How to deal with a shy Capricorn guy?

How to make a Capricorn guy open up when you're sure he likes you? What to do when he doesn't even say a word to you?
P.S.: I'm a really shy Taurus girl.

Posted by champranger

Posted by Laleh
How to make a Capricorn guy open up when you're sure he likes you? What to do when he doesn't even say a word to you?
P.S.: I'm a really shy Taurus girl.

Try to smile at him and say hi.

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Thanks! I'll do it.

Posted by pink786new
If 'you're sure he likes you' then why does he need to tell you? It sounds like he is taking things slowly and that's a good thing

You're right. I don't need him to tell me anything. But I don't want to make him think I'm uninterested. He is amazing and there are a lot of other girls around him who are less shy and subtle than me. What if he thinks he's wasting time with me. I really like him a lot and don't want to lose him and I want to know if I should make a move like talking to him?

Posted by cowpuncher
Smile at him a lot. Let him catch you looking at him now and then. Basically, the key is... let him see that you like him as well, so that he'll know his attention and interest is welcome. That will help quite a bit. It still might take a bit if he's a really shy goat, but that will help it along, and make things much easier on him. 🙂

Depending on where things are at between you, I keep telling all the gals on this board that many Cap men are absolute suckers for a girl baking them something. If you can find out what his favorites are... cookies, brownies, cupcakes, you name it... and things are at a point where it wouldn't be weird for you to bake him something thoughtfully like that (great thing to do on a birthday or special day for him if you need an excuse)... it helps! Capricorn men, especially 95% of the really good ones, are old fashioned guys. Old fashioned stuff works on us. 🙂

Good luck to you both!

Thank you so much. I'll try it as soon as possible and the good news is he's a cookie monster and as a typical Taurus I'm a great cook 🙂

Laleh, just follow what cowpuncher advise to you.. BASICALLY you need to show your interest to him.
Make him feel he is needed by you. He will feel more comfortable and eventually will be more open to you.
It takes me almost four months before my cappy guy start talking about how he missed me so much.. Yeah,
cap guy sure takes their time.

Always be yourself, do not pretend anything because before he decided you are the one, you'll be tested.. That's
for sure.. when you're being tested, be patient and continue your daily life like nothing happen.


Many love from Pisces.. :-)

Posted by Sarah00
Laleh, just follow what cowpuncher advise to you.. BASICALLY you need to show your interest to him.
Make him feel he is needed by you. He will feel more comfortable and eventually will be more open to you.
It takes me almost four months before my cappy guy start talking about how he missed me so much.. Yeah,
cap guy sure takes their time.

Always be yourself, do not pretend anything because before he decided you are the one, you'll be tested.. That's
for sure.. when you're being tested, be patient and continue your daily life like nothing happen.


Many love from Pisces.. :-)

Thank you so much Sarah00 🙂 4 month is pretty long time. But I'm patient and I'll wait for him to open up 🙂

btw Laleh, one thing you must keep in mind about cappy guy. Their ACTION speaks louder than WORDS.
Pay attention to his actions rather than his words. If he likes you, you'll be treated like a princess. But to hear him saying I love you or I miss you, rarely happen..

Don't take it to your heart. It just that they are not sure how to express their feeling via words.

Good Luck with your cappy guy. If he gone missing, dont worry, he'll come back to you *if he really really likes you*


Many love from Pisces..

Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate them. Btw my best friend is a Pisces and she is kind and caring just like you. Both Pisces and Taurus are very sensitive and romantic. I think we are the ones that value real love the most. That's why I love Pisces. My favorite novelist is a Pisces too - Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Have you read "Love in the Time of Cholera"? It's a great book and i love that line the most "Love is not a condition of the spirit but a sign of the zodiac."

Trust me, He may be quiet but he is observing you,absorbing you,and THINKING. So, just be yourself, Cap men dont usually seem to be interested in women that are really forward anyways, so your doing good grasshopper! lol

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Trust me, He may be quiet but he is observing you,absorbing you,and THINKING. So, just be yourself, Cap men dont usually seem to be interested in women that are really forward anyways, so your doing good grasshopper! lol

WHOA??_ Observing? It's kinda freaky... No I'm not forward at all. I'm quiet and shy. Do you think Capricorns find introverted girls attractive?

Posted by Laleh

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Trust me, He may be quiet but he is observing you,absorbing you,and THINKING. So, just be yourself, Cap men dont usually seem to be interested in women that are really forward anyways, so your doing good grasshopper! lol

WHOA??_ Observing? It's kinda freaky... No I'm not forward at all. I'm quiet and shy. Do you think Capricorns find introverted girls attractive?

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Absolutely CORRECT!

You may see them reserved, but behind you he'll dig all information about you. The first day I met him, he already made conclusion on my character, which is so damn true and my jaw almost dropped down. hahaha 😄 The second day, he already knew I'm a writer. I was like.. OMG! Is he stalking on me?

I was shocked, because usually us pisces can read other sign correctly, but he was beyond me by one step.

