Help! :) Sucker for Cappies.. wtffaaahhh

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Monis81 on Thursday, July 3, 2014 and has 15 replies.

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@Monis81
12 Years

Met this guy. Intense..that is an understatement to describe the chemistry. We're both laid back, chill and humorous - thus enjoying each others' company. He has been hurt REALLY bad and so have I. But I'm still hopeful to find love again yet he has a hard time connecting emotionally with a woman due to his experience so he just does a "Friends with Benefits" thing. This guy is sooo placid, calm and in control of his emotions on the outside, but I sense some deep stuff brewing inside that I'm curious about. He is intriguing and frustrating at the same time. He tells me he likes me because I seem chill and "tolerant" of his ways. Anyway.. need help/advice with his chart and important placings of my own:

He: Capricorn Sun/Moon, Scorpio Venus
Me: Taurus Sun/Venus, Cancer Moon

Thank you in advance!

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@Monis81
12 Years

Met this guy. Intense..that is an understatement to describe the chemistry. We're both laid back, chill and humorous - thus enjoying each others' company. He has been hurt REALLY bad and so have I. But I'm still hopeful to find love again yet he has a hard time connecting emotionally with a woman due to his experience so he just does a "Friends with Benefits" thing. This guy is sooo placid, calm and in control of his emotions on the outside, but I sense some deep stuff brewing inside that I'm curious about. He is intriguing and frustrating at the same time. He tells me he likes me because I seem chill and "tolerant" of his ways. Anyway.. need help/advice with his chart and important placings of my own:

He: Capricorn Sun/Moon, Scorpio Venus
Me: Taurus Sun/Venus, Cancer Moon

Thank you in advance!

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@Monis81
12 Years

Met this guy. Intense..that is an understatement to describe the chemistry. We're both laid back, chill and humorous - thus enjoying each others' company. He has been hurt REALLY bad and so have I. But I'm still hopeful to find love again yet he has a hard time connecting emotionally with a woman due to his experience so he just does a "Friends with Benefits" thing. This guy is sooo placid, calm and in control of his emotions on the outside, but I sense some deep stuff brewing inside that I'm curious about. He is intriguing and frustrating at the same time. He tells me he likes me because I seem chill and "tolerant" of his ways. Anyway.. need help/advice with his chart and important placings of my own:

He: Capricorn Sun/Moon, Scorpio Venus
Me: Taurus Sun/Venus, Cancer Moon

Thank you in advance!

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@SirHorns
12 Years5,000+ Posts

A Scorpio Venus can do FWB? The hell kind of aspects does his Venus have? Is it in an the 11th house or something? Damn.

As for your question, he has to heal on how own, you can offer support if he asks for it.
If you want him, don't settle for FWB.

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@RichCap
12 Years

If he was into you, you'd know. Why bother wasting energy thinking about his issues when there are so many people around?

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@RichCap
12 Years

If you like the sex just enjoy the sex and accept the dude is a no go. If it's too much to handle just walk away. Truth always sets you free.

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@Monis81
12 Years

@caplove - thank youuu!! I don't think anyone could say it any better! Sad though... The intense chemistry but I know myself too well. I will develop feelings for this guy and would want more down the road. It's that nurturing thing in me that wants to help overcome hurt and fears... Arrrggghhhh :/