Did this Cap Man friend zone me!? Say what!

Hello Everyone!
I could really use your help on this cause I am all the way confused.

1st I'm in my 30s leo/virgo cusp dealing with a ...ahem very unique 33 year old Capricorn. We have only known each other about a week or two. We've hung out 3 or 4 times now. Every day he texts me ...all day. I usually don't go for that but his banter is supreme. He's hilarious, clever, and one of the few that can keep up with my wit so I am delighting in that. So I will just put it out there, I really like the guy. Part of me has a love for him. But hey, typical leo, idealizing....I admire him as a musician, which I am as well. We are different because he is VERY MUCH a hippie. He's fully committed to that hippie artist life. I tend to blur between business /art worlds.

I know Capricorns are SLOW but I was feeling the vibes with him, and they dissipate pretty quickly! I'm a vibe person, I can tell when someone is feeling me but,sometimes with him I feel nothing. Plus he hasn't tried to kiss me. He can be skittish too with touch. He's sending mixed signals. Here's what I'm getting from him:

He Likes me signs: A few days ago the texts were getting very sweet/romantic. He was 'planning to meet me in dreams' and we were very sweet and familiar. I could tell I was saying the right things and we were really on the same vibe. As early as the night before last I went to his show (he killed it..swoon) he paid for my entry and made sure I had a good seat. Then he left all his friends to go with me. We hung out in the car and then decided to go to a park. I grabbed his arm and locked mine in it. Then he put his arm around me ...for like, a minute and kind of rubbed my back (not sensual tho, more I will warm you up). And then, that was it lol. The vibes ENDED. Also I feel like he pays attention to where I'm going/tries to place himself near. Or lets me know when he's nearby (is he hinting?) but doesn't ask me to hang. He did that today and I had found a cool abandoned place I thought he'd wnna go so we went. I mean, it should have been romantic. Alone in the dark together...but he is aloof and we weren't close hardly at all! I was NOT feeling his vibe. At one point he was close to me and got something in his eye so I leaned over and blew into it. And just felt nothing. I wanted him to kiss me, but he had me questioning should I even go for it? Then we went to his friend's party...I felt like I was just another friend? Also something that hurt my feelings, I gave him contact solution cause his eyes were hurting and he was like oh this is gonna hurt my eyes. I was like no it will cleanse then trust me. And he reacted strongly to that phrase and rejected it. ....... At the beginning of the week he was giving me gifts. A painting. Things he's found. Now I'm the one giving gifts... a cd. And I just am not feeling that vibe from him anymore. It's upsetting actually cause I really dig him. I do sense that he is afraid of love/can be a player (wannabe)

I just do

I just don't get it. Kiss me already or geez, stop sending confusing messages. What is going on? My leonine ego is about to get hurt! I think too.....bc I like him, I've gotten super shy (cue my virgo cusp) and I will just straight tup not talk sometimes. I just go quiet and listen. But it's just that I really like him. I can tell when I'm more bombastic he's into me. But I'm getting more nervous bc I like him . Also he does NOT have his life together. Very much a vagabond, his car just pooped out. I don't think he feels too good in that department. I kinda feel like he was looking for a hookup/intrigued and maybe idk did it fizzle or are capricorns like this? I can bet he will be texting me all day tomorrow. I don't get it :/


Thanks for reading my novel! HAHA

Sincerely, Confused Crushing Leo (That will not continue to crush if affections are not returned!)

Errrr
I just looked at my phone
(after being convinced I'm friendzoned/feeling blue)
And see he texted, "Dream sweetly."


.....!? I'm so confused. Do guys text that to their friends? I think not. But everything else I got from him today was screaming friend friend friend.


I cannot figure him out.

Really guys!? No responses....

You've only known each other a week or two - which is to say you don't know each other at all.

If you're already frustrated with his pace, I'd say move on because it's not likely to move any faster for quite awhile.

You've only known him for two weeks. Don't you think you're jumping out of the gate a little too fast? I just don't understand how you can have all these feelings for someone you barely know. Fire signs just move way too fast for me.

Sometimes he is Vanish. But he's definitely too old for that. And yet, I admire his 'free' lifestyle.

Andalusia....you have a great point. You really do. I experienced the pace frustration with a Taurus. But I have mixed feelings. on the one hand it frustrates me, on the other hand it feels safe. My ego wants someone to come forward, but if they do- I don't want to feel sexual pressured or emotionally and that would freak me out. But its something to keep my eye on. I don't feel its a pace thing with him. More like- hot and cold. Which is not a good sign......IMO

I am about to dub him as emotionally unavailable.

