I'm feeling kind of nervous

So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

All men have it in them to be a player. If you get into a relationship with him make sure you give him alot to respect. If he respects you and the relationship he should keep it in his pants. Be proud and take no shit. Good luck!

Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

The only way to tell is to not give him anything right away. That's it... a player doesn't waste time with niceties.

That's how you know, holding back the physical.

It's a dating site so you should know he's dating or attempting to date other people so with that being said dress nice and neat as in feminine and be yourself.

My Virgo friend is a Cap magnet and she is very feminine and a good dresser, nails done, toes done, hair always done in a feminine sexy way and she pulls the Alpha Cap males.

Just my observation.

Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard all men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

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Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

The only way to tell is to not give him anything right away. That's it... a player doesn't waste time with niceties.

That's how you know, holding back the physical.

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Incorrect on all points.

While holding back sex may weed out a few impatient mofos...a true player will put in the time and energy to get what he's after. A player will absolutely wast time with 'niceties'. He'll tell you what you want to hear and give you what you want in order to get what HE wants from you.

You think holding off on having sex for a month, 3 months, a year will be a hardship for him? Think again.

He has a different girl for each day off the week. Don't make the mistake of thinking that by withholding sex he's not getting any. He's not getting any from YOU is all.

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Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

The only way to tell is to not give him anything right away. That's it... a player doesn't waste time with niceties.

That's how you know, holding back the physical.

Incorrect on all points.

While holding back sex may weed out a few impatient mofos...a true player will put in the time and energy to get what he's after. A player will absolutely wast time with 'niceties'. He'll tell you what you want to hear and give you what you want in order to get what HE wants from you.

You think holding off on having sex for a month, 3 months, a year will be a hardship for him? Think again.

He has a different girl for each day off the week. Don't make the mistake of thinking that by withholding sex he's not getting any. He's not getting any from YOU is all.

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it can't be incorrect if it's an opinion

not everyone is the same, remember

and yes holding back on being intimate with someone shows many things, that is my experience and has worked wonders, try it

#seconddateupdate

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Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

The only way to tell is to not give him anything right away. That's it... a player doesn't waste time with niceties.

That's how you know, holding back the physical.

Incorrect on all points.

While holding back sex may weed out a few impatient mofos...a true player will put in the time and energy to get what he's after. A player will absolutely wast time with 'niceties'. He'll tell you what you want to hear and give you what you want in order to get what HE wants from you.

You think holding off on having sex for a month, 3 months, a year will be a hardship for him? Think again.

He has a different girl for each day off the week. Don't make the mistake of thinking that by withholding sex he's not getting any. He's not getting any from YOU is all.

it can't be incorrect if it's an opinion

not everyone is the same, remember

and yes holding back on being intimate with someone shows many things, that is my experience and has worked wonders, try it

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To imagine that withholding sex is going to illuminate whether or not this cap man is a player (your advice) is exceptionally naive.

Holding back on having sex is something you do for yourself. Wait until your comfortable, qualify the man as someone you can trust with your body, because your heart will surely follow after. But don't think that using sex (or in this case...not using) will control the person.

holding back on being intimate is not withholding sex LOL especially to a FKN stranger

naive is believing men you meet online want more than just sex

sorry I hit a nerve

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Holding back on sexual intimacy is not withholding sex.

A player will not stick around for a woman with firm boundaries with 90 days before sexual intimacy unless....

He's getting booty on the regular so he'll wait out the no sex rules while getting plenty booty on the side to stave off sexual neediness or he'll simply move on.

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Posted by leo16
So recently I meant a Capricorn man on POF and we started texting anyways he asked me if I wanted to hang out and I do. he approached my first btw, he told me I was cute lol. Back to the point. I've heard cappy men are players.... and only want one thing. Is there anything I should keep in mind on the date? Don't know his birth chart lol, I'm referring to Capricorn men in general

I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

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Uh, the expression is, "There's plenty of fish in the sea".

