I got played by a cap guy and it hurts!!!

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For me is hard to believe that this whole story is true.. 😕
unfortunately I know one from real life similar like this, well there was no cheating of this kind, just that guy didn't want to have anything to do with his own child despite the fact they had perfectly normal committed relationship prior to that...if I remember well guy was Cap too. He never met his own child and they broke up cause he asked the girl to have an abortion and she refused and raised child on her own
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That’s horrible!! Note to self, don’t have baby with cap
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For me is hard to believe that this whole story is true.. 😕
unfortunately I know one from real life similar like this, well there was no cheating of this kind, just that guy didn't want to have anything to do with his own child despite the fact they had perfectly normal committed relationship prior to that...if I remember well guy was Cap too. He never met his own child and they broke up cause he asked the girl to have an abortion and she refused and raised child on her own
That’s horrible!! Note to self, don’t have baby with cap
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Lool, I was going to say the same thing 😂
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Same thing happened to me. Met this guy, dated for awhile - bang'd here and there. Some girl started "publicly shaming" me on Facebook. Confused, I then learned that's his ex who he got preggo (while they were still together) - and at the time was carrying their child throughout our dating timeline. I did hear rumors regarding it, but my sources were all not too sure about it as well, so I never confronted him. Until one day, his momma showed up in front of my house, asking me to "get coffee" with her after a short introduction. Confused again. She then asked me to stay away from his son, after revealing every story I should have known since day one. I obliged, I wasn't serious with him anyway (as I was still in-love with an ex). Unfortunately, he didn't let that slip away easily. He kept pursuing me. To the point he was determined to rebel against his parents, and take no responsibility for their child. The latter turned me off the most and I realized how much of a jackass he is. Like c'mon, that's the manliest you can get? How ugly. He went total psycho, istg. He made sure to SEE me everyfckngday, showered me presents while at it. Begged and begged for another chance. Must I mention that he and I are both Scorpios? And our exes mentioned above are both Cancers. Crazy.

So how did I get pregnant by him? Tried my best to cut ties and stay away from this guy, but I went full slut with him when I wasn't getting the attention I wanted from my ex-bf Cancer. I made sure to let him know that I wasn't still over that ex of mine, but he couldn't care less. So his way of 'completely getting me back and getting stuck with him' was through impregnating me to leave me no choice. He was even proud of what he has done to me. Bam! Karma did hit me like a lightning. See, I was warned yet my stupid self prevailed. I got served real good.

I got pregnant, yes, but I stood by my agreement with his mum, so I kept pushing him away and pleaded that he get back with his babymomma #1 instead. My conscience was eating me alive. I couldn't stand the thought of bearing his child and him wanting to take responsibility for it while he'd turn his back on the other woman? She was desperate for him and I thought, maybe she really needs him more than I do, so I then disappeared - moved cities away from them. My pregnancy news still broke out. Ashamed, I kept mum of whose guy is responsible for it. I don't know if that decision helped me save some face or made me more of a laughing stock than anything else. I was ashamed because:

1) I got pregnant by someone who got someone else first pregnant in just half-a-year apart.

2) Everyone else was expecting my Cancer ex-bf as the father. I could only wish for it.

3) Young, I wasn't ready for such pregnancy... except that dumbass. He wanted this.

4) ...and many more to mention, lol

He tried to contact me from time to time while I was pregnant, I kept running away... I mean, who wouldn't? He got back together with his first babymomma, and yet he'd bring up about leaving her again and taking me back instead whenever we'd speak? To end it all, I blocked him in all of my socmed accounts since he wouldn't stop stalking. (useless though, he still comes up with ways on how to contact me - even using some of our common friends) Was I cold enough? Maybe, but it's all for the better....or so I thought.

My Cancer ex was nice enough to comfort and support me throughout my pregnancy and even after I have given birth. He couldn't hide his disappointment at me though even if he tried to fight it. He admitted to still having romantic feelings for me and all that, but I greatly ruined the chance to revive our relationship, according to him. Haha great guy for a dumb bish like me

Overall, I was basically left alone, just like how she was while I was present in his life. Pathetic.

