Hey there guys! I'm fairly new here but I figured I'd go ahead and post anyway. I've been talking to a very wonderful gemini woman over the last 3 1/2 months. At first she told me she wanted to take things slowly but I already knew how i felt about her, but for her sake I agreed. After a good 2 months I bring up something she had said to me previously, "I think I'm in love with you, hahaha." I asked if she was sure and she said im sure im not. Well I brought that up and asked her if she really meant that she did love me when she said it, because in the moment it felt like one of those things people say jokingly but are very serious about. She confessed and I told her that I knew from the start. Anyway here we are now things progressing smoothly, and steadily I believe. But I fear she may begin to lose interest in me if I keep the same routine like mentality towards her. I've brought that up and she tells me that she does like change but she needs stability. I can really see myself going far with this girl, so I want to try my hardest not to lose her. We talk on the phone for hours on end and our love seems endless, but I fear that she may one day grow bored of me. So I guess my question is, how should I go about keeping her for the long run? What kind of things do gemini women find comfort in? I try to provide for her stability and sympathy. I fear that I may be doing too much listening and not enough talking sometimes though. I have the problem of hiding my true emotions sometimes, but I haven't been doing that with her, or not nearly as much. The love is definitely real but I know I have watched things I love become meaningless and dull, I want to prevent this.
1. Just keep on being you. In the end, you can't be anything but. You want her to like you, don't you? If she wants someone else, I'd suggest to her to go someplace else and let you find someone who apreciates you for you.
2. Who knows what geminis want? Why don't you ask them on the gemini board.😉
Good luck to you!🙂
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I'm fairly new here but I figured I'd go ahead and post anyway. I've been talking to a very wonderful gemini woman over the last 3 1/2 months. At first she told me she wanted to take things slowly but I already knew how i felt about her, but for her sake I agreed. After a good 2 months I bring up something she had said to me previously, "I think I'm in love with you, hahaha." I asked if she was sure and she said im sure im not. Well I brought that up and asked her if she really meant that she did love me when she said it, because in the moment it felt like one of those things people say jokingly but are very serious about. She confessed and I told her that I knew from the start. Anyway here we are now things progressing smoothly, and steadily I believe. But I fear she may begin to lose interest in me if I keep the same routine like mentality towards her. I've brought that up and she tells me that she does like change but she needs stability. I can really see myself going far with this girl, so I want to try my hardest not to lose her. We talk on the phone for hours on end and our love seems endless, but I fear that she may one day grow bored of me. So I guess my question is, how should I go about keeping her for the long run? What kind of things do gemini women find comfort in? I try to provide for her stability and sympathy. I fear that I may be doing too much listening and not enough talking sometimes though. I have the problem of hiding my true emotions sometimes, but I haven't been doing that with her, or not nearly as much. The love is definitely real but I know I have watched things I love become meaningless and dull, I want to prevent this.