How do you act when scorned/hurt?

Fellow Caps - what's your general demeanour after being scorned? I'm referring to both friendships & romantic relationships. How

I recently lost a very good friend (Scorpio). Since we are not good friends anymore (were civil), she has picked up where she left off with an old friend that she used to talk negatively about constantly. Because of this, I feel really hurt, and have been totally ignoring her entire existence.

How do you move on from any type of relationship that caused you substantial pain?

I grieve the relationship in private and basically move on until I dont hurt anymore.

Shut the emotions down, freeze people out. The person doesn't exist for me (for a while anyway).

During this time, I analyze and look honestly at things to see if I had some part in it. Like did they do this because I did that? Ask myself those questions, then determine how long to shut it all down.

If things were not my fault, I will never, ever forget how things went down. Doesn't mean I won't eventually forgive, but I won't forget and usually things are never the same after something goes down. Well, I suppose it depends on what it is.

"Shut the emotions down, freeze people out. The person doesn't exist for me (for a while anyway)."

Truecap.. this is the exact same for me. I was just wondering if it was a Cap thing or not. I'm extremely good at pushing things to the back of my mind and pretending that my feelings towards that situation don't even exist.