Posted by truecap
You've only known him for two weeks. Don't you think you're jumping out of the gate a little too fast? I just don't understand how you can have all these feelings for someone you barely know. Fire signs just move way too fast for me.

Thats interesting to hear from a Cap. Maybe he frames it this way. Fire signs move so fast, implosive and instinctual I would say my cusp keeps me slower and harder to read. I vacillate between both. I am an instinct person and I'm very picky. So when someone catches my attention I take that to heart. When theres chemistry I pay attention. Its rare. When the verbal/mental repoire is strong it grabs me even more. I've never met anyone that could spar mentally like him. And I mean that playfully, word play, banter, etc. I just feel hot cold from him and it makes me wanna know what is going on and if I should bail/protect myself. I know we are both scared. I was hurt not so long ago by another earth sign. I don't wanna go that route again. Also, I just wanna be happy/be with the right person. Otherwise I will focus on my career.

He seems to want a lot of my time/attention. Very open to hanging out...but it just seems like wasting time sometimes. Wants to chat all day. What is the reason for this if you're not into someone? He may have time to waste, but I don't. Slow is one thing fine, but don't be wishy washy/slow and then try to fill all my time/headspace. Cause those two things don't go together in my opinion. Its kinda like...i'm not ready to commit / move forward/ initiate / or even kiss, but I wanna make sure you don't have time for anyone else to do that either.

Posted by underwaterthing
Sometimes he is Vanish. But he's definitely too old for that. And yet, I admire his 'free' lifestyle.

Andalusia....you have a great point. You really do. I experienced the pace frustration with a Taurus. But I have mixed feelings. on the one hand it frustrates me, on the other hand it feels safe. My ego wants someone to come forward, but if they do- I don't want to feel sexual pressured or emotionally and that would freak me out. But its something to keep my eye on. I don't feel its a pace thing with him. More like- hot and cold. Which is not a good sign......IMO

I am about to dub him as emotionally unavailable.

You've known each other 1-2 weeks and hung out several times already. Plus he contacts you daily.

So, I'd say, some questions to ask yourself and/or food for thought:

1. What is your ideal communication/dynamic in a relationship, in terms of frequency and otherwise?

2. Why are the answers to questions 1 your ideal? Is it because it's what you're used to or is it what you truly need?

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Posted by truecap
You've only known him for two weeks. Don't you think you're jumping out of the gate a little too fast? I just don't understand how you can have all these feelings for someone you barely know. Fire signs just move way too fast for me.

Thats interesting to hear from a Cap. Maybe he frames it this way. Fire signs move so fast, implosive and instinctual I would say my cusp keeps me slower and harder to read. I vacillate between both. I am an instinct person and I'm very picky. So when someone catches my attention I take that to heart. When theres chemistry I pay attention. Its rare. When the verbal/mental repoire is strong it grabs me even more. I've never met anyone that could spar mentally like him. And I mean that playfully, word play, banter, etc. I just feel hot cold from him and it makes me wanna know what is going on and if I should bail/protect myself. I know we are both scared. I was hurt not so long ago by another earth sign. I don't wanna go that route again. Also, I just wanna be happy/be with the right person. Otherwise I will focus on my career.

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Really? You think it's "interesting" that a cap thinks you're moving too fast?
You said yourself caps are slow.

Anyone that moves too fast, makes me run
Its a red flag.

Maybe it's because you're basing everything on vibe and chemistry and not takinecessarily the time to build a foundation, or waiting to see if you have mutual values.

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You've only known him for two weeks. Don't you think you're jumping out of the gate a little too fast? I just don't understand how you can have all these feelings for someone you barely know. Fire signs just move way too fast for me.

Thats interesting to hear from a Cap. Maybe he frames it this way. Fire signs move so fast, implosive and instinctual I would say my cusp keeps me slower and harder to read. I vacillate between both. I am an instinct person and I'm very picky. So when someone catches my attention I take that to heart. When theres chemistry I pay attention. Its rare. When the verbal/mental repoire is strong it grabs me even more. I've never met anyone that could spar mentally like him. And I mean that playfully, word play, banter, etc. I just feel hot cold from him and it makes me wanna know what is going on and if I should bail/protect myself. I know we are both scared. I was hurt not so long ago by another earth sign. I don't wanna go that route again. Also, I just wanna be happy/be with the right person. Otherwise I will focus on my career.

