How do you show your possesiveness

I know there is a difference between jealousy and possesivness. How do you as a Cappie show, this is mine back off? I see my Cap watching when we go out, when a man approaches me, he does not get involved but he IS watching how I react. I am going out Friday night with a friend to same bar where he is a "watcher" lol. He has asked me everyday this week, do I still plan on going out Friday.

Wondering how you as a Cap handle your jealousy or possesivness? Sp?

Sorry for spelling errors

Capricorn wants self-efficient women. We watch your body language. If your feeling that person, we can tell... You can say all you want or defend yourself all you want. We know the truth... We will only intervene if we see you look uncomfortable around that person. Caps are jealous by nature, but we learn to over come it because we know it is used for attraction tactics. Trying to make a Cap jealous only kills your attraction...

I think its a bad look for anyone to play that game. It shows your immaturity!

Just want to know if he can tell I am uncomfortable, will he step in? Like I said he is a watcher....

How is it immature? You Control your own actions. He wants to see for himself, instead of someone telling him lies...

He will step in if he see you need his protection....

I think it is immature to try and make them jealous on purpose is what I mean, I am talking about if you are in a situation you didn't try and create for attention, at what point do they say OK I am stepping in.

OK Pidelight you know I want to hear what you and TruCap think!! 😉

*yanks chains*

Posted by GemJenn
Just want to know if he can tell I am uncomfortable, will he step in? Like I said he is a watcher....

Yes, from my experience with a Cap man also. Mine had Scorpio moon and mars though.

But one time this guy at a party was bothering me and I thought the Cappy was going to ask him to step outside.

A cap will watch and pay attention to how you react. You will be expected to behave appropriately. Like sureshot said, we can read body language. If you flirt back, seem to be enjoying it, etc. you will not be taken seriously any longer. We expect you to be loyal and take care of your own business. A cap man will step in if you need him.

The cap women, well, one look should do it to show our possessiveness. The killer look. You know what I mean. (or is that the scorp in me? lol!). Also some sarcasm. We will stake our claim via body language or verbally (disguised in humor and sarcasm). And our man better behave appropriately and rebuff whomever is hitting on him.

The jealousy game is not for me. I will refuse to play and you will lose.

Aww the lonely bitter Cap......shakes head

Posted by truecap
A cap will watch and pay attention to how you react. You will be expected to behave appropriately. Like sureshot said, we can read body language. If you flirt back, seem to be enjoying it, etc. you will not be taken seriously any longer. We expect you to be loyal and take care of your own business. A cap man will step in if you need him.

The cap women, well, one look should do it to show our possessiveness. The killer look. You know what I mean. (or is that the scorp in me? lol!). Also some sarcasm. We will stake our claim via body language or verbally (disguised in humor and sarcasm). And our man better behave appropriately and rebuff whomever is hitting on him.

The jealousy game is not for me. I will refuse to play and you will lose.

+1

Posted by GemJenn
Aww the lonely bitter Cap......shakes head

Better than flighty and can't make up your mind. 😛

Lol, yep that is true....Trucap check your inbox...

Posted by GemJenn
Lol, yep that is true....Trucap check your inbox...

*hugs*

Posted by QUlETstorm
I've dated two caps in my life and they were very different from each other in the regard of other men looking at me.

the first cap I dated in my early 20s was in the NFL and was very cocky & arrogant. I met him BEFORE the arrogance and before the NFL. He played college football in my city but was not from here. Anyhow, when he went to play ball with the bengals I would go visit him down in Cincinnati. We had broken up by this point but I still had feelings for him and we were both single so I went to visit him and a group of us went out to a club. He was arrogant and he liked to see other men try to approach me. He would tell me to walk circle the club to see how many men would approach me. i was so annoyed.. i was clearly just another trophy to him. Anytime a guy tried to dance with me, he would send a rose my way to call my attention back to him.. It must have stroked the hell out of his ego. Smh afterward when we got in the car we argued about it, he said he was just proud knowing he had the "hottest chick in the club." :/

My current cap of 5 years is much more protective/slightly possessive of me. And i like it 🙂 For Christmas we went to his brothers house and one of his half-brothers were there and it was my first time meeting him. His half brother looked me up and down and said "does your girlfriend work out too? She has a nice lil shape on her" (my bf is a personal trainer) my caps whole demeanor changed and he stood protectively between me and his half brother. Shortly after that, he grabbed my hand and we left. Then in the car he kept talking about it, I could tell he was pissed.

There have been other times he shows his jealousy in little cutsey ways, like I can't say a man on tv has nice arms without him giving me a hard time about it. Lol! But he does so jokingly.

Awwww, that's so CUTE! It sounds like you've got a good one there, QS. Best hang onto him! 🙂