@Stinger408scorp
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Posted by lnana04
You sound like your opposite.I dealt with that...a guy being bothered by my actions not matching my words, and me not voicing my feelings. He wouldn't say he was bothered, instead would force my true feelings out of me whether it was making me jealous or attempting to give me what my actions said I wanted. Just torturous lol.
I like the Rams outlook. Obviously some things are uncomfortable for us. Why try to control the Cap or the situation to fit your needs? No matter how much we like you, we won't be able to give ourselves to someone that will manipulate us at any moment if/when they are feeling unsure about something. How can we find the comfort and security we crave in that type of situation?
Have a talk with her before it ends up being a ton of time and energy wasted.
After a few months of no talk I will see her tonight and do what needs to be done.
Posted by Capri-sun
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself
I was gonna say cause before I used to get her fav food or pastries every now and then and when I saw her bff one time that bff said so you're the pastries guy she was talking about lol.
Posted by Capri-sun
I like surprises, she's speaking for herself
And that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
Posted by Capri-sun
I like surprises, she's speaking for herselfAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
You just can't help yourself can you lol π
That's good she speaks highly of you π
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Haha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.
Posted by Capri-sun
I like surprises, she's speaking for herselfAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
You just can't help yourself can you lol π
That's good she speaks highly of you π
Haha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.
See, you knew what you were doing lol
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I'm a good dude I will tackle this issue head on cause hopefully she'll appreciate that.
Posted by Capri-sun
I like surprises, she's speaking for herselfAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
You just can't help yourself can you lol π
That's good she speaks highly of you π
Haha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.
See, you knew what you were doing lol
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lol I know I'm guilty but in all honesty I do care.
Posted by Capri-sun
I like surprises, she's speaking for herselfAnd that bff was a female virgo and she looks jealous when she says that to me lol
You just can't help yourself can you lol π
That's good she speaks highly of you π
Haha what can I say I love doing sweet stuff like that ?maybe that's why she end up catching feelings for me.
See, you knew what you were doing lol
lol I know I'm guilty but in all honesty I do care.
Yeah surprise pastries is more dating/relationship material than say fwb imo...
She obviously cares as well so I think you should just tell her & get it straightened out
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I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
Lol who knows
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lol secretive ass they both are.
I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
Lol who knows
lol secretive ass they both are.
You as well so what's the difference? π
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Haha hey I should be the only one keeping secrets ?
I'm curious as to what else she was telling that Virgo bff tho cause she Always has that smile on her face when she sees me like she knows wsup grrrrrr I wanna find out.
Lol who knows
lol secretive ass they both are.
You as well so what's the difference? π
Haha hey I should be the only one keeping secrets ?
A little mystery won't kill you lol
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lol I gave that Virgo that stare like wtf are you getting on our business lol I told my cap nextime I bring you some pastries just give her stuff you don't like lol
Posted by starwars
they act like you dont even exist
Haha she did like she's gonna beat me up lol
Posted by Nevermore
Why would you wanted to see her reactions?Because that's what Scorpios do...
This is why I avoid them like the plague.
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Me too
i love surprises too
Posted by cap..
i love surprises tooI can't win this. Lol.
I secretly hope for surprises that may excite me, but that is very rare. Most of the times they are from my family. π
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I dont really get surprises . Not even from family . Every body asks me everything π’
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
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Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
Posted by confusingconfused
they suffer mental agony when they are jealous but try not to show it.when they have a crush on someone they act dumber around that guy (not their classy usual self)
lol this one definitely showed it.
Posted by confusingconfused
they suffer mental agony when they are jealous but try not to show it.when they have a crush on someone they act dumber around that guy (not their classy usual self)
lol this one definitely showed it.
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Haha it's all good she must've been catching feelings for awhile before the blow up lol
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
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I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
Posted by ugMercuryMind
@capriliciousπ
Lol
You're not even going out and she's possessive? Have you made it clear that you're both free to flirt? You may need to have that talk again.
Posted by SalamanderCandy
You're not even going out and she's possessive? Have you made it clear that you're both free to flirt? You may need to have that talk again.
lol it's crystal clear but obviously it changed quick.
Posted by SalamanderCandy
You're not even going out and she's possessive? Have you made it clear that you're both free to flirt? You may need to have that talk again.lol it's crystal clear but obviously it changed quick.
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I'm in a similar situation..I like this guy but, he seems threatened by any other relationship (all friend relationships) I have. I'm going to have to be clear about it again.
If someone's habit is to dead-on be possessive, it's gotta be yours to keep standing up for what you really want in the relationship. Or else you're gonna feel trapped. I wish you good luck.
It sucks when we care about these people too man
Posted by cap..
i love surprises tooI can't win this. Lol.
I secretly hope for surprises that may excite me, but that is very rare. Most of the times they are from my family. π
I dont really get surprises . Not even from family . Every body asks me everything π’
That must be very disappointing. I hope you get plenty of gifts these winter holidays. π
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Thankyou π . I do get lots of gifts but surprise gifts not really
i'll pretend not to care and sadly I'm convincing at that.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
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Not i but I do take my time and a lil more cautious now but as a person I'm still the same way
Posted by blink666
i'll pretend not to care and sadly I'm convincing at that.
β I think that's how she is.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
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I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
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I did end up getting her pastries and she loved it but when I handed it to her she didn't want it in the beginning so I told her bff why don't you just take that home if she doesn't want it to make it easier for everybody she got upset ? Playing hard to get lol
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
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Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
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lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
So, are you guys still FWBs? ?
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We ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
So, are you guys still FWBs? ?
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I don't wanna push anything and pressure her but I wanna know if this is going anywhere.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
So, are you guys still FWBs? ?