So yeah, we really gotta learn on how to NOT play ourselves.

Peace!
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Ok, I have to have some mercy on you. I dated a Cap for 16 months. He was very affectionate in person, on the phone, via text, etc... The guy gave me so much attention that I never suspected he was sleeping with anyone else. We had a lot of misunderstandings and near break ups, but I compromised a lot. (Geez don't ask me why, but when it was good, it was really good.) One day he was in a bad mood and treating me like a jerk. I told him that he was too rough for me, that I am too sensitive to be his whipping post and that it was over. When he was getting out of my car he threw the last gift I had given him into my car and slammed the door. It was a bad scene. Several months later I came across a letter he had written me (it was a full out love letter) and mailed it back to him with a note saying that I wished things had ended on a better note and that I will choose to remember a list of good memories instead. Well 2 months later a woman texted me telling me that she is leaving him and that he will probably be calling me now. Huh? (She found the note, searched his phone and the dude was actually talking to a number of women while he was with her/ and probably me too.) I called out of curiosity and it turned out she was seeing him the entire time! For 2 years overlapping my 16 months. I don't know how this guy pulled it off but he did. I say that because he messaged me every morning, throughout the day, and before bed every day. If I didn't respond to his messages within an hour, he would freak out and accuse me of talking to other guys. Oh the irony! This woman and I compared our information and realized that he had played us both. Suddenly, the "misunderstandings" were him deflecting from his cheating ways so that I wouldn't figure him out. I was so stupid in hindsight. Girl, it happens and I know how much it hurts. There were signs for me too, but I am trustworthy, and I wanted to believe that someone else was the same way. Duh. With the long history and your strong feelings of attachment, I understand why you chose to believe him. If he is anything like my previous Cap, he is a real pimp, will never change, and for your own self-worth, you need to work on healing from the damage that relationship did to you. Time does heal all wounds. As a funny ending to this story on my end, I have to share that he did try to message me. First on snapchat using two different names. I declined his requests. When he messaged me directly saying he hoped I was doing well, blah blah blah I responded with the video by Big Sean of "I Don't Fuck With You" and a message: ....Stupid ass bitch I ain't fuckin' wit you... Google it. I thought it was perfect. Take that, Beotch! Message today, "I am too good for you and I would never take your cheating, lying ass back!"
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Posted by ItsMeRoman
I don’t know why people don’t have more heart for you but would rather laugh at you and make passive jokes instead.

I don’t know what to say. I don’t have nice things to say about caps in general so anything I’d day is biased.

If anything, you cannot control what happens outside of you. You’re an adult woman and you were what you were doing or getting into. You can’t do nothing about him....

But you can change your life for the better and do it alone like many brave women before you. You’ve got everything this baby needs which is a home and love and a mother that’ll fight for them. There’s nothing he can give you or this baby, he’s already a coward...

Would you really want a coward hiding behind his ex, fathering your child. Nah break that cycle and live a good life.
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Lol wut? Every time I creep on this board I see cap men collecting a bad rap because of caps like this. Cap or not, these men are trash and the worst part is that they give some clear signs about being trash ass mfs the whole way through.

I'm not trying to rag on you, I'm sorry you got screwed over like that, but you fuck around and still catch a baby after all the red flags? I want to understand what these caps do to keep you in denial
They are just very good at pretending to be everything you ever wanted in a guy.
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I have importan question? Has your guy ever heard of condoms? Have you heard of them? Well at very least has he heard of "pulling out"?

Honestly I don't get it, guy tells you he got another woman pregnant, you stay with him, then when he backs away you chase him and get pregnant too? What did you expect him to do? How can anyone be so naive seriously? It was all over the place that he was dating another woman whole time that he has no intention in leaving her, what did you expect to happen? That he would chose between his 2 kids? Well he made a choice and are you proud of yourself now? Or maybe you expected that the other woman got him tied with a kid and that you could do the same. Bringing a child to the world for your own selfish reasons that will never have fair time with her/his father cause you sentenced them to it? Honestly I can't believe how selfish people can be and how much they don't care for what happens to their children.

