FWB with cappy guy! whats going on

Hey everyone 🙂

so i've known this capricorn guy for approx 2 months, and we began by just being mates, texting everyday all day but it was completely friend zoned on both sides.. then recently, we hooked up and decided to be FWB with absolutely no strings attached.. we've continued to text all the time cause we have some really random/fun/funny conversations.. the last time i saw him was 3 nights ago, he first bailed on our movie night/hook up session because he said he was super tired.. i didnt even mind i replied "all good 🙂" and then he straight away said he felt soo bad which i replied "dont stress 🙂" then i made plans straight away with my girlfriend, but he didnt know this yet and he started changing his mind saying "no actually come over!" and i said "its okay im catching up with my friend now" and he was like "nooo, come hang out with me" and was basically beggining me, i said sorry im seeing my friend and he told me to come over after which i did. once i got there he was infact EXTREMELY tired.. the night was kinda awkward for some reason, and since then he's been a bit off-ish?? i have been acting the same as i usually have.. i'm curious as to why he's being so offish? his chart is:

sun: cap
moon: cap
merc: sag
venus: sag
mars: sag

i have read that when sag get what they want they get over it quickly? but also read that if capricorn like you they act like they dont?

i wonder whats going on haha 🙂 im curious...help!

Posted by CluelessCancer
Obviously he likes you. Have you heard from your BASTARD X VIRGO boyfriend yet? I'm sure he'll be crying in his sleep knowing a CAP is banging your eyeballs out.

haha CC, i'm 110% completely over virgo THANK GOD! i used to cry daily, now im really happy! 🙂 He still talks to me from time to time, last week he was asking me if i missed him and that he wants to get back together.

not happening!

Posted by CluelessCancer
Obviously he likes you. Have you heard from your BASTARD X VIRGO boyfriend yet? I'm sure he'll be crying in his sleep knowing a CAP is banging your eyeballs out.

But he's not... that's the problem ;P

Posted by Chance15
lol cc..they're the second earth sign for a reason 😉

yep, he likes you..cos now you've got him acting weird..scorp/cap fwb? yeah, right..the magnetism of scorp and the powerful, intense gravitational pull of Saturn ensures this will get sticky.

oh really? TBH i wasnt sure if he liked me or if he was just getting over me... he was a bit selfish the other night in the bed department and it kind of annoyed me and he knew it, he's pretty sensitive, so i think i might have hurt his feelings? ive still been acting normal since then though! we were both very clear though that will be no strings attached..

he's also slept with 24 other women before me and says im his best one in the bedroom. lol okay maybe he does like me. uh oh 😐

Wow

Posted by Chance15
isn't that what he told #23? 😛

well, caps are observant...

he def likes you..you've affected not only his long term memory but his sense of reality..good scorp stuff imo

hahaha, probably. when he was really drunk he told me that im the best one and also that im such a sweetie and cutie but then a devil in bed. hahaha.

hmmm well it was very clear that im only interested in FWB and nothing else, (i also leave in a couple of months to go overseas for quite a while) so i've been straight with him, if he likes me its not my fault 😐

smh at this one. How do you just tell somebody you've been with 24 women, then convientely(sp?) rate you #25...as the best? Wanting you to ditch plans...to go over and watch him be moody and exhausted, already being selfish in bed etc.

Now this one sounds like a user. I dont know the average number of hookups from guys his age, but 24 women? He's just trying to get his sexual needs met, at all times if possible. You probably were good to him, which is why he wants you around. His track record shows he's incapable of anything else. I guess it IS a fwb situation, so idk

Posted by lnana04
smh at this one. How do you just tell somebody you've been with 24 women, then convientely(sp?) rate you #25...as the best? Wanting you to ditch plans...to go over and watch him be moody and exhausted, already being selfish in bed etc.

Now this one sounds like a user. I dont know the average number of hookups from guys his age, but 24 women? He's just trying to get his sexual needs met, at all times if possible. You probably were good to him, which is why he wants you around. His track record shows he's incapable of anything else. I guess it IS a fwb situation, so idk

Selfish is probably the wrong word to use, what i meant is, he accidently came pretty quick and was embarassed. haha.
TBH, i hope you're right, I want it to stay as FWB and nothing more from either of us 🙂

LOL

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity
Yikes...24 women before you? I sure do hope you all are using protection. Don't fall for the "you're my best" nonsense. You probably were good to him...but come on, honey...do you really think he can vividly remember 24 other vaginas for comparison? I think not.

Also, the Cap males I know tend to have a bit of a masochistic side to them. So, because you're the one that isn't exhibiting any emotional attachment, this might be what is luring him in most. Caps tend to want what they can't seemingly have. It's the proverbial mountain that we enthusiastically and stubbornly climb.

So, if you want to scare him straight out of liking you...start dropping marriage hints and bring a scrapbook of what your children would look like.

hahaha, dont worry, protection is used! Yeah I guess what he's telling me is probably nonesence, ohwell 🙂 doesnt change anything!