Really? You think it's "interesting" that a cap thinks you're moving too fast?
You said yourself caps are slow.

Anyone that moves too fast, makes me run
Its a red flag.

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Lol, you totally misunderstood me. I think it's interesting the way you are thinking/approaching things. It gives me insight into the capricorn mind more than what you're saying..the way you're saying it. Also the way you're jumping to a negative conclusion tells me a lot as well. I don't think anything about what I'm doing is moving fast. We haven't kissed. I don't smother him. He has invited me to meet his friends, to his show. He initiates contact and gets his space. I might need some space with all of this chatter.

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Sometimes he is Vanish. But he's definitely too old for that. And yet, I admire his 'free' lifestyle.

Andalusia....you have a great point. You really do. I experienced the pace frustration with a Taurus. But I have mixed feelings. on the one hand it frustrates me, on the other hand it feels safe. My ego wants someone to come forward, but if they do- I don't want to feel sexual pressured or emotionally and that would freak me out. But its something to keep my eye on. I don't feel its a pace thing with him. More like- hot and cold. Which is not a good sign......IMO

I am about to dub him as emotionally unavailable.

You've known each other 1-2 weeks and hung out several times already. Plus he contacts you daily.

So, I'd say, some questions to ask yourself and/or food for thought:

1. What is your ideal communication/dynamic in a relationship, in terms of frequency and otherwise?

2. Why are the answers to questions 1 your ideal? Is it because it's what you're used to or is it what you truly need?

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Thank you. I will give that some deep thought. Very good introspection questions.

Posted by truecap
Maybe it's because you're basing everything on vibe and chemistry and not takinecessarily the time to build a foundation, or waiting to see if you have mutual values.

I built a foundation of 2 years of friendship with a Taurus and 3 years of a relationship and in the end it was garbage. So I don't think theres any one way to go about it. The earth sign way isn't the only way.

But you're dealing with an earth sign, so understanding their way of thinking is important, dont you think?

Most people don't put this much thought into it at two weeks. So you may not be moving fast physically, but you are jumping ahead mentally. It's ok, it's a Leo trait, but it sets you up for disappointment when you get this excited so early and build things up in your mind, then the reality doesn't match what's in your head. The might be why you're not "feeling the vibe" plus, He can read your vibe, so my advice is just chill and let things work out organically.

You're cute and a lil cray cray...after a couple of weeks you have all of these thoughts...infatuation can lead to things sometimes...but that's all it is at the moment

Posted by truecap
But you're dealing with an earth sign, so understanding their way of thinking is important, dont you think?

Most people don't put this much thought into it at two weeks. So you may not be moving fast physically, but you are jumping ahead mentally. It's ok, it's a Leo trait, but it sets you up for disappointment when you get this excited so early and build things up in your mind, then the reality doesn't match what's in your head. The might be why you're not "feeling the vibe" plus, He can read your vibe, so my advice is just chill and let things work out organically.

True. Yea thanks. this clicks for me. And yes, I forget my vibe too..which honestly is usually very shy and very quiet around him. I wouldn't be surprised if he's confused about me too.

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Errrr
I just looked at my phone
(after being convinced I'm friendzoned/feeling blue)
And see he texted, "Dream sweetly."


.....!? I'm so confused. Do guys text that to their friends? I think not. But everything else I got from him today was screaming friend friend friend.


I cannot figure him out.

You're reading too much into what he is saying, imo. As far as his actions go, what has he done so far that shows he's interested? Did he ask you for coffee? Did he offer to help you with anything?

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Someone did not read my first post fully, but it was very long so I get that.

Signs He's given me he likes me:
Attentive. Invites himself to all my shows. Makes sure Im invited to his shows. Pays for me to get into his shows (where he is playing) Has all his friends scoot down so I have a good seat.
I told him I was going to a GRIMES concert. He asks where, then shows up there. Whenever I am nearby he will let me know..oh I'm just right down the street doing work, etc. He made plans a week ago to see the leonid comet showers with me (at 2am in the forest for prime viewing). He followed up with me. Now I think that will be very telling. It's going to be cold, we will basically be camping (but not really) and will be alone together. Oh, and he texts me all day every day. So I am NOT ready too much into what he's saying. It's just that his actions don't always line up IMO.

And to the girl who said I'm a little cray cray, you'd be correct LOL


Oh, I also realized the party he took me to last night had some of his best friends there. Also, he is telling me more about his family. I think he's testing the waters honestly.

