Did this Cap male "ask me out" ?

Hello Caps! For context: I'm not exclusively dating anyone (dating several people at once), and I did post on here a while ago about a FWB deal a Cap male offered me that I rejected.

I'm taking summer school right now, and we have a group chat going on Facebook since there's only 10 of us in this class. We have an exam coming up on Monday, and one class member (Pisces) suggested a group study thing but nobody really wants to, it seemed like. He didn't get any feedback about the group study idea.

I wake up this morning to a Facebook message from a Cap male saying, "Hey! Want to do a little bit of studying together this weekend? I know we have the group thing but I'm not sure how that will work out"

Me: "Hey! Good morning! That sounds great! Do you live close to campus? Or, if you live on campus, we can definitely study for a little today! Whatever works! 🙂"

Him: "Good morning! I live about 15 minutes from campus but I can pick you up/take you home. I remember you saying you live kind of far but that's ok with me. I was thinking maybe Saturday or Sunday?"

Etc. etc.

Now, if I'm interpreting this correctly as being asked out (as in he wants to get to know me), I had absolutely no idea the Cap was interested in me, but I also hear this isn't entirely uncommon, and that's it's just a shy Cap. I have never spoken to him directly, but I've spoken to my classmates as a group that included him.

Me: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon, Scorpio Venus, Libra Mercury, Sagittarius Mars, Capricorn Ascendant
Him: Capricorn Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Pisces Venus, Aquarius Mercury & Mars, Libra Ascendant

I would regard it as studying...but not be surprised if it was really meant to be something else. So I guess you'll just have to wait and see. 🙂

Editorial note: The Cap that offered me FWB (a post I made about a month ago) and this Cap male are two different people, in case that was not clear.

HappyCapper, cute username! Thanks for the reply! I'm a big fan of the theory that, consciously or not, word choice is VERY telling (ba-dum-tiss), and I felt like it was significant that he said he knew I lived kinda far away (30 minutes w/o traffic, 90 minutes w/traffic), but it was okay.
Also, use of the word "together."

I'm probably thinking too hard 😛

I would just look at it as study partners right now, then play it by ear as it comes.

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Editorial note: The Cap that offered me FWB (a post I made about a month ago) and this Cap male are two different people, in case that was not clear.

HappyCapper, cute username! Thanks for the reply! I'm a big fan of the theory that, consciously or not, word choice is VERY telling (ba-dum-tiss), and I felt like it was significant that he said he knew I lived kinda far away (30 minutes w/o traffic, 90 minutes w/traffic), but it was okay.
Also, use of the word "together."

I'm probably thinking too hard 😛

If you're thinking too hard, I am too - I reacted just like you did. Hence the "but not be surprised if it was really meant to be something else."

But, as said, it may just be studying he's after, after all, so...please keep us posted. 🙂

He is interested in you --- not studying.

He had 8 other people to choose from, but he asked you ---- and offered to pick you up and return you home --- from a distance.

Time to break out the sexy panties just in case. 😉

truecap, sounds good, thanks for the reply! Gonna try my best to go in without expectations.

HappyCapper, I will update the post after tomorrow!

CapTenn, that's what I was thinking....and like I've said, he has never spoken directly to me...I was completely shocked. I generally thought he was cute but I didn't think he had even noticed me. But, as I said in my original post, having no idea that a Cap likes you seems to be common.
Also, 😉

Update: He did want to study, but it served as a means of getting to know me as well.

He admitted he liked me, and so since I'm dating a lot of people, I asked him how he prefers to date, and he said he's wired to date just one girl at a time, even texting-wise. He complimented me throughout the whole date, and it was so sweet. He was physical in the sense that he held my hands a lot. I told him I was dating multiple people because (and this is a half-truth) I hadn't found anyone worthy of commitment until him. He said he didn't mind me dating other people but it had to be my choice. He just asked that I don't tell him about it. I'm sure that was painful to say, so I said I would stop dating other people because I want to be fair to him, and if I mean that much to him, I will gladly be with only him.

I'm usually a bit resentful of my Cap ascendant. Not anymore.

I guess that was his was way of asking you out. 🙂

Awsome! Good luck! 🙂

Keeee-uuuuute