Sorry but I can't give support for such situation, he was a cheating scumbag but you brought it on yourself. When you find out someone is a cheater and scumbag you leave, you don't go impregnate yourself with them.
I didn't know he was a cheater... I stayed cause I thought he was a good guy who so happened to have a baby with his ex
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I have importan question? Has your guy ever heard of condoms? Have you heard of them? Well at very least has he heard of "pulling out"?

Honestly I don't get it, guy tells you he got another woman pregnant, you stay with him, then when he backs away you chase him and get pregnant too? What did you expect him to do? How can anyone be so naive seriously? It was all over the place that he was dating another woman whole time that he has no intention in leaving her, what did you expect to happen? That he would chose between his 2 kids? Well he made a choice and are you proud of yourself now? Or maybe you expected that the other woman got him tied with a kid and that you could do the same. Bringing a child to the world for your own selfish reasons that will never have fair time with her/his father cause you sentenced them to it? Honestly I can't believe how selfish people can be and how much they don't care for what happens to their children.

Sorry but I can't give support for such situation, he was a cheating scumbag but you brought it on yourself. When you find out someone is a cheater and scumbag you leave, you don't go impregnate yourself with them.
I didn't know he was a cheater... I stayed cause I thought he was a good guy who so happened to have a baby with his ex
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Listen until you get into a relationship with a Cap and he plays you, you'll never understand. I don't expect you to anyways!
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
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She's clearly better off without him since he has exposed his true character and proved to be someone I wouldn't want around my daughter. He denied her knowing very well that's his kid... it doesn't get worse than that!!!
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Wow.. he's an asshole. You are a little further then them and don't realize it. Be glad he didn't choose you because you will have to start the process of letting him go again.

A undeveloped cap..is all about there emotions. They are charming tell you the right shit. But they only care about there feeling. These people are not in love with the person they are in love with the idea of the person. The shit they put together in there head. The cap girl is naive..I can bet on it that those two went thru this b4 and will continue on the journey until cap girl get tired or he will leave her and find a women that he infatuated with that will be strict on him. Cap men need no nonsense partners to grow up. Just continue on with your baby. And only deal with him on the parenting level.
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Wow.. he's an asshole. You are a little further then them and don't realize it. Be glad he didn't choose you because you will have to start the process of letting him go again.

A undeveloped cap..is all about there emotions. They are charming tell you the right shit. But they only care about there feeling. These people are not in love with the person they are in love with the idea of the person. The shit they put together in there head. The cap girl is naive..I can bet on it that those two went thru this b4 and will continue on the journey until cap girl get tired or he will leave her and find a women that he infatuated with that will be strict on him. Cap men need no nonsense partners to grow up. Just continue on with your baby. And only deal with him on the parenting level.
Thank you! Most constructive comment I've read thus far. I appreciate it.
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Posted by butterfly30
Wow.. he's an asshole. You are a little further then them and don't realize it. Be glad he didn't choose you because you will have to start the process of letting him go again.

A undeveloped cap..is all about there emotions. They are charming tell you the right shit. But they only care about there feeling. These people are not in love with the person they are in love with the idea of the person. The shit they put together in there head. The cap girl is naive..I can bet on it that those two went thru this b4 and will continue on the journey until cap girl get tired or he will leave her and find a women that he infatuated with that will be strict on him. Cap men need no nonsense partners to grow up. Just continue on with your baby. And only deal with him on the parenting level.
Have you had any experience with such a "undeveloped cap" as you call it? if you don't mind me asking and if you did what was your experience and how did you handle it?
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes they do but they surely can live and turn out just fine without them. Just so long as they have a strong mother raising them.
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Sure is the mother strong enough to raise the baby?
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes they do but they surely can live and turn out just fine without them. Just so long as they have a strong mother raising them.
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I have doubts about the mental state of this "strong mother"

the whole thing is so unfortunate

a woman desperate enough to go after a man like crazy, going to his hometown against his wish, stalking him, literally worming her way into his bed, get pregnant and then waiting for a miracle...