He has. We spent every night time alone. He left the show full of his friends to go with me. I don't think someone who was just friends would be texting good morning good night texts or taking me out into the middle of the forest for an AM cuddle session/star viewing. I'm pretty sure though, if something doesn't go down here, I can assume there is something wrong! He is talking about oh I cant bring this blanket, it's not big enough to share. I'll have to upgrade. Little subtle things like that. And I appreciate you reading it carefully. Perhaps it was I that didn't include all of the details.

We can all just see how Tuesday goes. I have a hunch it will be VERY telling

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He has. We spent every night time alone. He left the show full of his friends to go with me. I don't think someone who was just friends would be texting good morning good night texts or taking me out into the middle of the forest for an AM cuddle session/star viewing. I'm pretty sure though, if something doesn't go down here, I can assume there is something wrong! He is talking about oh I cant bring this blanket, it's not big enough to share. I'll have to upgrade. Little subtle things like that. And I appreciate you reading it carefully. Perhaps it was I that didn't include all of the details.

We can all just see how Tuesday goes. I have a hunch it will be VERY telling

everything is going well, dont overanalyze

as for the Tuesday program, dont have big expectations...... dont imagine it would/should be telling....... just enjoy it........

you are too intense and dramatic after 2 weeks🙂 poor guy...... he texts you, he invites you to things.... if you are just a friend, do you really think he is texting so much all of his friends?

But a warning: I dont think that you as a Leo will be content with his hippie ways later.......

Two weeks....and so much energy worrying.....

In a couple of weeks, she'll be posting...."Why did he stop calling/texting...Why is he pulling away?"
Mark my words.

I’m a Leo women too that was seeing a Cap man off and on, it seems like forever. We’ve been through a lot of different phases and you need to relax with him. Stop being so impatient and let him guide whatever it’s going to be between y'all. If you act too anxious so soon your gonna run him away forever. He needs time to developing feelings for you like that and if you rush him that’s is not a good idea. You need to just go with the flow and not be pushing or aggressive because that will scare him off. If you can’t develop some patience with this man he is not for you!!!

Posted by truecap
Two weeks....and so much energy worrying.....

In a couple of weeks, she'll be posting...."Why did he stop calling/texting...Why is he pulling away?"
Mark my words.

You know, you're kind of a bitch.

Posted by faith $ golphin
I’m a Leo women too that was seeing a Cap man off and on, it seems like forever. We’ve been through a lot of different phases and you need to relax with him. Stop being so impatient and let him guide whatever it’s going to be between y'all. If you act too anxious so soon your gonna run him away forever. He needs time to developing feelings for you like that and if you rush him that’s is not a good idea. You need to just go with the flow and not be pushing or aggressive because that will scare him off. If you can’t develop some patience with this man he is not for you!!!

Makes sense. Thank you.


And thank you to the other leo who posted. I appreciate your honest considerate comments instead of chastising ones from some others who are clearly projecting.

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Posted by truecap
Two weeks....and so much energy worrying.....

In a couple of weeks, she'll be posting...."Why did he stop calling/texting...Why is he pulling away?"
Mark my words.

You know, you're kind of a bitch.

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I never said he didn't like you. It sounds like he does.

I'm saying slow your roll and steady yourself or you'll run him off.

Bitchy or not, I don't care. You wanted a capricorn opinion and you got one. It's up to you if you want to listen.

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Two weeks....and so much energy worrying.....

In a couple of weeks, she'll be posting...."Why did he stop calling/texting...Why is he pulling away?"
Mark my words.

You know, you're kind of a bitch.

I never said he didn't like you. It sounds like he does.

I'm saying slow your roll and steady yourself or you'll run him off.

Bitchy or not, I don't care. You wanted a capricorn opinion and you got one. It's up to you if you want to listen.

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i love the cap "i dont give a fuck, if you think i'm like this, i'm just telling you how it is, you asked, so there you have it."

very simple

she is a leo/virgo cups. she is expecting more of an aggressive direct pursuit based on her usual feedback from men


she didnt say that but thats exacyly what this is.....

Caps are not like that, either accept it or move on, but all of this after 2 weeks is a bit much,

the end.

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Two weeks....and so much energy worrying.....

In a couple of weeks, she'll be posting...."Why did he stop calling/texting...Why is he pulling away?"
Mark my words.

You know, you're kind of a bitch.

I never said he didn't like you. It sounds like he does.

I'm saying slow your roll and steady yourself or you'll run him off.