For OP:

I met a Cappy (08 Oct) on POF, too. He's soooooooooooooo different! HE approaches me for dates. I rode on his motorcycle and I had fun! We met over java at Starbucks and it was cute how he would drink and look at me sideways while drinking his beverage. HE asks me out for dates. So far, we have had two dates + the day I met him. Get ready NOT to have this Cappy man "bother you" with texts, phone calls, etc. He works (like I do) and he goes to a tech school, too, and hinted after he graduates he "may move back to my city" (you HAVE to listen to Cappy men as they throw "subtle" hints). He KNOWS I have a son (homework) and I work out (four days a week). He is off on Mondays/Tuesdays and Mondays are MANIC for me at work/home (homework). He just texted me and made plans for this Saturday (he works Saturday and I work out on Saturdays so we'll meet again at Starbucks at 6:00 pm). They say if a Cappy man is interested in you, he will let you know (he texted me last week and said "I miss you"). He sneaked kisses from me (last time we saw one another; 22 Oct) as we walked after dinner. We planned on watching the Dallas Cowboys game last Sunday and texted he was really tired (he worked; and lives an hour and a half from my house; and the game would have ended late; it did. Cappy is VERY smart who doesn't put his life in jeopardy; and cancelled). I accepted it. He texted, "Don't give up on me". I thought that was sooooo sweet! This Cappy man is teaching me about PATIENCE. He hasn't suggested we have sex as he's a religious man and stated, "I am suppose to marry a woman who is either a widow or has been divorced due to her ex husband cheating on her" while at dinner 15 Oct. Well, my divorce decree states, "Alienation of affection". I'm NOT in a hurry to marry again, but dating a religious man is VERY important to me.

HE texted me and said, "My cell fried out. I had to get a new one. It was hell finding your number, but I got it". I sent me the first pic I sent him of me and texted, "replacing the one I originally gave you since you have a new phone" (HE NEVER asked for same said photo). He thanked me for sending this pic of me.

HE texted me while at night school to say, "I'm bored; feels like I've been here for five hours". I sent him a different pic of myself and texted, "Aww, sorry to hear that. This is for you to keep". He was in awwwwwww (texted, "I like cowgirls!") 😆

So to answer your question, No. Cappy men are not players. They are "thinkers" and I allow SOMEONE in this "early" relationship to do the thinking for me/us. I am not dating anyone else (who has the inclination when I have a "good looking" Cappy" who is ALSO interested in me??). Cappy has MANNERS of which all other zodiac signs LACK. He calls me "Ma'am" (even though he's one year older than me) and I like it when he texts, "Hey girl". 😆

Cappy is NOT possessive as he hasn't asked me to "delete my account on POF" and vice versa.

Cyber hugs! 🤗

Love,

Eva

PS: Don't be nervous. Give this Cappy a chance.

I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

Uh, the expression is, "There's plenty of fish in the sea".

Eva, I'm happy for you. I hope this works out ... so maybe it's Tinder that is where the players are. I am trying to get a sense of what site I should go to when I start to look again. If you've met a decent guy on POF, then perhaps I might try that one!

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I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

Uh, the expression is, "There's plenty of fish in the sea".

Eva, I'm happy for you. I hope this works out ... so maybe it's Tinder that is where the players are. I am trying to get a sense of what site I should go to when I start to look again. If you've met a decent guy on POF, then perhaps I might try that one!

Yep! It's Tinder that only want sex. When you DO find that someone, ask for his DOB, and full name (tell him you're into zodiac signs and such), go to this website, pay $ 1.00 and you can see if he is telling you the truth about himself. It will show you how many times he's been married, old home/phone numbers, etc. The Libra I met on POF told me he was married twice. I used this website and found out he was married three times!!! 😱 I called him up on this, and BLOCKED him from FB, phone, and POF! You can also do the "reverse" phone number website and it will give you his email address and it will also lead you to his FB account to find out if he is legit or not.

www.spokeo.com

You'll find that ONE gem amongst the pile of doggy poopie! LOL! Good luck! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

Uh, the expression is, "There's plenty of fish in the sea".