I start to pity that Cap

and the poor baby

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Wow.. he's an asshole. You are a little further then them and don't realize it. Be glad he didn't choose you because you will have to start the process of letting him go again.

A undeveloped cap..is all about there emotions. They are charming tell you the right shit. But they only care about there feeling. These people are not in love with the person they are in love with the idea of the person. The shit they put together in there head. The cap girl is naive..I can bet on it that those two went thru this b4 and will continue on the journey until cap girl get tired or he will leave her and find a women that he infatuated with that will be strict on him. Cap men need no nonsense partners to grow up. Just continue on with your baby. And only deal with him on the parenting level.
Have you had any experience with such a "undeveloped cap" as you call it? if you don't mind me asking and if you did what was your experience and how did you handle it?
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I never was in a serious relationship with one..it was always the beginning stage's of getting to know each other but I decided to stay on a friendship level. It was me being unattracted of the overly sexual undertone they had.

I been around the women and men ..friends and family. The undeveloped ones and the ones who grown out there bullshit.

I have a older male cousin..in his 40s been married for 20 years have 3 kids. He has a whole other situation with a kid of a 6 years relationship with another women. Just a year ago his wife found out. Which I told his stupid ass that he will get caught up and crash. He didn't care ..so wrap up in his pleasures. Now wife left him..getting child support. He move in with the other female...then get his heart broken because this female been with all these men..and he is not sure that the kid is his. Now he is out of her house and living with his mother in his 40s. Let me add he had a great job and own his house. He left his home and change jobs to be with that women. He facing all this shit now.

I have a friend who told me about his pass and how it caught up to him. Which this is a good example of a undeveloped cap who grown up. He was married and mess around on his wife alot...divorce her. And actually went to jail over some drama of some other woman. He grew up change his life. Met a women and remarried. Then years later he found out that he had a total of 4 kids all around ten that he didn't know about. And the 4 different women all was friends of his wife.. He talk to me about the struggles of getting to know 4 of his kids and have to face his bullshit. And also have to tell his wife about his hidden pass.

This the theme I seen with undeveloped caps..living dramatic lives,being clueless,going from pleasure to pleasure,and being naive. A cap true self is about being level headed, having selfcontrol, being reliable, having logic, being rational and practical. They are the disciplinarian. That's with all sign..when they are not developed the sign become the opposite of there true self.

I don't know if you notice this but look at tyrese the singer and Steve Harvey the comedian.. Capricorns ..both of them in the pass had exgirlfriends/wives who claim that they were cheated on and was treated badly. Now that tyrese and Steve are older and crew up some. They write books on relationships..almost on some relationship counselor shit. They show appreciation for there current partner...
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes they do but they surely can live and turn out just fine without them. Just so long as they have a strong mother raising them.
I have doubts about the mental state of this "strong mother"

the whole thing is so unfortunate

a woman desperate enough to go after a man like crazy, going to his hometown against his wish, stalking him, literally worming her way into his bed, get pregnant and then waiting for a miracle...

I start to pity that Cap

and the poor baby

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Shame on you for doubting the strength of a single mother!!! Let me tell you something.. No creature to ever walk this earth is as strong as a woman raising a child alone!! It's no child's play... Now for you to judge my motherhood based on my unfortunate experience with a guy who deceived me and lied about everything says a lot about you as a person. Maybe writing that comment made you feel better about yourself but never make the mistake of judging others at their lowest points in life to make yourself feel better about your own damn self! We are all human , we make mistakes... I'm no exception and neither are you!!
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes they do but they surely can live and turn out just fine without them. Just so long as they have a strong mother raising them.
I have doubts about the mental state of this "strong mother"

the whole thing is so unfortunate

a woman desperate enough to go after a man like crazy, going to his hometown against his wish, stalking him, literally worming her way into his bed, get pregnant and then waiting for a miracle...

