I Finally Did It (Page 2)

I echo capgirls BRAVO BRAVO BRAVO GEG, that was sooooooooo on the mark. and Cap girl you also put some great input in here. The truth is we all get hurt sometimes and keeping guards up etc is so important...and some men(and women) are just players...period... no matter what sign...but i do agree about the running when they feel like your getting too close and what's the best way to react to that? we say flip the script, i think they say cut her off at the knees...but again, some people are just players. I just spent 3 hours talking to a really good guy friend of mine, just a friend but someone i love dearly and we all have had our share of broken hearts etc. we ended the conversation with talking about how (he put it this way) when we travel down the "I'm not worthy, i'm not lovable, i'm not good enough, why doesn't he/she want me" road we put ourselves in Aucshwitz, good analogy, I become a victim of my own hell. It's time to escape
and yes these boards are great because one way to escape the prison camp is to talk and vent and share our experience, strength and hope.
Thank you ladies and I will pray too for all of us.

how's everybody doing today? this post got very quiet all of a sudden? Maybe all our thoughts and prayers worked and we're delirious with joy today

no thank you needed...it was right on target, these are OUR lives and when you think of the amount of time, energy and stress we spend obsessing over what's going on in THEIR brains...my God, what the hell is it doing to our own brains? Can't speak for you guys but it turns me into a total whacko, not a great place to be. I don't think I'd be one of those "fun" insane people, I think it'd be pretty ugly. and honestly, I've really been to hell and back in so much of my life and made it through, I cannot believe I will let another person turn me into a lunatic...for what? Do I think he'll feel sorry if they take me away in a straight jacket(I'm being very dramatic here), but for real, as we've all stated over and over and over again, it's so not worth it.
I just like talking with you ladies, it helps me through the work day and such

APW....you are funny....LOL LOL LOL....

I have 2 funny storys...

(1) I park my car in the complex that my ex lives in and walk across the street to the subway..and get on the train..of course he live at the bottom of the complex and he leaves for work at 5 or 6 am..and I don't park my car there until about 8:30am or 9am...and I get back there about 5:30- 5:45...he normally gets back to the shop in VA around 4pm..or so so I guees that if he leaves there he would probably get home around the time I get home or later that is if he goes to another job...I told my friend this and she just looked at me and I was like frist of all he lives at the bottom of the complex..and I park at the top..I don't waste my time driving by his house...that is Stalker move and that is not my style ...I get home get in my car warm it up and drive home...Why I do that..because I don't see why I should pay for parking if everyone does it that is why his complex is so crowded with cars...and then again he does not own the complex....my sister was like he probably see your car and be like dang she seeing someone in the same place that I live LOL ..but to me hell you can think what you want to think...if he had and since He would know that I am doing it to catch the train....LOL...and if he has seen my car already if he was looking the hey what can I say he has not called to question it...so my best bet is that he has not seen it...

(2) Remember me telling yall about the Cappy that lives in my building and how he as been avoiding me...because I won't sleep with him...or be his girl...I personally thank that he ugly...not to call people names..but I was warming my car up this morning..and I was looking our my rearview mirrior and I saw him coming down the street..and don't you know...dude keep driving past me....and went around the block I know he saw me in my car..and then I pulled off and saw him turning the corner to head back to the apt. complext...I got to work and was telling my friend at work..and she feel out laughing she was like he want you bad..and I was like dang if that is the case then why don't he say something and she was like he will when he get over you...I was like I don't want him....and she said that I really messed his ego up ...hey...what can I say....I will not hold back what I have to say to anyone...He tried to kiss me one time after leaving my house for having drinks and he went to kiss me on my lips and I turned my head..and held his hand and was like we are friends..and have not seen him since...what kinda crap is that..GO FIGURE....but I am loving it because I am walking around all happy go lucky and this brother is rearrangeing is whole schedule so not to run in to me....dang....LOL...

