for too long -- that's why I can't make it with cancer guys 😉

Virgos are suppose to be more direct then that cancer men -- in which they tend to walk sideways on every issue concerning relationships.

Yes, I feel uncomfortable with the fact that I put myself out in the open, but I wouldn't have done that if he's friend (the libra) didn't expose him and confirmed a few things he could not because ... hell, I guess he just can sum them up ...

Be confident about it now. You can take it back, so you have to be confident about the decision regardless of him.

Now tell him when you'll be available for a date...and where/what time he can pick you up.
Leave the rest up to him Miss Direct.

Well Lady, I couldn't really get into all that stuff because he had to pick it his 4 year old from school.

*cant

shy men need leaders. Oh, use my new line cappy!

Next time.
Give him the sexy look too when you do it.

Be confident about it now. You can take it back, so you have to be confident about the decision regardless of him.

Easy for you to day, you are an Aqua girl, I only have an Aqua moon 😉 As a result, I can have all the confidence in what I say at one point, but they regret it later.

I guess I'm afraid that he will avoid me, and I don't want that. We were fine until all this talk about feelings came now EVERYTHING IS A MESS.

Keep in mind, he has my number (yes, I gave the number like three months late but what the heck)and he STILL hasn't called me, but I continue to hear how he has feelings for me. Today was a shocker because much of this I didn't know until his libra friend started spilling his guts lol!!!! "You have no idea how much he's into you, I don't know why he won't tell you the truth. That's why he's mean to you, it's because 'insert name' likes you and he knows it. Do you know the things he says about you?". Yeah, this is a recipe for confusion.

He used the "play ground" theme again (before the libra started talking) and it was cute but annoying because I thought "What on earth, can't he just come out and say this to me —"

Well, you both know where each other stands. So I guess its up to him now.
Just be cool about it in his face.
(Us aquas have our melt downs out of other ppls sight ya know 😛)

shy men need leaders. Oh, use my new line cappy!

You mean, "Adults take other adults out for dinner?"

LOL, that was a good one by the way 🙂 I wouldn't mind using that -- I'm such a smart-ass so that's right up my ally 😛 But ... after todays events, and unsure if I'll see him anytime soon or if I do, he may duck and hide or something. You know the way guys are when they feel expose .... although, he didn't stop his libra friend from saying any of the stuff. As a matter of fact, he put his headphones on and pretended not to listen to the conversation, but his libra friend knew he was listening.

If he doesn't at strange with me, then I'll use the line but if he disappears or acts aloof then I'm finished.

Well that one wasnt my line.
But I think you should go for it when your ready.

No no no, tell him grown ups ask other grown ups out on dates. Say it just like that.

HAHAHAHA!!! Okay! I find it 😉

*found it*

I dont know if you've noticed but I like flirting.
Its usually the best part of this thing called dating and relationships.😛

I dont know if you've noticed but I like flirting.
Its usually the best part of this thing called dating and relationships.

LOL, keeping things light is awesome, and I feel good about it 😄 That's why I don't want what's his face to start acting odd just because I literally stated that I liked him instead of the whole "playground" thing.

Ugh, I'm annoyed 🙂

BRAIN-BLAST!

I know exactly how to get him, I just hope it's not too late ... virgos are mental. Damn it all, why didn't I just think of this before. If he doesn't run away (like a panty waist) then it will work.

Hmmm ....

Why do you always leave us hanging. Your too good at the suspense thing.

Share the brain blast!

Well ... virgo guys are very mental, right? And Leos are full of pride, right? Well being he's a Leo/Virgo cusp, there's onlyy one thing left to do in order to engage him and bring him out of his whole "playground" mentality (lol). I will reveal a side that I don't show often ... and that's my artsy side 😄 I'm very right-brain but I don't show it because my jobs don't require it often.

I have a few twisters that I can't quite put into words because I have to ponder 😉

I just hope he doesn't tuck tail on me ... if he does then so be it, but then I can't have any fun LOL

lol

Finally...

sb!!!! Buddy!!!!

Where have you been, I've been a mess over this stupid son of a gun 😢

lol

Finally...

Okay, so maybe I didn't put two and two together, forgive me for being slow LOL!!!

Yeah, he's immaturity is part of him appeal unfortunately 😢

I'm just alittle unconfortable because I admitted that I liked the guy and I rarely do that!

Ugh, I'm so mad

Well ... I asked him whether or not what was said in the weightroom was true. He looked at me very intently, I really didn't know what to make of it, but after he smiled, then I preceed to say that I liked him too. However, I also asked if it were safe for me to admit such a thing, he responsed like this:

"If that's what you feel, then there's no reason why you shouldn't say it.?

Then, he said that we will talk about then he was off to pick up his child.

Actually, he said a little differently but that's the way I took lol

I'm listen to Death Cab For Cutie's "I Will Possess Your Heart" LOL!!!

He is being cute, but its like he's covering himself.

Do you have his number?

Nothing has been spoken to you from his own mouth.

Nothing has been spoken to you from his own mouth.

The playground stuff all came from him

Do you have his number?

No, I'm suppose to get his number when he calls me, I think.

But he's never been forthright...he's covering his ass.

Lets chill and see what happens and you alls next meeting.