Eva, I'm happy for you. I hope this works out ... so maybe it's Tinder that is where the players are. I am trying to get a sense of what site I should go to when I start to look again. If you've met a decent guy on POF, then perhaps I might try that one!

Yep! It's Tinder that only want sex. When you DO find that someone, ask for his DOB, and full name (tell him you're into zodiac signs and such), go to this website, pay $ 1.00 and you can see if he is telling you the truth about himself. It will show you how many times he's been married, old home/phone numbers, etc. The Libra I met on POF told me he was married twice. I used this website and found out he was married three times!!! 😱 I called him up on this, and BLOCKED him from FB, phone, and POF! You can also do the "reverse" phone number website and it will give you his email address and it will also lead you to his FB account to find out if he is legit or not.

www.spokeo.com

You'll find that ONE gem amongst the pile of doggy poopie! LOL! Good luck! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

cool thanks a bunch!

Cap men with a lot of fire placements most definitely are players and tend to be very charming, extroverted with a bit of a shy side and tend to be fun and good looking. They brood and tend to be leaders of the pack and also have this lone wolf alpha male personality and women eat that up like a box of crispy creme donuts.

Although they are not messy with their extracurricular activities so he will appear available but he has plenty of options so beware of falling, they are easy to love but hard to get.

I met a cap on a dating site. He was loyal.

Yes loyal but they tend to be chick magnets. Every male celebrity from Jared Leto to Denzel Washington to Leonardo DiCaprio, to Marilyn Manson, to Jude Law, to LL Cool J, to Justin Timberlake to Morris Chestnut to Marvin Gaye, to Elvis Presley and countless other male celebrities are fiercely loyal to their wives and girlfriends but for the exception of Jude who slept with the nanny.

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Posted by tcta

I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

Uh, the expression is, "There's plenty of fish in the sea".

Eva, I'm happy for you. I hope this works out ... so maybe it's Tinder that is where the players are. I am trying to get a sense of what site I should go to when I start to look again. If you've met a decent guy on POF, then perhaps I might try that one!

Yep! It's Tinder that only want sex. When you DO find that someone, ask for his DOB, and full name (tell him you're into zodiac signs and such), go to this website, pay $ 1.00 and you can see if he is telling you the truth about himself. It will show you how many times he's been married, old home/phone numbers, etc. The Libra I met on POF told me he was married twice. I used this website and found out he was married three times!!! 😱 I called him up on this, and BLOCKED him from FB, phone, and POF! You can also do the "reverse" phone number website and it will give you his email address and it will also lead you to his FB account to find out if he is legit or not.

www.spokeo.com

You'll find that ONE gem amongst the pile of doggy poopie! LOL! Good luck! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

cool thanks a bunch!

YW. Have a nice weekend! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by tcta

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by tcta

I thought POF was all players - male and female - be careful of what you want and don't want ... if you lose him, well I guess there's plenty of other fish in the bowl ...

Uh, the expression is, "There's plenty of fish in the sea".

Eva, I'm happy for you. I hope this works out ... so maybe it's Tinder that is where the players are. I am trying to get a sense of what site I should go to when I start to look again. If you've met a decent guy on POF, then perhaps I might try that one!

Yep! It's Tinder that only want sex. When you DO find that someone, ask for his DOB, and full name (tell him you're into zodiac signs and such), go to this website, pay $ 1.00 and you can see if he is telling you the truth about himself. It will show you how many times he's been married, old home/phone numbers, etc. The Libra I met on POF told me he was married twice. I used this website and found out he was married three times!!! 😱 I called him up on this, and BLOCKED him from FB, phone, and POF! You can also do the "reverse" phone number website and it will give you his email address and it will also lead you to his FB account to find out if he is legit or not.

www.spokeo.com

You'll find that ONE gem amongst the pile of doggy poopie! LOL! Good luck! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

cool thanks a bunch!

YW. Have a nice weekend! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

you too!