Don't freak out Laleh, Cappy just like to make sure you're worth to be the one. That's why he'll dig everything about you. And about you being quiet and shy, don't worry.. just be yourself. Always! :-)

You could try to be direct and just blow his mind by telling him you like him (just like in elementary/junior high school days...a lil sadiehawkins style ). Just keep it simple and keep up the baking 🙂

Posted by CanceritaBonita
You could try to be direct and just blow his mind by telling him you like him (just like in elementary/junior high school days...a lil sadiehawkins style ). Just keep it simple and keep up the baking 🙂

Nope I just can't be direct. It's impossible.

He's back again. Thanks God we have a lot of mutual friends. I was reading (as usual) and I can swear he was staring at me. Then he asked one of my friends the name of the book I'm reading with a voice that I could clearly hear. Isn't it strange? I mean, why didn't he ask me? And also some of our companinons were talking about a boy (my ex boyfriend, a Virgo) saying he's a genius when he became angry and called him a satanist.

Posted by Laleh
He's back again. Thanks God we have a lot of mutual friends. I was reading (as usual) and I can swear he was staring at me. Then he asked one of my friends the name of the book I'm reading with a voice that I could clearly hear. Isn't it strange? I mean, why didn't he ask me? And also some of our companinons were talking about a boy (my ex boyfriend, a Virgo) saying he's a genius when he became angry and called him a satanist.

Ok, that's your que to back away and run in the other direction.

I am a Cancer, and after 2 dates with my Cap man,..and than me picking him up on my way to quickly look at a car, i dropped him off at his house and we were in the car,and his hand on the door,just lookin at me, i than grabbed him and kissed him and smiled, than he smiled and kissed me for like 5 minutes, felt like forever. I was very shy too, which is weird cuz i am an extrovert,.. but until i get to know someone you would think i was a introvert. Sometimes you gotta take the bull by the horns, just do it gently and try not to leave claw marks!!!! lol

Posted by M
Said that about the Virgo or the Cap?

Genius? They said it about the Virgo guy.

Posted by robyn808
or if you guy's hug, just say something like "I really like your hugs, they feel really good" it will must likely last a little bit longer.

I think we're confused were you offended by his comment? Doesn't sound like you were. I've known the sign to show their loyalty verbally, your enemies become there's as well. I don't know your ex but I'd make the assumption that he is an idiot. Your seem very pretty and supper sweet, so he must of got something wrong.

Thank you 🙂... Actually I wasn't offended. I don't hate my ex but he was really mean. I can handle everything if I'm really in love - his non stop flirting, criticizing, hot & cold behavior. Everything except something about my family or my religion. That's why I called it quits.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I am a Cancer, and after 2 dates with my Cap man,..and than me picking him up on my way to quickly look at a car, i dropped him off at his house and we were in the car,and his hand on the door,just lookin at me, i than grabbed him and kissed him and smiled, than he smiled and kissed me for like 5 minutes, felt like forever. I was very shy too, which is weird cuz i am an extrovert,.. but until i get to know someone you would think i was a introvert. Sometimes you gotta take the bull by the horns, just do it gently and try not to leave claw marks!!!! lol

Wow! Great story 😉 I know this feeling like it's going to last forever... You made me smile lol

- Acknowledgement.
[you know, that he is actually in the room, isn't ignored/shunned, and means something to somebody. That somebody notices... that somebody cares. That he's wanted (other than for work/school/whatever)]

- Subtle, yet genuine, gestures.
[an act of kindness, empathy, a greeting, a smile, eye contact (even if transient), lingering near him (but not too closely)]

Posted by Sarah00
btw Laleh, one thing you must keep in mind about cappy guy. Their ACTION speaks louder than WORDS.
Pay attention to his actions rather than his words. If he likes you, you'll be treated like a princess. But to hear him saying I love you or I miss you, rarely happen..

Don't take it to your heart. It just that they are not sure how to express their feeling via words.

This is true.

For I am not much of a 'talker'... I'm just of few words, is all. Even moreso if it concerns matters of the heart. A gift of some sort, an act (of kindess/assistance), or an effort seem sufficient enough methinks. But those who treat me shoddily shall see none of it.

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Posted by CancerianGoddess
Trust me, He may be quiet but he is observing you,absorbing you,and THINKING. So, just be yourself, Cap men dont usually seem to be interested in women that are really forward anyways, so your doing good grasshopper! lol

WHOA??_ Observing? It's kinda freaky... No I'm not forward at all. I'm quiet and shy. Do you think Capricorns find introverted girls attractive?

Posted by Laleh
Both Pisces and Taurus are very sensitive and romantic. I think we are the ones that value real love the most.

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You appear to be... quite the nice Taurus (unlike one I've had the misfortune of... interacting with at one time). She was extroverted, had a big mouth, was easily angered/irritated, and was insensitive to anyone who 'disrespected' her set boundaries and/or instructions. One misdemeanor... one misunderstanding... and I was nailed to the cross for it. Not really romantic, but sarcastic and 'boyish' in characteristics/mannerisms. Incompatible indeed.

Though I digress. You are not her. You are of better quality. Nicer... romantic... charming... shy... and not to mention pretty. Lucky man having you eyeing him. (and yes, I find introverstion/empathy attractive)

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