@Aries_Vexden
10 Years
I Feel So Torn, A Cat and Mouse Game. Why?
Understanding the Taurus and Capricorn Relationship Dynamics
Taurus and Capricorn are both earth signs, often creating a stable but sometimes challenging relationship. Their connection can involve a strong emotional bond and shared values. However, differences in communication and emotional expression may cause confusion or feelings of being torn, especially if one partner pulls away or shifts between closeness and distance.
What is his moon?
I dates a venus in capricorn man. He acted alot like this cap in question. Consistently inconsistent.
One night we were riding in my car and he told me that he wanted to make a go at it. We had the relationship talk that he himself brought up. He was sweet and nice. Extremely affectionate towards me in front of his friends. We slept over at his friends house and the next morning, gurl it was like he couldnt be bothered. I felt like a distant cousin he didnt really care for. Total opposite of the night b4. I felt very unwelcomed by him. I ended up leaving to go grab aa shower. Told him I would be back in N hour. Kiss goodbye. I get back and his friends are having a party. He ignored me the whole night. Then made out with another girl right in front of me and in front of his friends who thought we were an item. I left. He called and called playirng dumb, wondering why I left. Side eye. I didnt want the drama so I let it go.
Then he shows up on my doorstep professing his undying love. Im thinking when is he gonna flip it on me lkke he always does. Its coming. I know it. But it didnt. He started talking about having kids, everything I wanted to hear. I felt like I broke down his wall. I let my guard down and I think he sensed it. The minute I got emotionally comfortable in the conversation, he flipped it and said we didnt have a future.
I calmly went to wash my truck and labeled him in my phone as Dont Answer.
Never looked back.
he still calls me to this day. Its been almost 2 years. Hes damaged goods and I know my worth.
You stuck it out longer than I did. I couldnt deal with his twisted pattern of abuse.
Some capricorns can be undercover hurt manipulative cancers.
just like some tauris can be worse than a hurt scorpio.
shyt, capricorn is the new cancer
It was FWB, just a fling. Every fling has a limited life span.
A Cap that has no feelings has zero reason to be weird and moody.
It seems that they get weird when feelings are involved in some way.
Posted by DMV
Some capricorns can be undercover hurt manipulative cancers.just like some tauris can be worse than a hurt scorpio.
shyt, capricorn is the new cancer
LoL, yep to all of this.
Posted by DMV
shyt, capricorn is the new cancer
I've never heard this one before, but I've gotta say: It's a good one!
LOL!!
You are the rebound...
The circumstances Dont look good. You came at a time when he needed an ego boost. He likes you enough to have sex with you and be affectionate on his terms but not enough to see a long term relationship.
You agreed to be his FWB. Just enjoy the time you have and hopefully you guys can still be friends.
Run girl, run! He's not worth the pain!
I'm so sorry to hear that. I happy you've gotten past that. I don't know what his moon sign could be. His birthday was January 15, 1994. Mine is March 24, 1996. My moon sign is Gemini and my Venus is Taurus. Thank you for the advice.
Posted by DMV
What is his moon?I'm so sorry to hear that. I happy you've gotten past that. I don't know what his moon sign could be. His birthday was January 15, 1994. Mine is March 24, 1996. My moon sign is Gemini and my Venus is Taurus. Thank you for the advice.
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I've been looking for answers, been trying to figure out what to do. Some helpful advice?
I am an Aries and there is this man that I care for, he's a Capricorn. Our relationship is truly odd. I had met him through my ex, Leo. We've all been friends for well over three years. Somewhere near the ending 2014 both Cap and I had just gotten out of our longest relationships. My Leo and I thought it be best if we were just friends. Simple and clean. As for Cap, his girlfriend left to another state for college and ending up dumping him over the phone. Some time passes and I've begun hanging around Him and his pal Cancer. Things were nice. During the time though Cap was catching my eye. Something about the guy drew me to him more each passing day. Then one night, things got 'hot' and we slept together. After that we had both thought is was a good idea to have a friends with benefits. This went on for months. It was really great, until fell for him. When I had confessed my feelings to him he shot me down. That was by for the most painful experience I had ever gone through. The two of us took a break from each other for like a month. Then we ended up back together again....along with the benefits. However, this is when things started changing. I was prepare for the benefits, yet he was the one acting strange. One day he would be unbelievably sweet. Hold me close in his arms and telling me that I was his. Whenever I was down, he would be so concern for me and try to cheer me up. He then would tell or show me things that he hadn't shared with anybody else before. This was wonderful. It had felt like a wall was torn down. However, the very next day, he would push me away and constantly remind me that we were just fuck buddies. Cap, would act so cold sometimes, and I hadn't done anything wrong. I would be so confuse. To top it off, the day after that he would be sweet again. This became a thing the next following months, but despite the weird swings it felt like our bond had become stronger. This went on for while, the weird emotions somewhat mellowed out. By this point we were finally getting out of the storm, or so I'd thought. Last week, we went to the park. The two of us were having a great time. This is when things had gotten very odd. He went on saying things like I should dress nicer and wear some make up, then follows up with, I don't think we should be bed buddies anymore. Let's just stay friends. After that happened it feels like he's avoiding in some ways.