Bitchy or not, I don't care. You wanted a capricorn opinion and you got one. It's up to you if you want to listen.

i love the cap "i dont give a fuck, if you think i'm like this, i'm just telling you how it is, you asked, so there you have it."

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Cap mercury showing there, I suppose.

LOL. It's allllllll good. And thanks Champranger.

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Two weeks....and so much energy worrying.....

In a couple of weeks, she'll be posting...."Why did he stop calling/texting...Why is he pulling away?"
Mark my words.

You know, you're kind of a bitch.

I never said he didn't like you. It sounds like he does.

I'm saying slow your roll and steady yourself or you'll run him off.

Bitchy or not, I don't care. You wanted a capricorn opinion and you got one. It's up to you if you want to listen.

i love the cap "i dont give a fuck, if you think i'm like this, i'm just telling you how it is, you asked, so there you have it."

Cap mercury showing there, I suppose.

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I'll be honest, I kinda like that too

I’m a Leo women too that was seeing a Cap man off and on, it seems like forever. We’ve been through a lot of different phases and you need to relax with him. Stop being so impatient and let him guide whatever it’s going to be between y'all. If you act too anxious so soon your gonna run him away forever. He needs time to developing feelings for you like that and if you rush him that’s is not a good idea. You need to just go with the flow and not be pushy or aggressive because that will scare him off. If you can’t develop some patience with this man he is not for you!!! I don’t have patience at all but I have learn to have patience with my cap friend but STILL TO THIS DAY I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH!!!

Posted by faith $ golphin
I’m a Leo women too that was seeing a Cap man off and on, it seems like forever. We’ve been through a lot of different phases and you need to relax with him. Stop being so impatient and let him guide whatever it’s going to be between y'all. If you act too anxious so soon your gonna run him away forever. He needs time to developing feelings for you like that and if you rush him that’s is not a good idea. You need to just go with the flow and not be pushy or aggressive because that will scare him off. If you can’t develop some patience with this man he is not for you!!! I don’t have patience at all but I have learn to have patience with my cap friend but STILL TO THIS DAY I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH!!!

12 years worth of patience.

Hows about I just BE MYSELF and he can do the same and we can see what happens. I'm not into the whole let someone else guide you or vice versa.

Go forth and prosper.

Haha...May the force be with us.

Finally kissed me. Was...just perfect. He said he wanted to kiss me 'for a while' and 'wasn't sure if i liked him' hmmm that sounds familiar.
He was surprisingly sweet cuddly. Ill see him again this weekend. I can tell we just need to communicate bc we are so different. The rest is all out of my control. Just trying to be honest, kind, authentic, loving. We will see what the future holds. Also I'm prepping myself for those famous capricorn disappearing acts I've been hearing about.

Caps need straight forward directions. When I met my cap I made it clear from the start that I need a man, not just a boyfriend. I want and need a man who is mature enough and emotionally available and ready to start a living together incl marriage and a family. I strictly filtered out all the timewasters who just wanted to have "fun" and didn't have any clear visions of their life.
that was the same he was looking for so yeh.... it fits.

With men always make it clear from the start what u are looking for because they are like little kids, always finding loopholes. just be upfront the next time and tell a guy u are dating that u are looking for a relationship u can build on because you are too old to waste time on men who aren't sure about their path and what they want. u don't have to say "commit to me or I'll leave" no, just make it clear that u only give precious time to men who want the same as u.

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Finally kissed me. Was...just perfect. He said he wanted to kiss me 'for a while' and 'wasn't sure if i liked him' hmmm that sounds familiar.
He was surprisingly sweet cuddly. Ill see him again this weekend. I can tell we just need to communicate bc we are so different. The rest is all out of my control. Just trying to be honest, kind, authentic, loving. We will see what the future holds. Also I'm prepping myself for those famous capricorn disappearing acts I've been hearing about.

they only disappear if they are wishy washy and are jumping from one backburner to the other. if he is sincere and not an immature asshole with other chicks he's checking out at the same time he won't disappear. men only do that 99% of the time because they keep checking their options. a huge no no for my cap venus lol

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Finally kissed me. Was...just perfect. He said he wanted to kiss me 'for a while' and 'wasn't sure if i liked him' hmmm that sounds familiar.
He was surprisingly sweet cuddly. Ill see him again this weekend. I can tell we just need to communicate bc we are so different. The rest is all out of my control. Just trying to be honest, kind, authentic, loving. We will see what the future holds. Also I'm prepping myself for those famous capricorn disappearing acts I've been hearing about.

they only disappear if they are wishy washy and are jumping from one backburner to the other. if he is sincere and not an immature asshole with other chicks he's checking out at the same time he won't disappear. men only do that 99% of the time because they keep checking their options. a huge no no for my cap venus lol

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God I love Aquas. You ladies are tough! Is that your cap in the pic>? What a beautiful couple!!!!