I start to pity that Cap

and the poor baby

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and the fact that you are a woman! I pity you! So judgmental and apathetic!! Good luck with life!!
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes they do but they surely can live and turn out just fine without them. Just so long as they have a strong mother raising them.
Sure is the mother strong enough to raise the baby?
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Shame on you for doubting the strength of a single mother!!! Let me tell you something.. No creature to ever walk this earth is as strong as a woman raising a child alone!! It's no child's play... Now for you to judge my motherhood based on my unfortunate experience with a guy who deceived me and lied about everything says a lot about you as a person. Maybe writing that comment made you feel better about yourself but never make the mistake of judging others at their lowest points in life to make yourself feel better about your own damn self! We are all human , we make mistakes... I'm no exception and neither are you!!
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
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Yes she does but she doesn't deserve a father like him. HE DENIED HIS OWN CHILD FOR A WOMAN!! Which part of that do you not understand??!! No child deserves to be rejected and whoever rejects a child is not man enough to be a father I don't care what the situation is... The child is innocent! And I didn't impregnate myself he did claiming he wanted her!
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes she does but she doesn't deserve a father like him. HE DENIED HIS OWN CHILD FOR A WOMAN!! Which part of that do you not understand??!! No child deserves to be rejected and whoever rejects a child is not man enough to be a father I don't care what the situation is... The child is innocent! And I didn't impregnate myself he did claiming he wanted her!
Are you aware how many women lie to men about being fathers of their children? From recent statistics in my country, 1 out of 3 tested examples turned out not to be a father of a child. That's a pretty high statistic. It's completely reasonable for any man to doubt. If you were sure like you're saying you would ask for legal help with the issue. You can't force a man to be with you even because of a child but if you want financial help you can always get it by law if you prove child is his. Simply do the dna test and seek legal help. It would be perfect if dna test would be a must to do right after child is born, there would be way less confusion, lies and tricks of that kind...
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Nobody said anything about him having doubts that that's his kid... He just denied it cause he didn't want to admit it to the other lady. he knows damn well that's his kid! She looks exactly like him
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so this dude will have two wife lol ?
NOPE! I'm out!!
but what about this baby ?
I'll raise her by myself. Love her to bits!!!
A baby needs her dad.
Yes she does but she doesn't deserve a father like him. HE DENIED HIS OWN CHILD FOR A WOMAN!! Which part of that do you not understand??!! No child deserves to be rejected and whoever rejects a child is not man enough to be a father I don't care what the situation is... The child is innocent! And I didn't impregnate myself he did claiming he wanted her!
Are you aware how many women lie to men about being fathers of their children? From recent statistics in my country, 1 out of 3 tested examples turned out not to be a father of a child. That's a pretty high statistic. It's completely reasonable for any man to doubt. If you were sure like you're saying you would ask for legal help with the issue. You can't force a man to be with you even because of a child but if you want financial help you can always get it by law if you prove child is his. Simply do the dna test and seek legal help. It would be perfect if dna test would be a must to do right after child is born, there would be way less confusion, lies and tricks of that kind...
Nobody said anything about him having doubts that that's his kid... He just denied it cause he didn't want to admit it to the other lady. he knows damn well that's his kid! She looks exactly like him
I'm not trying to say you're lying. I'm saying you can always seek legal help with such issues in proving paternity and for getting alimony. But you didn't want that(for now), you wanted him to get with you and to leave the other women. It's obvious he loves her and would do anything not to lose her, so there's nothing you can do about that. You can't force a man to love you, he made it very clear who he loves. So it's pointless wasting more time on that man despite anything that happened about him, you have a child and that should be your priority, not a man who doesn't want you or that child.
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If he really loved her he wouldn't continue lying to her. He would own up to his "mistake" and do everything to win back her trust but the way he is going about it is shady and cowardly and it will catch up to him at some point. I did want him back before he showed his true colors; being that he was a liar the whole time and he is fake ... he isn't who he portrayed himself as to me.. I would have never fallen for him had I seen him for who he truly is.. but hey, we live and we learn! So what I mean to say is that no love was lost there.. I didn't lose out on anything, I'm actually glad he chose her now that I think about it (If this is truly who he is then I dodged a bullet). If anything I gained.. this beautiful human being, my baby 🙂 and for that I'm grateful.