Posted by scorpio24
he's also slept with 24 other women before me and says im his best one in the bedroom. lol okay maybe he does like me. uh oh 😐

Don't you feel special?

Posted by virg_goki
Sounds like the girl's making a similar mistake. She'd better be the puppet master this time or she'll be the one to burn later on

what do ya mean?

You're under his capricorn sex spell 😈




Get it girl 😉

KittenLaRouge: Please tell us more about this Capricorn sex spell...

Posted by CluelessCancer

i highly doubt that Capricorn slept with 24 women. He's lying. For him to have slept with that many women would mean he'd have to leave his house.

Not happening. Not when Bill NYE the science guy is on TV.

i'm just saying....

Him lying is deginitely a possibility. My Cap friend swears he lives or lived this life full of women, but I know he be lying.

definitely

Someone who brags about sleeping with 24 women before you.... Does that not give you pause?

Posted by scorpio24
he's also slept with 24 other women before me and says im his best one in the bedroom. lol okay maybe he does like me. uh oh 😐

They all say you're the best they've ever had. I mean, what man is going to tell a woman that they're not good at it when he's trying to get in her pants?

😛

Okay. It's just FWB. You say that's all you want, no strings. Why do you care it's akward? You both got laid - isn't that goal of FWB?

Admit it, you like him more than that otherwise you wouldn't care what was going on in his head.

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity
Yikes...24 women before you? I sure do hope you all are using protection. Don't fall for the "you're my best" nonsense. You probably were good to him...but come on, honey...do you really think he can vividly remember 24 other vaginas for comparison? I think not.

Now now, because girls ONS(one night stands) don't count toward the number they give out freely doesn't apply for guys. But just like girls, the only ones that matter are the ones you feel at the moment and remember later but feel it again like it just happened. He might be telling you the truth after all.

Posted by KittenLaRouge
You're under his capricorn sex spell 😈

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This is a true fact. If you follow him to the darkside you may never return...

Posted by CluelessCancer
I want a CAP for a FWB but he'll probably fall in love...cause i can't help asking. How are you doing today. Do you want this cookie i baked. You hurt your hand do you want me to go to the hospital with you.

lol

hahaha CC, i'm like this too!

when we arent doing our deeds, we are both really cuddly with one another, he loves cuddles just as much as i do, and im pretty affectionate to him but i told him "I'm affectionate, but dont take it the wrong way, still no strings attached" and he was fine with it and seems to enjoy it?

weird situation isnt it haha

Why is it that woman are called ho's on DXP when they embrace and enjoy their sexuality? Women are very highly sexual beings and sex is very thereputic....


bunch of 1950's prudes on here smh 😈

Posted by scorpio24
when we arent doing our deeds, we are both really cuddly with one another, he loves cuddles just as much as i do, and im pretty affectionate to him but i told him "I'm affectionate, but dont take it the wrong way, still no strings attached" and he was fine with it and seems to enjoy it?

weird situation isnt it haha

OMG cuddling in the BEST, feels sooo good 🙂

Posted by SunMoonStars
KittenLaRouge: Please tell us more about this Capricorn sex spell...

It means that when you get sexed up by a capricorn, you WILL be addicted because we are the most passionate and the MOST sensuous lovers. 😈

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by SunMoonStars
KittenLaRouge: Please tell us more about this Capricorn sex spell...

It means that when you get sexed up by a capricorn, you WILL be addicted because we are the most passionate and the MOST sensuous lovers. 😈

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really— :/

i thought this was more of a water sign thing

LOl! sun signs don't mean much of anything to me. It gets so boring. Different women have different levels of passion, no matter what sign.

Anyway, waiting a year or more to have sex though? No way. it's so unnecessary. you are doing yourself a great disservice as a female.

yeah im having fun. yolo!

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by scorpio24

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by SunMoonStars
KittenLaRouge: Please tell us more about this Capricorn sex spell...

It means that when you get sexed up by a capricorn, you WILL be addicted because we are the most passionate and the MOST sensuous lovers. 😈

really— :/

i thought this was more of a water sign thing

For real. What's next Earth signs are Exciting. Earth signs have emotions.

My god. the BS i read on this website.

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Yup!!! Watch when you meet one of me, you be addicted too... lol

He's acting weird, we spoke heaps yesterday via text and then today i didnt message him and he hasnt messaged me, but by now we would already have spoken about 1000 different things hahaha. its weird

This thread sounds familiar.

*replaces Cappie and inserts [Virgo]....

Whew....

Now this is making sense.

Her story just sounds familiar.


She's repeating the same mistake.
Same story.
My guess.
She's a glutton for punishment for hot and cold behavior.

She can find happiness.
But obsessing and being responsive to hot and cold behavior will drive her to the brink of insanity.

...And I think this Cap is lying about the women he slept with....and 'sweetening' her up.

Those types of lies are only reserved for Jerry Springer guests who want 15 minutes of fame and a free limo ride home.

He's a dick...even if he's a no strings attached dick...still a dick...

Call it a hunch....