How did you end up with your cap?

After my recent encounter with not one but two caps who i have had chemistry with (and doesn't happen very often for me lately), i'm becoming more and more interested in what drives them.

I've had this on and off thing with a cap at work who i still can't fully understand and i am fascinated that someone can actually be like that! I've had a date the other day to start the process of moving on and what do you know, i meet another cap! Kiss goodnight but no contact yet... we wait...

I've heard about being patient and being their friend but i have also heard about going cold turkey and them realising what they lost so they get back.

I want to start this thread just to hear your stories if you are in a successful relationship with a cap man or woman and in short how did it all come together and at what point you knew you were an item.

Let's gather some insight into this fascinating, emotionally complex sign! xx

I thought this thread was a contraception question

Was about to say, sorry I never had one fitted

Lol

I met this guy on a night out. Saw him before but he doesn't remember seeing me.

He approaches me and yells "damn girl, you're pretty" not once, but every time he saw me.

We talked here and there.

Our mutual aquaintences invited me to go with them after the bar to the casino and I said no

Cappy came into the group and asked for my number then left.

I asked our mutuals if he's going with them then I decided to go. I was ignored by him. lmao. But I hung out for a bit then decided to leave and everyone else kind of followed. Cappy tells me he'll definatly hmu sometime. So I was like mm ohk, bye, have a good night.

I wasn't expecting much tbh.

He text me couple hours later saying he was sorry for ignoring me.

We hit off from there. Spent hours everyday either on the phone or on video chat(in our free time ofc). He'd ask to come over to see me and I'd tell him no.

After a couple weeks, and getting to know more about eachother, I invited him over haha then he'd ask to come over every day after that.

He didn't want a relationship at first(told me multiple times) which is why I held back with him in the beginning. But we're together now and he predicts that our future is set. Lol. And I'm just going with the flow.

met my cap online.. he was initially attracted to me alot however i didn't really pay any attention to him, i could kinda tell he was interested but i had no intention of pursuing it since it seemed as if i though i wouldn't click with him. then things escalated a few months later, he caught my attention in a similar interest we shared and hence that was the catalyst to the attraction. i guess towards the start it was more like me chasing him, then in the middle of the relationship i began chasing him - now it's just me having middle ground and knowing that i'm not going to chase the man i love since that won't end well, especially if he is a capricorn. its taken a lot of mutual understanding but i think i am finally beginning to understand how he ticks. and as a leo if i can be patient enough to stick that out then hopefully we will do just fine, he is coming to see me in about 2 months. (: