
The thing is we can't control who comes and go in our lives we can only give it our best.


Posted by lnana04After a few months of no talk I will see her tonight and do what needs to be done.
You sound like your opposite.
I dealt with that...a guy being bothered by my actions not matching my words, and me not voicing my feelings. He wouldn't say he was bothered, instead would force my true feelings out of me whether it was making me jealous or attempting to give me what my actions said I wanted. Just torturous lol.
I like the Rams outlook. Obviously some things are uncomfortable for us. Why try to control the Cap or the situation to fit your needs? No matter how much we like you, we won't be able to give ourselves to someone that will manipulate us at any moment if/when they are feeling unsure about something. How can we find the comfort and security we crave in that type of situation?
Have a talk with her before it ends up being a ton of time and energy wasted.

Posted by Capri-sunI was gonna say cause before I used to get her fav food or pastries every now and then and when I saw her bff one time that bff said so you're the pastries guy she was talking about lol.
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself

Posted by Capri-sunAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself

Posted by Capri-sunHaha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself
You just can't help yourself can you lol ๐
That's good she speaks highly of you ๐
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Posted by Capri-sunI'm a good dude I will tackle this issue head on cause hopefully she'll appreciate that.Posted by Stinger408scorpSee, you knew what you were doing lolPosted by Capri-sunHaha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself
You just can't help yourself can you lol ๐
That's good she speaks highly of you ๐
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Posted by Capri-sunlol I know I'm guilty but in all honesty I do care.Posted by Stinger408scorpSee, you knew what you were doing lolPosted by Capri-sunHaha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself
You just can't help yourself can you lol ๐
That's good she speaks highly of you ๐
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Posted by Capri-sunI'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunlol I know I'm guilty but in all honesty I do care.Posted by Stinger408scorpSee, you knew what you were doing lolPosted by Capri-sunHaha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself
You just can't help yourself can you lol ๐
That's good she speaks highly of you ๐
Yeah surprise pastries is more dating/relationship material than say fwb imo...
She obviously cares as well so I think you should just tell her & get it straightened out
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Posted by Capri-sunlol secretive ass they both are.Posted by Stinger408scorp
I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
Lol who knows
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Posted by Capri-sunHaha hey I should be the only one keeping secrets ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYou as well so what's the difference? ๐Posted by Capri-sunlol secretive ass they both are.Posted by Stinger408scorp
I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
Lol who knows
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Posted by Capri-sunlol I gave that Virgo that stare like wtf are you getting on our business lol I told my cap nextime I bring you some pastries just give her stuff you don't like lolPosted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunHaha hey I should be the only one keeping secrets ?Posted by Stinger408scorpYou as well so what's the difference? ๐Posted by Capri-sunlol secretive ass they both are.Posted by Stinger408scorp
I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
Lol who knows
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Posted by starwarsHaha she did like she's gonna beat me up lol
they act like you dont even exist

Posted by CAPRILICIOUSMe tooPosted by Capri-sunThis is why I avoid them like the plague.Posted by Nevermore
Why would you wanted to see her reactions?
Because that's what Scorpios do...
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI dont really get surprises . Not even from family . Every body asks me everything ๐ขPosted by cap..I can't win this. Lol.
i love surprises too
I secretly hope for surprises that may excite me, but that is very rare. Most of the times they are from my family. ๐click to expand









Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
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Posted by confusingconfusedlol this one definitely showed it.
they suffer mental agony when they are jealous but try not to show it.
when they have a crush on someone they act dumber around that guy (not their classy usual self)

Posted by confusingconfusedHaha it's all good she must've been catching feelings for awhile before the blow up lolPosted by Stinger408scorp๐Posted by confusingconfusedlol this one definitely showed it.
they suffer mental agony when they are jealous but try not to show it.
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
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@caprilicious
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Posted by SalamanderCandylol it's crystal clear but obviously it changed quick.
You're not even going out and she's possessive? Have you made it clear that you're both free to flirt? You may need to have that talk again.

Posted by Stinger408scorpI'm in a similar situation..I like this guy but, he seems threatened by any other relationship (all friend relationships) I have. I'm going to have to be clear about it again.Posted by SalamanderCandylol it's crystal clear but obviously it changed quick.
You're not even going out and she's possessive? Have you made it clear that you're both free to flirt? You may need to have that talk again.click to expand

Posted by CAPRILICIOUSThankyou ๐ . I do get lots of gifts but surprise gifts not reallyPosted by cap..That must be very disappointing. I hope you get plenty of gifts these winter holidays. ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI dont really get surprises . Not even from family . Every body asks me everything ๐ขPosted by cap..I can't win this. Lol.
i love surprises too
I secretly hope for surprises that may excite me, but that is very rare. Most of the times they are from my family. ๐
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSNot i but I do take my time and a lil more cautious now but as a person I'm still the same wayPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
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Posted by blink666โ I think that's how she is.
i'll pretend not to care and sadly I'm convincing at that.

Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI did end up getting her pastries and she loved it but when I handed it to her she didn't want it in the beginning so I told her bff why don't you just take that home if she doesn't want it to make it easier for everybody she got upset ? Playing hard to get lolPosted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWe ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.Posted by Stinger408scorpSo, are you guys still FWBs? ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI don't wanna push anything and pressure her but I wanna know if this is going anywhere.Posted by Stinger408scorpSo, are you guys still FWBs? ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSSo I don't know how else to approach this subject with her not gonna give her ultimatums but I wanna know where it's going If I have to wait so be it but I want some type of reassurance from her.Posted by Stinger408scorpSo, are you guys still FWBs? ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI know she's really trying so hard to hide her feelings but I could read her like an open book I don't know if me being a Scorpio has anything to do with it but my gut tells me she's falling for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpThat sounds good. Looks like you have it all planned out.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWe ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.Posted by Stinger408scorpSo, are you guys still FWBs? ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
Sometimes, ultimatums are the only things that will work on us. Lol.click to expand


Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpI think that was pretty obvious from the way she reacted. Lol. She's lucky you are understanding of her.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI know she's really trying so hard to hide her feelings but I could read her like an open book I don't know if me being a Scorpio has anything to do with it but my gut tells me she's falling for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpThat sounds good. Looks like you have it all planned out.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWe ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.Posted by Stinger408scorpSo, are you guys still FWBs? ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
Sometimes, ultimatums are the only things that will work on us. Lol.
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpLol. Very modest, scorp! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpI think that was pretty obvious from the way she reacted. Lol. She's lucky you are understanding of her.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI know she's really trying so hard to hide her feelings but I could read her like an open book I don't know if me being a Scorpio has anything to do with it but my gut tells me she's falling for me.Posted by Stinger408scorpThat sounds good. Looks like you have it all planned out.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWe ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.Posted by Stinger408scorpSo, are you guys still FWBs? ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSlol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.Posted by Stinger408scorpOh god! Lol.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSLol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!Posted by Stinger408scorpAwww... โ?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by Stinger408scorpA lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.Posted by CAPRILICIOUSI'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.Posted by Stinger408scorpI like that attitude! ๐Posted by CAPRILICIOUSEverything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?Posted by Stinger408scorpI've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. ๐
Sometimes, ultimatums are the only things that will work on us. Lol.
lol she's actually lucky to have me
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Posted by Capri-sunLol she did try to pull that can I borrow your phone crap on me last night but it didn't work lol
I'm really not sure why
1. People need confirmation before they stop doing something that might hurt the other person.
2. Why men act like the woman is suppose to state what it is, when the woman is waiting on the man to define so she doesn't have to have "the talk"
3. Why people think it's okay to flirt, date, sex a cap & not be committed from day 1 ๐
I'm not going to compete for you, so either we are or we aren't & if you're unsure then we aren't is your best option. You need to be mine & mine only. If you aren't ready for that don't even approach me. ?

Posted by Capri-sunThe only way I'll let her go through my phone is if she reassures me that this will go somewhere.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunLol she did try to pull that can I borrow your phone crap on me last night but it didn't work lol
I'm really not sure why
1. People need confirmation before they stop doing something that might hurt the other person.
2. Why men act like the woman is suppose to state what it is, when the woman is waiting on the man to define so she doesn't have to have "the talk"
3. Why people think it's okay to flirt, date, sex a cap & not be committed from day 1 ๐
I'm not going to compete for you, so either we are or we aren't & if you're unsure then we aren't is your best option. You need to be mine & mine only. If you aren't ready for that don't even approach me. ?
Smh. If she wants the info bad enough she'll find a way to get it. Caps also have intuition same as you scorps. She will feel it & know if anything is off. & there's a possibility she's observant.
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Posted by Capri-sunWe're not official therefore I consider that as invasion of privacy at the moment that's why I slammed the breaks and said nope.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Capri-sunLol she did try to pull that can I borrow your phone crap on me last night but it didn't work lol
I'm really not sure why
1. People need confirmation before they stop doing something that might hurt the other person.
2. Why men act like the woman is suppose to state what it is, when the woman is waiting on the man to define so she doesn't have to have "the talk"
3. Why people think it's okay to flirt, date, sex a cap & not be committed from day 1 ๐
I'm not going to compete for you, so either we are or we aren't & if you're unsure then we aren't is your best option. You need to be mine & mine only. If you aren't ready for that don't even approach me. ?
Smh. If she wants the info bad enough she'll find a way to get it. Caps also have intuition same as you scorps. She will feel it & know if anything is off. & there's a possibility she's observant.
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