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So I don't know how else to approach this subject with her not gonna give her ultimatums but I wanna know where it's going If I have to wait so be it but I want some type of reassurance from her.
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
So, are you guys still FWBs? ?
We ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.
That sounds good. Looks like you have it all planned out.
Sometimes, ultimatums are the only things that will work on us. Lol.
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I know she's really trying so hard to hide her feelings but I could read her like an open book I don't know if me being a Scorpio has anything to do with it but my gut tells me she's falling for me.
I appreciate the advise you've been very helpful ?
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
So, are you guys still FWBs? ?
We ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.
That sounds good. Looks like you have it all planned out.
Sometimes, ultimatums are the only things that will work on us. Lol.
I know she's really trying so hard to hide her feelings but I could read her like an open book I don't know if me being a Scorpio has anything to do with it but my gut tells me she's falling for me.
I think that was pretty obvious from the way she reacted. Lol. She's lucky you are understanding of her.
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lol she's actually lucky to have me
I guess it all depends cause I've been cheated on in the past so I know how it feels like to be on the other end of the stick that's why I would never hurt anyones feelings intentionally I'd rather end things instead of going that route but that's just me.
I've never been cheated on, but I can understand the pain. No one should have to go through that. But, relationships can be complicated sometimes.
Everything has a reason we're all gonna go through some type of pain but I refuse to change the way I am just because of one bad apple ?
I like that attitude! π
I'm an even better person now and that made me a lot stronger emotionally so I thank her for what she's done and I thank the bro for taking that bad monkey off my back no hard feelings.
A lot of people that get cheated on are afraid of being vulnerable again. They carry over these fears into their next relationship. I always hear people say that they find it hard to trust.
Relationships are a huge responsibility. Whether it's friendships or love relations, one must not enter into them unless you are mentally prepared to commit.
I ended up seeing her last night she asked if I miss her i said come closer and whispered I really really missed me lol
Awww... β?
Wait! You said, miss Me!?? SMH!
Lol yea but then I whispered again on the other side and said I really do miss you ?
Oh god! Lol.
I'm happy things working out for you guys. Just be open and honest with each other. π
lol I'm comfortable opening up but the prob is she's still too guarded maybe she got cheated in the past that I wouldn't really know it's too early to say.
So, are you guys still FWBs? ?
We ended up having sex but cause we got caught up in the moment but I'll see her again sometime this week and put the hammer down and say if you want this to go further you have to let me know so I don't do things that might hurt you.
That sounds good. Looks like you have it all planned out.
Sometimes, ultimatums are the only things that will work on us. Lol.
I know she's really trying so hard to hide her feelings but I could read her like an open book I don't know if me being a Scorpio has anything to do with it but my gut tells me she's falling for me.
I think that was pretty obvious from the way she reacted. Lol. She's lucky you are understanding of her.
lol she's actually lucky to have me
Lol. Very modest, scorp! π
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Cmon now all these crap I had to deal with and I'm still understanding with her she's real lucky ?
yeah be direct. what's the point of dancing around if you both want to be together lol
i recall when i thought we were an item, one day scorp suddenly mentioned that before he met me, he sent in an application to work abroad. he paused and looked at me intensively. i then of course took the opportunity to make him swear to all gods to never go anywhere without my permission and if he goes, i'd bawl my eyes out lol. he looked ecstatic and said he was surprised to hear that because he thought he was my boy toy!!!β seriously, i thought that was some serious funny butter lol
Posted by Capri-sun
I'm really not sure why1. People need confirmation before they stop doing something that might hurt the other person.
2. Why men act like the woman is suppose to state what it is, when the woman is waiting on the man to define so she doesn't have to have "the talk"
3. Why people think it's okay to flirt, date, sex a cap & not be committed from day 1 π
I'm not going to compete for you, so either we are or we aren't & if you're unsure then we aren't is your best option. You need to be mine & mine only. If you aren't ready for that don't even approach me. ?
Lol she did try to pull that can I borrow your phone crap on me last night but it didn't work lol
Posted by Capri-sun
I'm really not sure why1. People need confirmation before they stop doing something that might hurt the other person.
2. Why men act like the woman is suppose to state what it is, when the woman is waiting on the man to define so she doesn't have to have "the talk"
3. Why people think it's okay to flirt, date, sex a cap & not be committed from day 1 π
I'm not going to compete for you, so either we are or we aren't & if you're unsure then we aren't is your best option. You need to be mine & mine only. If you aren't ready for that don't even approach me. ?
Lol she did try to pull that can I borrow your phone crap on me last night but it didn't work lol
Smh. If she wants the info bad enough she'll find a way to get it. Caps also have intuition same as you scorps. She will feel it & know if anything is off. & there's a possibility she's observant.
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The only way I'll let her go through my phone is if she reassures me that this will go somewhere.
Posted by Capri-sun
I'm really not sure why1. People need confirmation before they stop doing something that might hurt the other person.
2. Why men act like the woman is suppose to state what it is, when the woman is waiting on the man to define so she doesn't have to have "the talk"
3. Why people think it's okay to flirt, date, sex a cap & not be committed from day 1 π
I'm not going to compete for you, so either we are or we aren't & if you're unsure then we aren't is your best option. You need to be mine & mine only. If you aren't ready for that don't even approach me. ?
Lol she did try to pull that can I borrow your phone crap on me last night but it didn't work lol
Smh. If she wants the info bad enough she'll find a way to get it. Caps also have intuition same as you scorps. She will feel it & know if anything is off. & there's a possibility she's observant.
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We're not official therefore I consider that as invasion of privacy at the moment that's why I slammed the breaks and said nope.
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