(2)

love you guys too, and actually i am really funnty...it's the best way for me to get through things...laugh my ass off, laughter is the best remedy for so many things. going out tonight with some friends that i get together with for mexican food, and we laugh our asses off at the stupidest things. PS a couple of these friends ARE the platonic cap guys i was talking about and myself and another girlfriend of mine laugh hysterically over their antics but both say we'd rather stick needles in our eyes than go out with them. They are the ones who admit that they're total bastards.

SL~ you got me chuckling there, w/ #2. The last sentence!! hahaha!

Yea, APW, I'm mentally exhausted this week and even w/ things seemingly (SEEMINGLY) being on the "upside" for the moment. I haven't slept well in 3 nights since I chatted w/ him. I'm just going to see him and do him, before Valentine's Day. That's the goal at this point. I have got to get this out of my system (S-E-X... thinking about it, ALOT!!!) LOL LOL I'd read somewhere to only give the Cap. man sex once in a great while, at least during this weird stage, and I've lived that advice... (ONE time during the course of a whole YEAR). But it's killing me in the process!!! 😉 haha

I was reading this message board and I could help but to sign and join in. Me being a Capricorn myself(December 22), it hurts(kind of) to see yall women talk about us Capricorns like that.

To ScorpioLady, you did abuse he ego because it takes alot for a Capricorn male to decide that he is going to kiss you, and to turn if down crush him...but not for long! The next time you see him, he's going to say, the only reason why I tried to kiss you was because I was drunk and horny!

I feel bad because I'm currently in love with a Pisces(b. March 9) and she is so cool, calm, and sensitive. I feel more comfortable talking to her then I did with any other women...and I hope she not sitting at home thinking I don't like her because I have approach her yet.

But the what I love about her the most(beside the fact that I get a vibe that she is a certified freak in the bed) is that she never have a harsh word to say about anyone. I've been conversating with her for about one month and a half and she never said anything negative.

It would be nice if anotherpisceswomen give me some advice to wrap her around my finger!! LOL! But since she hates Capricorns now, I doubt it.

Who invited these party-crashers?? LOL Just kidding, RiffRaff! But feel a little like we're being invaded by "the enemy" as we are strategizing and plotting to conquer him. hahaha

You Cap. men, RiffRaff and the other dude SouDunYoun whatever, don't seem like you really have a problem to give advice on. Just man-up, and take some action. Seems to me that one of Cap. men's life lessons in love is to overcome fear- fear of rejection.

(As for being a "typical Pisces," APW seems like you've got alot of fire in your chart...??)

First let me LOL...that you can on the board...and read all the stuff about how we feel about you types of individuals...what you need to do is help us deal with these cappies..and then maybe we can help you get the one you love back...LOL...

FAIR EXCHANGE AIN'T NO ROBBERY.

If you know or think that she is sitting and thinking that why don't you just call her...what you need to do is come clean and quit being so cautious...that is the problem with you Cappies..so so Cautious you end up losing the ones you love.....
is it really possible for a man to be that insecure and sensitive..but yet...stubborn, selfish, and loving...why why why why...that is all I want to know..

What is up with yall...men You should have never came on this board..I hope that you are ready for the questions? you are probably the only man that have the GUTS to be on this page...LOL....I am not going to say anything to you about a Cap Man...I am ok with what's going on with me and my ex cap...LOL....LOL....

If I was you I would give a run down on a typical Cap guy that way all us women can have a pretty good idea about you strange people...LOL...No Offense..JUST KEEPING IT REAL

Man-up?! Is that the best advice you can give? The last time I check the "Hi, I like you, can we go out sometime" line doesn't work on women! You have to be more creative, more stragetic, more witty.

And anotherpisceswomen think she fooling somebody! You still like that Capricorn male. All he has to do is say or do some romantic the next time yall talk and you will melt in his hands. You come on this site and vent too much just to throw away all feelings about him.

YOU GO CAP GIRL......lol lol lol

"is it really possible for a man to be that insecure and sensitive..but yet...stubborn, selfish, and loving"

Yes, yes, and yes! this is the biggest problem I had with women was the women waiting for me to do, waiting for me to say. Take me out sometimes, Call me if you want to talk! Don't think just because I don't call you that means I don't care. Come over to see me. If you really like me, then you will do all of those things, not wait for me to do them.