Honestly, disappearing at all is NOT acceptable to me. I only dated one other Cap, we were friends for years, but lived in different states when we got serious. He ignored me FOR NO REASON for two days..I got on a plane, showed up at his house, and broke up with him. Later he came to me and thanked me for that. Stating he wasn't ready and he didn't treat me right and that I was a light in his life. I just cant stomach that crap. If someone requests space I can give them all that they need and more. I don't like the freeze out. I see it as immature/sometimes manipulative.


Could you help me on this-?
He and I have been chatting every day. And he's more forthcoming saying he enjoyed our time together,wants to see me soon, etc. I told him I'd go to his show Saturday. He keeps hinting all week about seeing me, but fails to ask me out, or to ask me to events etc. He has posted an event tonight. I had the feeling he was hoping I would be assertive and show up, but I'm not going to if he doesn't ask me. Also I need some space to screw my head on straight. Is that how they operate? And am I doing the right thing by taking some space? We are at this point hanging out 2 days a week, which I think is plenty.

Thank you. 🙂

Ooowww thank you 🙂 🙂

That event he was posting is that the event u told him that u'd show up? If so then just show up as u already told him so.

Maybe try to make the first bold move by saying "I'd love to see you tonight/tomorrow (or whenever) could u make time for me? I'd love to go to the movies/dining etc"

After that let him work for u. Caps need a confident woman

Good luck 🙂

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Ooowww thank you 🙂 🙂

That event he was posting is that the event u told him that u'd show up? If so then just show up as u already told him so.

Maybe try to make the first bold move by saying "I'd love to see you tonight/tomorrow (or whenever) could u make time for me? I'd love to go to the movies/dining etc"

After that let him work for u. Caps need a confident woman

Good luck 🙂

You are welcome! No it wasn't the same event. Turns out he didn't even end up at that one but another one. He was texting me all night from there so it cant have been that interesting LOL. I think he wanted me to meet him (why else would you tell the exact location / info/ say its 'soooo cool' ? ) But I need him to ask or I'm not going! Besides I have things to do :p

I was bold and was just like well I'd love to see you, sorry our schedules didn't line up sooner. I really look forward to seeing you tomorrow. And sent the kiss emoji which he returned. I also was very when eh was talking about games people play...I don't play games and I've never had a problem asking for what I want. He was like...DAMN! Grown ass woman right there! Lol. There's the cap humor. Anyways. I see him tonight. I like him but I'm starting to reevaluate. He's gonna have to step it up if he wants to be with me. He definitely has some things he needs to get together. Anyway that we can help each other (both musicians) I'm open to. Anyways. Have a nice day and ty for your advice!

I guess I should change the title of this thread....lol

Again. Caps are slow. You have to give him time to warm up and become comfortable.

Again. You're wanting things to move too fast.

Patience, hun. ......if you're capable. If not, then move on.

I dunno. He really did open up last night TRUECAP. It was almost too much for me! I went to his show. Lots of PDA at his show- after he performed, which shocked me. I got the feeling he 'needed my love' I think he felt uncomfortable with the performance, although he did great! (and didn't show it on stage)
He was very 'couply' with me. Then very cuddly later. VERY sweet. Kissing with eyes open. Wow.....Was pretty magical. And he saw his friend, they let on that he had discussed me with his buddy and that girl was like oh so this is (insert my name). I wouldn't mind slowing it down some cause it's going from 1-10 pretty quickly. But there is just such a strong cosmic pull I cant explain. It feels...well, like magic.

I gotta be careful myself. I don't wanna get too wrapped up.....Cue, the earth in my chart to ground me.

See, things are going to be fine. You're eventually going to find that happy medium of pace

I am happy to meet him in the middle of that. With love honesty and respect.

We are doing really good ya'll. He's very sweet, and yet rough around the edges. Our Sag. rising signs have so much fun out on the town together. He left a little magnetic poetry note on the table for the this morning. It read, "him and her are so right." I'm in shock and spoiled over this bad boy with the heart of gold. I hope it can always be like this. Just like this.