And I not going to lie. Alot of times, us Capricorn men feeds off of women sensitivity. We would talk sh@t to you just to see you get emotionally. And if you are the calm, cool, collective type. Like their was this one chick that liked me, every time she saw me she would smile and wave.

So, one day she smiled and waved at me and I roll my eyes at her!! Yall should have seen her face. LOL! She looked at me like I call her a b*tch!

This is getting verrrry interesting!!! Riffraff, my "man-up" was explained by ScorpionLady... don't be soooo cautious and passive. This Cap. guy I've been dealing with would call me up and want to have a 15+ minute phone conversation, during the work day. I'd always be trying to get off the phone first, and saying "Well...." and "So...." and he would hang on the line but wasn't asking me to get together. Frustrating as heck! He's a doll, I adore this guy, but I am never really sure what he wants. He won't come clean, or take action. So...like I said, step up to the plate, and you'll increase your attractiveness just by doing that.

I know one thing that other Capricorn women bores me!! I will school yall on game, though! What that Capricorn is really thinking!

This is good stuff, RiffRaff! Keep it coming... It all fits perfectly with what I've experienced! My Cap. guy has pulled that shyt w/ me alot-- said to me one time..."if you think someday I'm going to tell you that I'm totally in love w/ you, that's never going to happen." But the dude had told me just that about a week prior!!! I remained.... "calm, cool and collected" bc. I saw what he was up to! hehe

Stop pickin' on Cap. women, or I'll take you out, buddy! Have you ever had the privilege of going to BED with one— If you're attracted to class and sophistication, like most Cap. men, I think you'll agree that a Cap. woman ranks high for helping you seek the social status and wealth most of you want!

I don't like that Cap women are so good at talking sh@t. Everything I had to say, she had a rebuttal. It became irritating, but she saw it as a challenge. I don't like to be challeged by my women!

Oh, that is good! "I don't like to be challenged by my women!" LOL Yes, you best stick w/ your nice Pisces girl! ; P I used to be nicer to the Cap. guy... but then he started doing idiotic shyt, so no more nice girl routine! You guys need to be "slapped" every once in a while! Pathfinder will tell you... (a Pisces woman!!) So, tell us please... if you keep coming back around, does that mean you have a true interest in the girl? I mean, do you guys ever just END a "relationship" and stop talking to a girl?? Seems like alot of "disappearing" and "reappearing", as you probably have heard us bytching about!

well riffraff or whatever first of all of COURSE i liked the cap guy, otherwise i wouldn't be so hurt...duh...secondly, if you really want her TELL HER don't play games, don't disappear, don't act all aloof and uncaring. be nice be attentive and itonly takes little considerate things. we love that or at least i do. and then...keep doing it, don't just reel the little fishy in and then leave her to flop around in the boat while you decide if you REALLY want a girlfriend or not, because my experience with cap guys is they're always, even if they have a really wonderful person who loves them, thinking the grass is greener somewhere else. "yeah she's real nice and we have a great time and great sex,(cause we are very very sexual) BUT that what if that one over there is just a little better?" that's my take on cap guys. so again, if you want her make sure your truthful, trustworthy and reliable and loving. You will have the most wonderful woman of your life. If she likes you too and you can pretty much see that by how she acts with you.

Hey everyone,

Let me tell you ladies, this man loves me BUT he hardly makes plans in advance, he never or rarely says he will call me...when I try to engage him in intimate conversation he blinks at me....when confronted with the fact he only listens and never shares he blinks and tells me "please tell me whatever you want, I can take it..." then he stares blanky acts weird, pulls away and pouts! He entire family knows about me, ...gotta go will write later

So RiffRaff, explain the REAL reason behind the "disappear, reappear, call you when I feel like it" stuff. I mean, wassup with that? Why do you Cappy men do that? What does that prove? And why are y'all so unemotional and cautious? Why don't y'all take chances—?

I can't speak for all Capricorns, but I can speak for me. I disappear for alot of reasons like I don't want to bore you, I don't want to be intruding and irritating, I don't want to become jaded, and most importantly because being in love is very intense. I can't be around a women like that. I have to have time to gather my thoughts and cool down.

I hope that helped.

So then what's the problem with just saying that? I had asked my (ex now) Cappy man that if and when he wanted/needed time , i would give it to him. But he just was silent and didn't say anything. And what does it mean when you're with someone you want to be withbut still talking to other women? Is that fear of committing to one woman?

Wow-- I get the bore/intrude/irritate part... bc. I am the same, and we all on here knew about the last important bit! I don't understand the "jaded" though...? Riffraff... what's your age? You're not one of OUR Cap. men, are you? LOL Suspicious minds must at least ask! And why not just tell the woman... "hey, I'm going to disappear now for say... oh, 5-7 days, bc. I need to cool down and collect my thoughts bc. I am so in love w/ you it scares me." LOL ; )

Oh, APW, that reel in "fishy" and flip-flopping in the boat analogy was hilarious!!!!!

Wheretomylady-- yes, I totally have had all that... I can't stand the 'one-way street' of information flowing in one direction. It's like you're twisting in the wind, flip flopping like a fish, not knowing where the hell you stand. That might be okay and tolerable but when the actions are not there consistently-- phone calls, etc., that's when it becomes insanity/weird behavior!!

thanks again all you ladies, and riffraff..and yeah the flip flopping is hilarious isn't it...but isn't that what we all end up doing? flipping around like little fish while they just ignore the hell out of us and all our flopping...so riffraff, I'll tell you from experience, hell yes! being in love IS intense for anyone, no matter what sign,there's always a risk, but if you torture someone with it, because YOU'RE afraid? what the hell do you think that does to them? I was quite a sane healthy person until all the flip-flopping, this person you love could very well become a pyscho crazy with all the weird behavior. and you mentioned at first that she doesn't have a bad thing to say about anyone...well if you do the usual disappear, blank stare, i'm scared so i'm going to run away crap, she'll end up having LOTS of bad things to say about you, when you keep pushing someone away eventually they will go, and they will go with a lot of pain and anguish in them. My old cap that i was on and off with for almost 4 years was a master of that...and it was always when things were the greatest they could be, and he'd even say so, "you're amazing, you're the best thing that's ever happened to me, blah blah blah, " when things were the best ever is when he'd run like hell and it took awhile but eventually with all the rubber band back and forth i finally finally said "no more" I couldn't take the insanity. as i said i was very sane when i started with him and became a raving lunatic after a time. it's taken a lot of crying, talking and really seeing the insanity of always wondering waiting praying hoping staring at the phone should i shouldn't i not doing things with my friends because he might suddenly want to do something, in other words, totally destroying my own self esteem, self respect and the good person inside me to get to the point of "what the hell am i doing allowing this person to CONTROL my life. so after all that ranting the bottom line is again, if you really care for this person, and you're not willing to take the risk, then i say, leave her alone you'll be doing her a favor, let her not waste her time and maybe she might find someone who will actually be there for her without all the anguish and games.

APW,

Step back. PLEASE. Watch him for awhile. You'll begin to see a pattern. He has you totally figured out, and you are not paying attention! He knows you are emotional, so DON'T be. Now that you have moved on, keep a calendar. He'll turn up again. If you have done your homework by then, this time (after a few months normally) you will be able to see clearly that he is pushing the "same" buttons and you are reacting the "same" way. [And he is smiling to himself -- "still got it. You da man!".] DONT do that. If you see a punch coming, what do you do? Duck or block it, right? You have GOT to get ahold of yourself and start to defend/standup for yourself like a skilled opponent. Pisceans are wise, use this wisdom to plot the best course of action for your life. Don't let people play on your emotions. CONTROL them [your emotions] yourself.

oh believe me i have stepped OUT and you're although i think you're wrong(I don't think I'll be hering from him again,and we don't run in the same circles) my sister also bets everything that I'll get a call after awhile, but I really don't think so, he's too busy trolling the dating site, so much fresh meat,but i will be on my guard, been reading up on narcissism, he's a classic fit. and one of their traits is NO remorse, and No empathy for the harm they cause. They think they are right in everything they do.gotta fly late for work, more later, and thanks again, I'm really glad i found you people

APW~ I've been down that path... looking at narcissism. It's a mind trip delving into that and I wouldn't advise it. Everyone has certain narcissistic traits and only a true psychiatrist could ever diagnose NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) which is the condition you're probably reading about. This guy is toxic for you. Unless you empower yourself, which goes along w/ Pathfinder's advice, you are not equipped to handle this guy. You do have power and control but you have to center and ground yourself and not be so affected by his actions or inaction.

yes capgirl i am trying, and you're right, just wish i could shut off the brain sometimes, the very gut wrenching vulnerable truth is it just really hurts to feel so insignificant and unimportant to someone that they could just slam the door and stroll away without a glance back. that's the bottom line, the hurt. so yeah it is dangerous to try to find a reason why "they" are so screwed up, it's a feeble attempt to try and feed my bruised ego. it just plain hurts. and the feeling of "doing nothing" sucks, want to lash out and tell him everything i think about him BUT won't because i know it will accomplish nothing and in the end make me feel worse. So the only way i can empower myself, at least as far as he who has dismissed me from his life, is to dismiss him from mine, not call, not search, not make contact...disengage. as i said though, wish i could shut off my brain (and dreams damn it!) had a dream that was really nice about him, and of course that was upseting. So i guess what i'm saying is i have to do "no action" which is the only action i can take, at least as far as he goes. and i don't know about the rest of you, but of course it'd be so much easier to do if i had a couple other great guys knocking down my door to get to me, but no, so must just do nothing and heal and do nothing to open the wound again or pour salt into it.

APW,

Feel me. I'm not trying to single you out. But I've been where you are in a sense.

You are letting your emotions control you instead of you taking control of them. I totally agree with you. In your state of mind, you need to let him go..."disengage"...as you said. However, understand this. When you empty that place in your heart where he occupied, you will need to put something/someone else in it, or else there's a void. If that void remains, you will continually put him back in that "space" b/c it is empty -- and here lies the problem.

APW, put yourself in that void. Love on yourself. Pray and meditate on God?s Word, positive affirmations, universal truths, etc. CapGirl lists some great ?self-help? resources on this thread. Take a look at those as well. Empower yourself and don?t focus on what is missing in your life. Find out why you are such a great person. Get around people who appreciate and value you. Love on your kids. Take the focus off what you lost ? look at what you will gain.

no question argument or problem, you are absolutely right...and time and yes i am doing all you say, think i'm tired, keeping very busy doing exactly what you suggested and feel wiped out, physically, emotionally and mentally. that's where the "wish i could shut my brain off" thing comes in, because i really do need to just BE STILL and relax but the moment i try, the brain starts spinning, and yes i fillit up with all sorts of self help mantras, affirmations etc.....time is a great healer also, and this latest is VERY fresh, it was only monday when i said "no more" see there is progress though, and I'm glad of that, I could have let this drag out indefinetely, and I had enough self esteem to not repeat a scenerio that i went through hell with before.

Dang that was very interesting reading and for someone like me is nothing but ammunition...LOL...A PATTERN....did not really pick up on that one..but you can bet your bottom dollar I will used it to my advantage...you should never give a scorpio ammunition to work with..that is where the stinging and vindictive part of me come in and to find out about all this info which was healthy to me ..just makes me want to sit back and watch and see...but I know me...I am going to lay his azz out if he ever calls me again and if I don't ever be with him again...that is find because what I am going to tell him will hurt his ego and pride and self esteem so bad he wish he never met me..and that is no joke...trust me. I am not mad but payback is a B(*TCH....and that is what I feel like doing right know in a subtle kind caring way...no hold bards....blunt and striaght to the point...I am going to tell him all about him self..in his face when every the day come...and if I don't get him that is fine with me because I don't need that type of person in my life...

One thing about me when you try and play with my emotions...that is where I draw the line..I am a very emotional person...I am very intense, and passionate...and I try to protect that part of me..and to know that they like working on your emotion...(Damn how did I miss that)...it could never happen to me again.

IT IS REALLY TIME TO FLIP THE script...BIG TIME

SL,

Don't tell him off with hot emotion. Revenge is a dish better served cold. Let him know bluntly what the deal is, but don't lose it.


APW,
?? keeping very busy doing exactly what you suggested and feel wiped out, physically, emotionally and mentally.?

That isn?t what I suggest. ?Keeping very busy, etc.? is like masking the issue ? temporarily denying it exists. It isn?t your brain you need to shut off, it is those emotions [attached to him] you need to shut off.

GEG,

I am inclined to agree with you about your "food for thought" comment. I posted my take on this on another board recently. Here it is:

You may be "flavor" of the [third] month. Notice any patterns. This guys are creatures of habit for the most part. If he disappears on you every three months, he could be seeing another "flavor". After her three month tour is over, he's onto another "flavor" -- possibly, YOU. But these are the "trolls" as CapGirl calls them, and you don't want his sorry butt anyway.

However, to be fair, I need to add this as well. These good guys [eagles] could be involved in other matters during the "disappearances" where he can not devote a lot of time to you and may appear emotionally detached/preoccupied. He may not take the intiative and communicate with you or return calls until the [3rd or 4th attempt] while he is dealing with whatever it is. So don't take it personally, but keep in touch with him. Now if he totally ignores you, kick his azz to the curb. When he returns, make it TWICE as hard to get you back. Make it cost him something.

real quickly, my cap guys definetely had many flavors, i know that...not only intuitively, but i had some real evidence...soooooooo...all that said, i'm going back to the masochism thing, need to stop that
and yes stop the emotions.....oh dear god, how i wish it were easy to do that, you know like the staples commerical, "the easy button"
need to stay away from the "if only or what if" thoughts, they are the killers

D@mn! Yall chicks really need a hobby! LOL! *singing like Usher* "You got it, you got it bad...when you miss a day without your friend your whole life's off track" LOL!

And to Scorpio Lady! IF you honest think the Capricorn is going to just lie down let you hurt his ego you are trippin!!! If he doesn't that, then he must REALLY be in love with you. But knowing how I am, if a women tries that on me I would either 1. walk away before she gets started good or 2. DO SOMETHING I MIGHT REGRET LATER!! Feel me!

And to answer a person question in here: I am 25 years old.

How old are yall?

Another secret part of most Capricorn men is that we are male chauvinist. The more feminine you act, the more masculine we will act.

Its a good stroke to our ego if you act like yall need us.

Ok APW! I gave you so tips on your Capricorn man(well your ex soon to be back your man), so give me so tips on how to woo over that Pisces women that I was looking at!!!

Gemini

I bet if you initate the sex alot more, you will get it more than 9X a year!! Way more!

I was born December 22. Right on the cusp!

riffraff, first of all, he's not coming back, there's too many way easy fish in the sea who will take his "trolling" and not call him on it
anyway, i gave you tips...tell her how much you like her, spend time with her, be affectionate, DON'T RUN AWAY IF IT GETS GOOD, stick around and you'll be amazed how wonderful she will be. that's IF there is love between the both of you, and hell, no one can predict that. But if she loves you, she will want to be with you and if you pull the "I"m scared i have to run away act" that's when all the trouble starts. So just be a nice guy, loving and attentive, and i don't mean doormat either. let her lean on you and visa versa, respect and you'll be respected, understand and you'll be understood. Talk with her, don't withdraw and if you need time alone (which we all do sometimes) just tell her truthfully, "honey i need a couple days with the guys or by myself" if she's who you say she is, she'll understand, it's when she can't trust you because you just pull away with no explanation that she will imagine (Pisces have VIVD IMAGINATIONS AND FANTASIES) that you are cheating on her, be truthful

RiffRaff,

y'all are a hobby.

So you mean to tell me is all I have to do is walk up to a Pisces, tell how much I like them, play this nice-guy role, and she will just automatically like me back? LOL!

Now, I've never dated a pisces before, but I doubt that its that easy. Its never that easy with any women. In fact, the "I like you alot, would you like to go out with me sometime" line doesn't work. Period!!

...the hobby being more aptly described as: the behavioral study of an alien life-form. Haha!!

Riffraff-- male chauvinism has no place in the 21st century, and is for the small-minded. With 2 degrees and a six-figure salary, I am not threatened by the MCP (male chauvinist pig) and find that the joke's on him.

How and why are you into astrology, and why did your grammar and spelling improve so dramatically from your first posts compared to these latest?? We will study YOU too, you know, if you remain.

riffraff,
I agree with your comment that cappys tend to have a slightly chavinistic side. I am extremly feminine, with curves, long hair and big eyes, my cappy loves it, he also loves being told how manly he is, and how I like his masculine side: fixing things, watching sports, working, being the strong silent type. He loves when I cook for him, and have his favorite foods/drinks on hand etc BUT he was also raised by a strong, independent woman and he respects women and a varying opinion, he loves being argued with, thus I am ok with this. Ladies, anything to add?

Ok dating a pisces woman, do you have sexual chemistry, do you feel you have a connection? Talk to her, and make her laugh, listen to her talk she is probably pretty smart, if she isn't or pretends not to be, call her on it, most pisces women are brilliant. She will love the fact you are ok with her intelligence, and thing you are after her for more than ONE reason!!!!

Or a hobby like a zig-saw puzzle: once we put it together, we either frame it and put it on the wall as a trophy display and go on to the next one, or we take it apart, put it back in it?s box, and put it on a shelf. On a rainy day, or when we are bored, we take the puzzle out and put it back together again, in a tenth of the time it took us to fix it the first time.

So RiffRaff, if you want a Piscean woman, it better not be for a booty call only, b/c once we figure that out, it?s back in the box for you.

You will never get on the wall.

PF
I am not going to lose it I know better than that...but I know I will do something to F him up just let him know that I am not to be played with....that is the simple part...

Riffraff...

I have stung this man twice in the year and half I dated him and he keeps coming back..the only reason he is gone know because I told him how I felt...told him a changed needed to be made...and he took some space....that is fine...I needed it to ...then I told him I was leaving the relationhip and he said can we still be friends...he has not come to get his stuff yet..and I know it's because he is just trying to find the courage to tell me how he feels and when that day comes, romantic evening and all will be the time I tell how I feel about him and the things he does. He will see a side of me that he never knew existed...one thing that puzzles me is that he said he loves scorpio women...not including the sex...I know it is because of the commnication...but it is also because we are just as stubborn as they are and maybe that is what he likes love, enjoy about me my fiestiness and bluntness and all. but what ever the case may be...He will hear me..I don't care what you say...

Riffraff, i went back and looked at what you first wrote about the Pisces girl and here it is:

"But the what I love about her the most(beside the fact that I get a vibe that she is a certified freak in the bed) is that she never have a harsh word to say about anyone. I've been conversating with her for about one month and a half and she never said anything negative.

It would be nice if anotherpisceswomen give me some advice to wrap her around my finger!! LOL! But since she hates Capricorns now, I doubt it."

So you've known her a month and a half and haven't asked her out? why not...but then i re-read which i didn't notice before, that she hates capricorns, why? I'm guessing she might have some past experiences?? i forgot that part. so as pathfinder said, if it's just for a booty call and i said it also yesterday, leave her alone. if you really like her then ask her out and if you guys start something, be serious and stick it out

As far as that, I agree, Wheretomylady... there's about a foot difference in height betw. me and mine, although I am always in at least 3 inch heels, full lips, big eyes also, straight shoulder length hair, and yes- all feminine in appearance and social graces. I have Cancer rising, so I appear sympathetic, caring and loving (and I am!) but my core is calm, cool and reserved (Cap. sun). My approach to love is practical, cautious, loyal (Cap. venus)...

APW~ he/RiffRaff was referring to YOU when saying "hate Cap. men now..." I found it most interesting that our Cap. specimen has determined that he is "in love with" the girl, after just talking to her a month and a half.

PF~ you're brilliant. Enough said. 😉 My puzzle is slowing coming together but sometimes I just feel like peeing all over it, but then it would be unsuitable for framing. LOL LOL!!!!!